Soo I started at a new club about a week ago. I've been dancing a little over a year and have never had any enemies or even small arguments with another girl.
Well tonight, at the end of the last song of my stage set, one of the customers said he wanted to go do some dances. I said okay, grabbed my ones and lingerie and walked over to him. Well, as I'm coming over, the next girl comes on stage and it just so happens he's the first guy she approaches. She immediately goes over and starts dancing in his lap (I don't think this was intentional, it seemed she was just doing her set). I sat down at the table right by the stage for him since he had told me he was ready, but wasn't actually at her stage or talking to him. I got the impression he didn't want to rudely walk away from her as she was dancing in his lap, but was obviously ready to go since he had literally just told me that.
He then looks over and calls me down to sit at the girl's rack with him. I told him I didn't think that was allowed, but he assured me girls did this all the time. Earlier in the night, I had actually seen a few dancers chilling and tipping at other girls' stages, plus this guy was apparently a well-known regular, so I assumed he was correct.
Well, as soon as I sit down at her rack the bouncer comes over and tells me I can't do that. I felt bad/embarrassed and walked away to grab a drink. As soon as she gets off stage, I walk over to apologize and explain that I was confused by what he said and wasn't trying to be malicious towards her. She in turn gets really pissed, and flat out accuses me of trying to steal her customer. Her response exactly "Honey I've been dancing for 19 years. I know the difference between when a bitch is trying to wait and steal my customer versus what you're saying you were doing." I then said "No, that's not it at all, you can ask him yourself - it was a misunderstanding and I'm sorry." She then said "You're making this a far bigger deal than it is. You should have waited until I was in the dressing room to apologize, instead you apologize in front of the customer and drag him into it. Now you're causing a scene."
At this point I was just annoyed. I said "Actually you're the one causing the scene by bitching at me when I was trying to say sorry. Forget I even apologized, I take it back" and walked away. She muttered something but I didn't hear.
I actually felt terrible at first because I shouldn't have trusted what a customer said over basic stripper etiquette, I realize this was a dumb bitch move. At the same time it was an honest mistake and I felt she was unnecessarily bitchy. Should I just avoid her in the future? Was I completely in the wrong?



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She bitches @ you for apologizing?? when she's trying to nab the guy by dancing in his lap

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