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    Hey ladies,
    I need some advice..this guy wants me to do a custom video for him verbally attacking everything he stands for, looks like, etc..
    Initially when he requested it, I agreed..whatever, I'll tell you your ugly and a loser..especially for 75 bucks for a ten min video. He wanted to send me a description of him to use to degrade him, so he did...

    Now, I'm not so confident in this---I'm seriously afraid this guy is gonna kill himself to my video or something..

    Here's what he sent:
    My name is Simon and I'm from Sweden. I'm 26 years old and I'm still a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend or been on a date. No girl has ever shown any interest in me. In fact I've never even kissed or touched a girl.


    I have ever since I was born hade enormous problems with all kinds of social interaction. I have never had any close friends and for most of my life I've been more or less completely alone.


    Throughout my whole life people have constantly mocked and made fun of me, especially in school (even adults did it). When I was young I was wimpy, weak and underweight so I often got beaten up by the other kids. I never had a chance to defend myself.


    In middle school I got severely bullied by a couple of cute girls in my class. They noticed that my face blushed and turned bright red when I got embarrassed (and I get embarrassed really, really easy). They made fun of me for this every day for about a year. They used walk up to me, point at me, laugh, push me, making remarks, held me so I couldn't escape etc. and once my face had started to turn red, which usually didn't take more than a couple of seconds, I had no chance to stop it, it just got redder and redder and the more red it got, the more they laughed. I had to struggle to not burst into tears.


    The girls loved to this in front of others. Somtimes in front of our whole class. It was extremely humiliating to sit there on my chair with all my class mates standing around me and laughing their asses of. I hated to go to school because of this. I often lied to my mom and told her I was sick so I could stay home from school. I had trouble sleeping because of anxiety and sometimes I cried myself to sleep.


    I was too scared and embarrassed to talk to an adult. After about a year of daily bullying they finally managed to get me to start crying like a little baby in front my entire class. This is probably the most embarrassing and traumatizing moment in my life.


    I'm still having huge problems with facial blushing. Every time a girl (nurses, cashiers etc.) speaks to me my face turns red.


    In high school I was completely ignored by everyone. I was never invited to any parties, I didn't have anyone to hang out with after school and the girls showed absolutely no interest for me. On Valentine's Day, people used to hand out red roses to those who they liked and of course I was always the one who didn't get any. I had no one to go the prom with so I had to stay home.


    At this time I got depressed. I started to go to psychologists (which didn't help me at all) and I had to take antidepressant pills. I often stayed home from school and got really bad grades. I isolated myself and I got sort of apathetic (I didn't have any energy, I didn't eat enough, I spent half the days in my bed and I didn't take care of my hygiene). I decided not to go to college. After school I decided to stop visiting psychologists and taking antidepressant pills.


    After school I was unemployed for many years and lived at home with my mom. After a few years I started to work with various web related stuff from home (which I still do). I don't make a lots of money but enough so I can pay for my own apartment (in which I live all alone), the bills and some food.


    I have very little contact with the outside world. Somtimes I don't leave my apartment or speak with anyone for weeks. A few times every year a couple of my old classmates calls or visits me (probably out of pity). However I never get invited to any activities or parties. I always stay home alone on New Year's Eve and similar occasions (which is really humiliating). I have no hobbies.


    I masturbate far too much. I do it at least 3-4 times every day, usually more and sometimes I do it up to 10-15 times a day. I always masturbate to femdom porn. I guess the masturbation is a way to relieve my anxiety. Often I can't sleep due to anxiety and then I have to get out of bed and masturbate.


    I'm an ugly guy (both my face and body looks bad). I think my penis is quite normal-sized but unfortunately I have erection problems so I have to masturbate with a limp penis.


    This is really embarrassing to admit but sometimes I watch pictures of cute girls and fantasize about them being my girlfriends and that I'm not such a pathetic and ugly loser. Usually when I lie in bed at night I imagine that I'm lying next to a pretty girl. Sometimes I even hug my pillow."


