
Originally Posted by
Aniela
When dealing w/ non-English speakers: Have two pairs of eyes in the back of your head instead of just one. Get paid b4 doing anything. Dance super defencively. Also, you will find that many foreign-born customers really do have a better grasp of English than they let on, esp when dealing w/ a dancer like you who apparently still has the big blinking 'I'm too timid to stand up for myself' lights still flashing over her head. Also, body language. NO, along w/ DISRESPECT, are two concepts that translate seamlessly across all languages. If moving a guy's hands away on Strike One isn't an obvious enough message of Don't Do That, being more forceful in both speech & physicality will make it very clear that what he's doing is not ok.
Old old old men, w/ walkers n all: Same as above. Besides, any person that intentionally violates your boundaries -- which, don't kid yourself, is exactly what's happening when a guy keeps trying to touch you after you've told him not to -- deserves to get put in his place. Reaching sm arbitrary stage of geezer-hood doesn't give these wankers a free pass to have their way w/ an unwilling girl in any shape or form.
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