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    Just wondering if anyone has any tips for sucking it up and getting on with things, or do you just take a breather and start afresh the next day?

    Right now all i want to do is play Sims because i need to feel in control of something. Its been a poo day!





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    Camming as a grump is probably the biggest income killer we know. If you look like your passport photo, it's time to log off for a bit.

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    I love to play sims whilst waiting for paid chat lol!

    What works for me is logging in and only if I feel like it, (this changes moment-by-moment), I will take paid chat. Sometimes you get a jolt of energy regardless of mood, or at least a more quiet inspiration type of feeling and your mind doesn't have time to argue. At least this way you're making more than $0 a night when you're tired/angry/moody. Starting is the hardest step sometimes. Feelings are very hard to "fight" so you have to work with them. Make it gentle/easy/compassionate and you'll stave off burn-out.

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    Force yourself to go on for 30 min or an hour say. If you feel the same then, log off. However, it might be a good shift and make you feel better, and make you stay longer! You might get a 30 min SPH session and get it all out your system! Xx

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    Two words, hate fucking. I do hate fucking gold shows. Where I just tell people I want to just fucking cum, so stop being a fucking pussy and fuck me already. When the gold show starts, I just swear at them and look into the camera and tell them I hate them. A lot of my regs are in to them.





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    ^^^ How nice! Wow, like this!

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    I generally don't force myself to go on cam if I am in a shitty mood. However, during the last Boleyn camathon I did have to get on cam when I didn't feel like it and what I did was do some aerobic body weight exercises like burpees, jumping jacks and squats. For whatever reason, doing something that I really don't like doing, (exercise), makes going on cam easy.
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    This is why I prefer logging in soon after I wake up in the morning. Before I have a chance to let the day's burdens stress me out I can get a good portion of my hours done and out of the way. I'm always happier in the mornings. If I wake up with bad anxiety (which I sometimes do) then I will wait to log in when and if I'm feeling better later in the day. It's hard for me to keep a consistent schedule because I won't get on cam in a foul mood.

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    I hate getting on cam, to the extent i sometimes go WEEKS without working! But weirdly if I'm feeling shite and manage to force myself on cam I feel SO much better - camming is a really good way to take your mind of whatever the hell else is going on in your life x
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    When my eyes are swollen cause i was crying or i feel too emotional because of ish i dont get on cam cause i know i cant handle being on cam, in rest i get on cam and it feels better when actually camming & interacting with people, u tend to forget problems for a while. I cam at least 5 days a week, i take time off on heavy period days or if i feel sick or if i have important things to do in the morning or if i have family visiting. In rest i drag myself on cam even i feel i dont wanna cam, i mostly feel like not camming because i dont like it anymore. But i do it anyway cause i have to. I find it more difficult to get on cam than camming actually, if my shift is slow i feel not good when done with work, if i have a good shift then i feel happy and go to bed feeling good so yea, we do what we have to do. All the best finding ur ways on cam when things dont feel that good. Hugs!

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    I started camming because I wanted to be my own boss and work only whenI feel like working. That's why I never go online when I'm not in the mood.

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    thanks everyone. Had a huge row with the manthing and im glad i too the evening off, I feel horrible today too but more equipped to deal with it!





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    Unless they want to chat about your life.. then I start sinking into a depression.. Cuz my whole life has been pretty much depressing..lol.. I try to stay off the subject

    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    I hate getting on cam, to the extent i sometimes go WEEKS without working! But weirdly if I'm feeling shite and manage to force myself on cam I feel SO much better - camming is a really good way to take your mind of whatever the hell else is going on in your life x

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    If I'm angry or annoyed I just get on and see how the night turns out. Sometimes a lively room or a few good shows makes it all better. BUT if I feel emotionally damaged (i.e. on the brink of tears) I go no where near the cam room. I once had a night where I felt that way and just kept trying to work through it until I ended up bursting into tears during an exclusive. Luckily it was a regular, but they're not paying to see me like that.

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    I've definitely had a perma bitch face going on this week.
    I logged off this afternoon to relax, get my shit back together, and hop on and try to cam like I used to before using that HD shit and hope it works.

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    Short answer: Domme shows
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    Generally when I get online my fake happy will do until someone or money cheers me up. I would actually suggest that you try and force yourself to do it and online log off once you've tried.
    My avoiding logging on days are the worst.

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    Money cheer me up so yeah I go on cam even if I am upset .Plus I always have regs in my room who will make me feel better thru conversation or tips and forget about irl stuff.

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    The great thing about camming is you're self employed and if you feel you wont be penalised by your boss I say go forth and take a personal.
    Your paid to be someone elses desire, they can get miserable from their girlfriends and wives for free.
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