    I don't think I can do it...could you? He said he's having a hard time finding someone who will be sadistic/cruel enough...

    Sorry for the long post..I just genuinely don't know what I should do..

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    Default Re: Need advice-custom verbal humiliation

    I used to get a lot of similar requests when I was findomming. You're the one who has actually interacted with him so if you have the gut feeling that something might go wrong, then don't do it. However, in my experience these guys usually just have a humiliation fetish and they're not looking to find an excuse to kill themselves. Personally, I really enjoy humiliating and abusing subs who have a fetish for that sort of thing and $75 for a custom clip is pretty good. Scripting a 10-minute clip can be sometimes difficult though! Let us know how it works out.

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    Thats a lot to read, I wouldn't have accepted $75 for all that mess. Theres no way to squeeze all of that into one video, if that's what he expects. I could make that style of video easily (humiliation) while pointing out a few things he mentioned, but it wouldn't be $75.

    Quote Originally Posted by Alexispearl View Post
    Hey ladies,
    I need some advice..this guy wants me to do a custom video for him verbally attacking everything he stands for, looks like, etc..
    Initially when he requested it, I agreed..whatever, I'll tell you your ugly and a loser..especially for 75 bucks for a ten min video. He wanted to send me a description of him to use to degrade him, so he did...

    Now, I'm not so confident in this---I'm seriously afraid this guy is gonna kill himself to my video or something..

    Here's what he sent:
    My name is Simon and I'm from Sweden. I'm 26 years old and I'm still a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend or been on a date. No girl has ever shown any interest in me. In fact I've never even kissed or touched a girl.


    I have ever since I was born hade enormous problems with all kinds of social interaction. I have never had any close friends and for most of my life I've been more or less completely alone.


    Throughout my whole life people have constantly mocked and made fun of me, especially in school (even adults did it). When I was young I was wimpy, weak and underweight so I often got beaten up by the other kids. I never had a chance to defend myself.


    In middle school I got severely bullied by a couple of cute girls in my class. They noticed that my face blushed and turned bright red when I got embarrassed (and I get embarrassed really, really easy). They made fun of me for this every day for about a year. They used walk up to me, point at me, laugh, push me, making remarks, held me so I couldn't escape etc. and once my face had started to turn red, which usually didn't take more than a couple of seconds, I had no chance to stop it, it just got redder and redder and the more red it got, the more they laughed. I had to struggle to not burst into tears.


    The girls loved to this in front of others. Somtimes in front of our whole class. It was extremely humiliating to sit there on my chair with all my class mates standing around me and laughing their asses of. I hated to go to school because of this. I often lied to my mom and told her I was sick so I could stay home from school. I had trouble sleeping because of anxiety and sometimes I cried myself to sleep.


    I was too scared and embarrassed to talk to an adult. After about a year of daily bullying they finally managed to get me to start crying like a little baby in front my entire class. This is probably the most embarrassing and traumatizing moment in my life.


    I'm still having huge problems with facial blushing. Every time a girl (nurses, cashiers etc.) speaks to me my face turns red.


    In high school I was completely ignored by everyone. I was never invited to any parties, I didn't have anyone to hang out with after school and the girls showed absolutely no interest for me. On Valentine's Day, people used to hand out red roses to those who they liked and of course I was always the one who didn't get any. I had no one to go the prom with so I had to stay home.


    At this time I got depressed. I started to go to psychologists (which didn't help me at all) and I had to take antidepressant pills. I often stayed home from school and got really bad grades. I isolated myself and I got sort of apathetic (I didn't have any energy, I didn't eat enough, I spent half the days in my bed and I didn't take care of my hygiene). I decided not to go to college. After school I decided to stop visiting psychologists and taking antidepressant pills.


    After school I was unemployed for many years and lived at home with my mom. After a few years I started to work with various web related stuff from home (which I still do). I don't make a lots of money but enough so I can pay for my own apartment (in which I live all alone), the bills and some food.


