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    I know better than to discuss sex acts with clients. My ads even say "Companionship only", but I still get the texts/calls asking what services I provide. And god damn the dick pictures I've seen over the past few months. *SMH* Don't they realize that once they do that shit, the convo is over? I'm done?

    Financially, I'm on a deadline and don't have time to screen/send pics/chat as long as necessary only for them to blow the whole thing by being a perv at the last minute. Sorry for rambling, but this has happened with every potential client today. And now a few are being bitchy because I'm no longer responding to them. I'm starting to get discouraged.
    What can I do?

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    Default Re: "Companionship Only"

    Do you have a way to block them? If you do, just block as soon as they send something explicit, that way you don't have to deal with worse behaviour later.

    You can try writing "explicit or rude texts will not be answered" in your ad although this will probably not curtail all bad behaviour. It might stop some though.

    I use a phone app that doesn't support picture sending so I can't receive dic pics. I use line2 pro ($20/mth) and it allows me to block numbers. When a number is blocked it plays a message that the number is out of service.

    Hope that helps!

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    Default Re: "Companionship Only"

    Could be the fact you're on a deadline and the stress is getting to you. Maybe relax a bit and think about positive outcomes. Can you get your deadline extended?

    Also could be where you're advertising. Maybe look into other avenues to advertise or other additional avenues to earn money
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    I've been looking into other avenues of advertising, like p411 and Eros (once I get a website). Where I advertise now pays my bills, but its stressing the hell out of me with all the bullshit I've been dealing with. Maybe I'm just getting burned out because the deadline isn't until the end of September.

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    The worst thing you can do is stress about it.It makes things so much worst.Screening is an ABSOLUTE must no matter what.Men are special. Even if you had companionship only plastered everywhere you will still get idiots who will contact you and ask so what happens during the session.

    You're doing the right thing by ignoring the guys who respond that way. Every hobbyist, unless new to the industry knows the do's and dont's.And newbies are a huge risk, don't forget you could be talking to a potential undercover (I dodged one with the app I use pm me If you'd like to know the app). Don't get discouraged,try not to stress & trust the mula will come. Why don't you want to advertise on Eros without a site? Plenty of providers don't have sites that advertise on Eros.

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    Default Re: "Companionship Only"

    Quote Originally Posted by Obsession91 View Post
    Why don't you want to advertise on Eros without a site? Plenty of providers don't have sites that advertise on Eros.
    Really? I thought you had to have a site... GREAT to know!

    Yesterday was rough. I ended up with two paying appointments and one bad egg who tried to rip me off. On top of the frustration from earlier in the day, that guy was enough to make me decide on a break for a few days! I'm thankful for the money I made, but as Arden Moon says "Not all money is good money". If you guys haven't read her book, I highly suggest it!

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    I've been thinking more about the Eros prospect and I think I've pinpointed why I haven't signed up yet:

    Without giving a sob story (I hate pity parties), I am rebuilding my life from the ground up. Literally. I'm at a stage now where I can finally stop worrying so much about making it because I know I'll be fine. But I'm not where I need to be at 28 years old.

    My father is a pig, but built a loft for me on the top floor of one of the buildings he owns. Its comfortable and has potential, but it needs work. The motherfuckers who built this place cut so many corners and left a lot of it undone. I'm stuck with repair jobs I really don't know how to do. Thankfully, I do have men who are willing to help if I pay for materials (which is yet another expense I cannot cover right now). I'm ashamed to bring that certain caliber of man here to my loft in the shape that its in. I tell the clients I have now that its just where I entertain guests and write so they don't know I live here. So far I've gotten by with it.

    I'm also in a position where I've lost a significant amount of weight and my once fabulous wardrobe doesn't fit anymore. I'm having to start anew there too, which is fun but stressful since I'm on that financial deadline I mentioned earlier.

    My social skills are great. I'm attractive, educated, and charming. But, I don't have what it takes right now to be an Eros level escort.

    In October, things will be different. I will have saved enough money to do what I need to do in life so I can pursue a higher level of escorting. The fines will be paid off and my legal trouble will be behind me.

    I swear to god... I take one steps forward and two steps back these days. Its a vicious fucking cycle.

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    Default Re: "Companionship Only"

    Many ladies refer guys to their website where the spell out their rules - no explicit convo, 'or conversation will end immediately', etc... Also screens out timewasters - state they must read before contacting you, that all the info is there, etc. Good luck!
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