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    Looking into escorting and just wondering, how big of a turn off is it for clients if you need to use lube? I think normally, my sex drive is very high, but Im on effexor and it seriously fucks with my sex drive. I still think about sex but I just dont get turned on/wet at all. Im going to slowly taper off but until then, do you guys have any feed back about that??

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Just say you took benadryl for allergies and it dries everything up but you're horny as he'll and use lube instead of not getting any. It'll make him feel special, like you couldn't hold off on fucking him for a few hours.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Anneliese, ive used the K.Y. jellys "liquibeads" in the past but found the texture was a little sticky. Good to know there's a better alternative!

    Good call on trying to make it fun. I'm assuming all escorts need to use it at some point or another w most of their clients? Hopefully need to use lube often wont prevent me from establishing regulars...?

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    You can go on Amazon and buy yourself a lube shooter or two - they are really cheap and worth their cost 10 times over. Then do some experimenting and find yourself a lube you like that isn't too runny. I think that a hybrid water/silicone lube that's labeled for anal use is a bit thicker and has the best texture. Before your appointment, shoot some lube pretty deep inside yourself, and rub just a tiny bit on your lips for a nice, smooth effect. It will seem very natural, since you will only be mildly "wet" at the beginning, but as soon as you get started, the lube will get sloshed around in there, and it will seem like you got soaking wet as soon as you started fingering/fucking/whatever. Just be aware that you should NOT use the entire shooter-full at once! I find that less than a quarter of the shooter is more than enough for me and will last for a really long time (but I don't normally have problems with dryness). I'd give it a few practice runs on your own time to learn how much is too much and will leak out (although there is something to be said for being visibly wet even before you remove your panties, lol!).

    Once you've demonstrated that you initially "got wet" for the guy, if you need to reapply, I imagine it wouldn't be such a big deal, although I don't have professional escorting experience to back up that opinion. I feel like you can always blame the condom - don't they tend to make lube (natural or otherwise) last a lot less time? It's also nice if you can repackage your lube in a pretty pump bottle, because it's so much less disruptive if all you have to do is reach over, squirt a little into your hand, and then massage yourself and/or him - no grabbing a bottle, clicking it open, drizzling lube in your other hand or onto your bits, etc.


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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    ^good advice!

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Just put a bit of water based lube inside your vagina before your appointment.
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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    I hope this doesn't sound shitty, but escorting does little for me sexually so getting wet doesn't come easily. Not to mention I'm on anti-depressants myself which just adds to the clusterfuck.

    I masturbate a little right before an appointment to get me going. Then, by the client gets to me, I'm horny and wet enough to make it believable.

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Another thing: Be very, very careful tapering off Effexor. I was on it for years and my doctor decided to switch my meds...The withdrawal effects were a BITCH, almost unbearable. Please make sure you're weening yourself off under the supervision of your doctor. I'm not trying to scare you, love. Just making you aware.

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Almost all lubes I've used, including water based, give me some weird reaction so I find that making an excuse (like the Benadryl one above!) works better for me. Or sucking on my fingers while he watches then touching myself - gives the client a show if he's into that.

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    @bomshellebelle ohhh, I am VERY aware how bad it can be. I find opeNing the capsules and removing 10 granules works for me. Keep reducing it by ten is such a small difference but it helps. I've been curious about the method in the link below but it seems like too much up downing to md

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    See if your doctor will give you a moderate dose of Klonopin. Taking it just long enough to help me wean off the Effexor helped significantly. I imagine it could have been worse! Still hell on earth though.

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    Tell him you would love to play with his cock. Lube him up well and jerk him a bit, play at worshipping that thing. Guys love that if you act genuine.
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    ^ I'm not really sure how that is helpful to the OP in terms of vaginal dryness.
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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    The lube on him will be lube inside her. She can always add more.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    Well, I guess that's an option but speaking personally I would prefer more lube than I think a cock can transport. Plus some men may not want their cock played with beforehand/prefer to not have manual stimulation/lube doesnt stick as well to the exterior of a condom; then where will the OP be left.

    I think the syringe lube is the best idea.
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    Default Re: Working as an escort with low sex drive?

    I did buy the syringes, they came in a pack of three and can be reused given that you use water based lube

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