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    Default Anyone here work a vanilla job AND dance? +other discussions!

    Right now I work as a restraunt host 10-2 Mon-Fri and I dance Friday and Saturday nights. It's kind of fun having a secret life in a way! 🙊

    Idk if this is bad but I am also flat out honest with people. When people ask what I do I tell them "I'm a host and a dance on the side." Whats to be ashamed about? If I'm not against doing it im not against saying it. It's just funny when people are shocked how open I am lol.

    Would you you consider quitting your vanilla job and just dancing? Personally I would not; the guys are shit here. I can scrape by with a little more than $100 each shift.

    I know of a lot of girls that hate dancing and hide in the locker room until the manager busts in to push them onto the floor. I think it's sad. Yes, this is the job of "desperation" for a lot of people, but I for one like it and it makes me feel weird, like what's wrong with me? Am I THAT damaged??? When I come in, it's my time to party and have fun, AND make money.

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    Default Re: Anyone here work a vanilla job AND dance? +other discussions!

    I work mostly my regular job now and dance once in a while when I want/need fast cash.

    I did actually put my career on hold at one point and just danced for a while, and it was mostly profitable and kind of fun.

    Some people are honest, but I am not and would not tell people I dance. I read in another thread of how if you tell people you dance, they'll just think you're a dumb stripper who bleeds money and will try to overcharge you if you're getting a service (getting waited on/hair done). Or they'll ask you a million personal questions.

    I see it a lot like revealing having a mental illness. If you tell people a very personal detail like that about yourself, you will be judged through that lens. What I mean is, if you're having a bad day, or just not in a good mood, people will figure "Oh! She's just that way because she's probably off her meds." People can be the same way with strippers. "Oh, she's just a crazy stripper."

    You'll see a lot of strippers here on the site do like dancing, doesn't mean you're damaged. Compared to everything else in my life, stripping is a relatively easy job. I know I can go in there and make money and sometimes a lot of it. Sometimes the customers are awesome and if it's a crowd I like putting on stage shows and being complimented for my skill, not necessarily pole dancing either.

    But I used to be one of those girls who did not like dancing in the beginning and only did it because I really needed the money at the time. It was hard to understand how some girls could like it at the time. I had to try to make the best of things, and try to get better with sales and being better on stage. It grew on me over time and I understand some things now.
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