Do you always go to try and sell dances to them when you get off? Even if they look like they're just kicking back and are tipping everyone?


Do you always go to try and sell dances to them when you get off? Even if they look like they're just kicking back and are tipping everyone?
If they're at the tip rail I don't approach them..I try to sell the dance/vip while I'm onstage and have them wait for me at the bar or on the floor.
When youre onstage is the best time. If you wait till your stage set is over, the mega hustlers will have him in vip.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





If a guy is tipping you during your stage set -- tipping = interest. Don't waste time waiting til you're done to suss out just how much interest they might have in you.
He tips you, you thank him as you accept it, then start sending out feelers or better yet, hooks. There is a thread in HH sm where called 'hustling dances from the stage' & numerous other threads discussing the same.

Obviously selling dances to guys while on stage is easier because you don't have to waste your time talking to guys who aren't interested. If they didn't like you, they wouldn't be at your stage tipping you. What I have trouble with is managing my time while on stage. I work at a club where the entire stage seating is often full, but usually only about 10% of those people are going to be interested in buying private dances, the rest are there to VERY SLOWLY deal out 1's to the stage (in my dream world, all the patrons would make it rain constantly all the time). So I have trouble figuring out at what point in my performance is a good time to lean in close and suggest the private time and who gets the spill. Those 3 songs can go by quickly! Obviously, I'll ask the ones who are tipping the most first, but there's not always the guy dropping 5's, 10's, or 20's and it's harder to tell who the most likely candidate is. And a lot of people who like to make it rain come only for that (but I love them just the same, because at least they're still paying for it). Any hints or suggestions?
But for the person who started the post, Don't wait until your set is finished, because the next dancer will consider it rude that you are buzzing around and distracting her money source. If you have to do some negotiating with an indecisive customer that bleeds into the next set, suggest that he tips the performer while you two talk and if he doesn't, then tip with your own money ($2-3 a song should be enough). <--obviously if you work at a club where dances are super cheap, this probably won't be worth it, but we have a $30 minimum at my club, so it usually is worth it.
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