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    Default Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Bleh~
    so my club I currently work in as well as past places have had the cliques among the dancers & omg is it nonsense! It's like high school all over again with them. I always keep to myself all times but if you make more than them or have a good night, they go as far as dumping shit all over your things (not mine) but another girl's. Do you guys work at a club that has this type of drama BS?
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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    I used to when I was at other places. In my experiences the cliques are much worse at the shitholes. Remember smaller club = bigger drama.
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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    Bleh~
    so my club I currently work in as well as past places have had the cliques among the dancers & omg is it nonsense! It's like high school all over again with them. I always keep to myself all times but if you make more than them or have a good night, they go as far as dumping shit all over your things (not mine) but another girl's. Do you guys work at a club that has this type of drama BS?
    Yes especially in WA where competition s more fierce due to shitty regulations that affect the $$$$ coming into our clubs. Corny drama, spreading rumors and jealousy are recipes for that.

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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I used to when I was at other places. In my experiences the cliques are much worse at the shitholes. Remember smaller club = bigger drama.
    Pretty much this. Atleast in bigger clubs, if someone tries to start with you, you can generally avoid them.

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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Yes!!!

    The cliques at the club are almost like a prison gangs. Get into it with one girl and next thing you know a group of girls are coming for you. This is the downside.

    As much as everyone tells new strippers not to form bonds with other dancers, truth is dancers form bonds with other dancers. Very few dancers work totally independent (never socializing with the other dancers not even in dressing room) from what I observe.

    And I also notice who you clique up with affects how others perceive you. Like you clique up with train wreck dancers you won't get respect from the staff or other dancers. Birds of a feather flock together. So if you do decide to clique up do it with the dancers that make most and are at the top of the hierarchy.
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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I used to when I was at other places. In my experiences the cliques are much worse at the shitholes. Remember smaller club = bigger drama.
    I agree with this too. I've encountered at least one super dramatic clique in a lot of clubs I've worked in but it's easier to ignore or not notice in larger and busier clubs. The tiny little shitty clubs where like mentioned above, there are less customers and money to go around those cliques get more noticeable and can potentially effect you more.

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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post

    And I also notice who you clique up with affects how others perceive you. Like you clique up with train wreck dancers you won't get respect from the staff or other dancers. Birds of a feather flock together. So if you do decide to clique up do it with the dancers that make most and are at the top of the hierarchy.
    YES that. I was very adamantly against even speaking to any other girls for a long time. I worked in clubs that ran 60 girls on DAY shift, so it was a shark tank and you want to make your money and leave. I finally started chatting with girls at my current home club, but they are the veteran dancers that are in their 30s, on good terms with management, don't do extras or get hammered, etc.
    It was a 2-way street in getting to talk to them; I stuck to my rule of not talking, and they also ignored me for a few weeks until they figured out I wasn't an idiot. Keep that in mind if you're ever trying to make acquaintances with other girls.

    It does have the upside that other girls won't fuck with you simply because you're in that 'clique'. I've had girls try to ask me about some gossip, or drag me into shit, and they immediately stop when they see me chatting with the veteran dancers. The bouncers talk to me more as well.
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    ^ Ya I def don't schmooze with most dancers I work with, esp at new clubs I start at. This club where I worked omg the clique was ridiculous LoL. They all had each other on their fb accounts & talked shit about each other to the other one. I always keep to myself & very rarely talk to anyone else but the custys. I try to get my money & gtfo. I def agree that the drama seems to be more fierce in places where the regulations keep alot of the money out or a smaller club that is almost sorta dead most nights. The other staff seem to love to stick their heads into the cliques & see what or who they are talking about or starting shit with. Most of these dancers at my current club don't know what the hell their doing anyways, they'll usually hang around each other all night with the other's regular & not try for dances with any other custys. In some ways it makes it easier to make more money, but other times not so much bc they'll all gang up on the one or two guys in the building and scowl if any outsiders try to come up.
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    Default Re: Do your clubs have the obnoxious cliquey girls also?

    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    ^ Ya I def don't schmooze with most dancers I work with, esp at new clubs I start at. This club where I worked omg the clique was ridiculous LoL. They all had each other on their fb accounts & talked shit about each other to the other one. I always keep to myself & very rarely talk to anyone else but the custys. I try to get my money & gtfo. I def agree that the drama seems to be more fierce in places where the regulations keep alot of the money out or a smaller club that is almost sorta dead most nights. The other staff seem to love to stick their heads into the cliques & see what or who they are talking about or starting shit with. Most of these dancers at my current club don't know what the hell their doing anyways, they'll usually hang around each other all night with the other's regular & not try for dances with any other custys. In some ways it makes it easier to make more money, but other times not so much bc they'll all gang up on the one or two guys in the building and scowl if any outsiders try to come up.
    Are you at a new club now or are you talking about the one you've been working at?

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