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    Default Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    The managers are almost always on the floor, and I always wonder what they think when I'm on stage? Since I'm new I always feel they're judging how bad I am. I ask all the time and he just says "you'll get better." Or do you think they ever 'pop one' there or are they so used to naked chicks it's nothing?

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    You worry too much about EVERYTHING.

    Some are pervs, some are immune. I don't give a fuck if a manager is looking at me, because I'm already hired. Worry about customers, not what some glorified bouncer in a cheap suit thinks.
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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    You worry too much about EVERYTHING.

    Some are pervs, some are immune. I don't give a fuck if a manager is looking at me, because I'm already hired. Worry about customers, not what some glorified bouncer in a cheap suit thinks.
    I've done 4 shifts... Of course I worry and wonder!

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    They've seen it all. I don't give a second thought to what they think. Customers are the ones handing you money; managers are the ones taking your money. Pay attention to the former and forget about the latter.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Yeah if I'm feeling an insta-lust for the manager. But like mentioned before, it's better to use that energy to focus and have mind on the money vs the manager.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Yeah they're thinking "Damn I'm glad I hired that hot sexy bitch!" Lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Worry about customers, not what some glorified bouncer in a cheap suit thinks.
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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    They've seen it all. I don't give a second thought to what they think. Customers are the ones handing you money; managers are the ones taking your money. Pay attention to the former and forget about the latter.
    http://giphy.com/gifs/slow-clap-dOJt6XZlQw8qQ

    ^^^^^This! You're giving away your power, looking to approval to someone you are paying for a service. Be careful with that because some managers want to rob you, want a blowjob, want things you don't want. Stop showing weakness.
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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Honestly, they probably aren't thinking much about you when you're up on stage. Most of them are too busy keeping an eye on the entire club to stare at and judge your stage sets. Of course, there are the pervy ones as some ladies have pointed out, but they're worth even less of your time and energy than the good managers.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Why do you care what they think abt your dancing? Chill out already. If anything, constantly being all 'OMG how was that, how am I doing???' Could create the impression that you're needy & crave validation, which could inspire a more mercenary personality to try to take advantage of you. As long as you stay off the radar behaviour-wise (no getting fk'd up & causing a shitstorm, ripping ppl off, etc) you've got nothing to worry abt. The only ppl you should be worried abt impressing are the ones who are paying your bills.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Honestly, I used to wonder this as well... But I mainly get insecure when other girls watch me. LOL. I try not to think about it... Just kinda go into my own little world. I doubt the managers are thinking much. ��

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trena View Post
    I've done 4 shifts... Of course I worry and wonder!
    It's totally normal to seek approval from an authority figure (like the manager or even the DJ or the bouncers) when you're new. Stripping is still super stigmatized and it's easy to internalize. That said, know that respect from club staff is almost always completely worthless. Focus on getting money and making yourself proud.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    They've seen it all. I don't give a second thought to what they think. Customers are the ones handing you money; managers are the ones taking your money. Pay attention to the former and forget about the latter.
    Charlie61 is exactly right. The only thing that matters is THP. (Take Home Pay.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    http://giphy.com/gifs/slow-clap-dOJt6XZlQw8qQ

    ^^^^^This! You're giving away your power, looking to approval to someone you are paying for a service. Be careful with that because some managers want to rob you, want a blowjob, want things you don't want. Stop showing weakness.
    This. Stop showing weakness or it will bite you in the ass and hard. Dancers will fuck with you, managers will proposition you, DJ's will shake you down and customers will disregard your boundaries.

    A strip club is NOT an inherently safe place and you can get hurt. Being strong and carrying yourself with confidence and self respect will discourage others from trying to take advantage of you. Weakness, much like desperation, is obvious from a mile away.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    How new are you?

    Your profile lists you as joining in Dec. 2013, so you should have absorbed some information in almost two years. You are lucky to have this site as a reference. Knowledge is power, use what you've learned here.

    Since I was recently hired as a manager last month (after retiring from a LOOOOOONG career dancing) I can tell you what they are thinking about you:

    They want you to make money and pay your house fees.

    They want you to be on time for your shifts.

    They want you to be drama free.

    They don't want to have to send you home for drugs, excessive dancing (extras), or bullying other girls.

    They don't care what you do on stage as long as it's not illegal. They don't look at you except to be sure that you made it up there and your outfit isn't against the local laws. They just want you to pay attention and do your rotation the way you're supposed to. Otherwise, it messes up the timing of the other dancers.

    You will be annoying to them if you are constantly complaining, seeking re-assurance for non-issues, or sucking up.

    I hope that I haven't been too harsh, but I really am trying to help. Remember the old saying that "there is no crying in baseball"? Well, there's no crying in stripping either.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Some people are just not cut out for this job, mentally or physically. It doesn't make you a bad person or a failure.
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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    I started out as a newb who over-thought and over-analyzed everything, and I turned out a'ight. Just sayin'.

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    Stage dancing??! In my club, I'm apparently the most accomplished stage dancer on stage due to the fact that the other 'dancers' on my shift almost NEVER use the stage!

    And this doesn't translate to making awesome $$ most of the time. Seriously, having confidence and flow on stage is fun and great. BUT....the real $$ comes from your hustle and attitude. Attitude is a big part of it. I've been out earned some days but huge dancers with rolls of fat on their back (and I'm not talking booty), because I was in a shit mood & my attitude wasn't working for me!!!!

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    Default Re: Have you ever wondered what the manager think when you dance??

    No. The managers only care if you don't pay your house/tip out. They couldn't give a rat's ass what we do on stage so long as it's legal and doesn't piss off the customers. You're just a cog in the machine, don't over think it.

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