    I have very little contact with the outside world. Somtimes I don't leave my apartment or speak with anyone for weeks. A few times every year a couple of my old classmates calls or visits me (probably out of pity). However I never get invited to any activities or parties. I always stay home alone on New Year's Eve and similar occasions (which is really humiliating). I have no hobbies.


    I masturbate far too much. I do it at least 3-4 times every day, usually more and sometimes I do it up to 10-15 times a day. I always masturbate to femdom porn. I guess the masturbation is a way to relieve my anxiety. Often I can't sleep due to anxiety and then I have to get out of bed and masturbate.


    I'm an ugly guy (both my face and body looks bad). I think my penis is quite normal-sized but unfortunately I have erection problems so I have to masturbate with a limp penis.


    This is really embarrassing to admit but sometimes I watch pictures of cute girls and fantasize about them being my girlfriends and that I'm not such a pathetic and ugly loser. Usually when I lie in bed at night I imagine that I'm lying next to a pretty girl. Sometimes I even hug my pillow."


    I don't think I can do it...could you? He said he's having a hard time finding someone who will be sadistic/cruel enough...

    Sorry for the long post..I just genuinely don't know what I should do..
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    I have one guy that I talk to and I swear it always sounds like he's going to off himself at every moment. He's just a weirdo and likes being needy and depressed. I wouldn't push anyone too far or farther than I think they can handle though.

    I would tell him that you will use some information from what he sent you and make a video out of it, but in the future I would make them send me the necessary information before accepting it. I never let anyone just send me requests that say just a couple things, it has to be detailed with all of the specifics or I won't do it.

    I wouldn't worry too much, it seems like he just wants it as personal as possible so he knows he's a loser.

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    Thanks, everyone...I'm gonna go ahead and do it..and hope that I don't read a news article "Swedish man commits suicide to humiliation porn" or "amatuer porn model humiliated a man to suicide" lol...

    It's my first custom like this...most just want sph, or "caught spying confrontation"..I didn't know what to think when I read it..

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    Maybe I'm jaded, but I kinda doubt the autobiography he wrote there is even real. Definitely has a "typed with one hand" vibe to me lol. There are tons of guys who are in to extreme humiliation. This is definitely not out of the norm. BUT if you really feel uncomfortable please don't do it. It's not worth the stress and anxiety (I speak from experience).


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    It's funny you say that--I asked for advice from my friend--and she though it was too scripted, too detailed to be real...she thought he was full of shit...and that I should do it, knowing that it's a story..a fantasy..not reality.

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    Yeah a LOT of guys will do that. They just get off on typing up some crazy fantasy and making you read it. Some of them do actually end up purchasing a show or video, but it usually screams "freeloader" to me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by justsometwat View Post
    I have one guy that I talk to and I swear it always sounds like he's going to off himself at every moment. He's just a weirdo and likes being needy and depressed. I wouldn't push anyone too far or farther than I think they can handle though.

    I would tell him that you will use some information from what he sent you and make a video out of it, but in the future I would make them send me the necessary information before accepting it. I never let anyone just send me requests that say just a couple things, it has to be detailed with all of the specifics or I won't do it.

    I wouldn't worry too much, it seems like he just wants it as personal as possible so he knows he's a loser.
    I am being completely useless here, but I fucking love Simon's Cat. :-D

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    Yeah a LOT of guys will do that. They just get off on typing up some crazy fantasy and making you read it. Some of them do actually end up purchasing a show or video, but it usually screams "freeloader" to me.
    This was my first thought too. Most guys who send me emails like this never even buy. They just talk about buying or try to use some type of payment method where it's easy to do a chargeback.

    Alexispearl, I hope you have gotten payment in full before even starting on the video! $75 is cheap so he is getting a bargain. (Most custom prices I've seen start at 10 per minute and go up from there).


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