I've only told 3 people that I'm back dancing and I'm only working 1 night a week, an hour away, in another state. One of those people is my friend that I dance with and another is my best friend that has never danced, She has talked about it in the past but I never thought she would. Lately she has been hounding me everyday about it asking me questions and to help her. I don't think it's a good idea for her because she is one of those drama queen girls, I can easily see her causing drama or gossiping and I just like laying low, making my money and coming home. I also don't feel like "babysitting." I'm only there one night a week and every minute I'm hustling and I don't want to feel obligated to take her under my wing. That sounds awful since she is my best friend but that's how I feel at this point in my stripping career.
I also feel like she's doing it for the wrong reasons. She has been saying to me how she needs more money for months and then all of the sudden she buys a brand new truck. I'm assuming she thinks she can just dance a couple nights a month to make the payment. She is basically a single mom with 3 kids and has never had a reliable babysitter. I have no idea if or how she can find someone to either stay until 4:30am or just overnight. If her baby's father ever found out she was dancing I really think he would harm her and at the very least try to take the baby and tell everyone what she was doing.
I hate not being supportive but I just really don't want her there. I have tried hinting that I don't think the club is hiring right now because it's slow but she just said well maybe they will hire her because she's my friend. And I explained to her I only work one night a week and have only been there a couple months so that makes no difference. I don't know what else to do really. I share a ride with my friend and Im sure she will ask to ride with her as well. I was thinking of telling her she's kinda funny about that and maybe the thought of driving her brand new truck that far and that late will deter her.
Ugh, I don't know what else to do. I'm sure I sound like an awful friend but besides the selfish reasons, I truly don't think she should walk down this path at this point in her life and truly have her best interest at heart.
Advice is welcome but mostly this is a vent.




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