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    Default My first night

    It went amazing last night at the club. I was nervous but once I got on stage it was like the club faded away and it was just me and the guys watching me. I wont say I cleaned up but I did pretty good. Only did one lap dance and I don't know how good I did but the guy tipped me and said he loved it and that I was the prettiest girl there. Pretty sure i heard him say that to a few of the girls though lol. Still was nice to hear.

    The best part was at the end of the night the woman calling herself the Head Hostess (who is actually the club owner) pulled me aside and gave me some advice.

    This is what she said.

    "I've been in this business for close to 40 years now and I've learned that each dancer has their own style they just have to figure it out. What I think when I watch you dance is this. You are very beautiful but you are also cute, especially in the face. I really think you should work your cuteness. Instead of going for the generic sexy club dancer you went for tonight, or the dominatrix like that girl over there (she pointed at another dancer) you should go for outfits that emphasize your cuteness. I'm talking the school girl or cheerleader outfits, maybe even the sexy geek girl if you can find that. Maybe put your hair in pig tails and if you can do the innocent sweet girl with just a hint of the naughty talk when you are with a customer. It wont work for all guys but there are a good amount who will eat that up like candy if you can do it right. Not saying you have to as you need to find your own style but based on what I saw tonight from you I really think you should try it."

    That's not exact word for word what she said but I have been told I have a cute face before. What does anyone here think of this advice. This woman seemed like she was genuinely trying to help me. Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: My first night

    There was a thread here sm time ago called 'Proposed ban on schoolgirl outfits in UK' or smtg to that effect. I was going to link it, bc it gets into an interesting discussion on the reasons why a schoolgirl outfit might not be a good idea … but I can't find it.

    So I will just say, IMO you should be very careful w/ a look/persona that makes you out to be jailbait, or God forbid, even younger. Tends to bring out a special brand of crazies.

    You can do 'young & cute' w/o wading into barely-legal territory. I worked w/ a girl once who did kind of a sexy bookworm thing -- pencil skirt, lowcut strippery blouse over stripper bra&thong, glasses, high-set ponytail.

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    agreed, those kind of customers can fuck with your head! You can also do cute by doing the right colour choices.

    The big question is though: do YOU want to do cute? Because it is you not her that will be on the frontline....
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    agreed, those kind of customers can fuck with your head! You can also do cute by doing the right colour choices.

    The big question is though: do YOU want to do cute? Because it is you not her that will be on the frontline....
    I'm not against the idea. I will have to give it a try and see how well I do. If I don't like it I can always try something else.

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    There used a girl at my club who looked not a day over 16. She was in her mid 20s but short, tiny, and often dressed to accentuate that -- pigtails, no make up, graphic tees, cutesy panties, etc. There were definitely some customers that were into it, but a lot of other customers would comment on how creepy they felt watching her on stage or asking if she was of age. Her earnings varied, because if there were no customers who were into it, she didn't tend to do very well.

    So, looking and dressing young can definitely be lucrative with the right customers, but going for a bubbly girl next door is probably a more mainstream version of what this lady is talking about. Think fairly natural hair and make up, wearing colours (especially pink), and rocking skirts, mini dresses, and cute lingerie sets. It's pretty widely appealing and you can tailor it to look a bit more jailbaity for the right customer, without alienating those that would feel too pervy getting dances with you. Not to mention you don't have to deal with the constant stream of "How old are you??" questions if you dress yourself too young.

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    Default Re: My first night

    That was the advice given to me when I started. I think it can work, but in smaller doses. ie: don't go full on lolita with pig tails and lolipops and ruffly panties all day every day.
    I've had a lot of creeps when doing that look and one customer admitted to me that he wanted to molest his own daughter which really freaked me out.

    But I think dressing as a girl next door type and having a positive, upbeat attitude, not being TOO naughty and not using a lot of cuss words can work for anyone.
    The lolita thing only works for so long...7 years ago I looked like I was underage but I'm 27 now so probably couldn't pull if off
    The worst is getting stuck in a certain look and growing out of it, but then not having another "Style"

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: My first night

    I think I will try the skirty outfits maybe not so much the school girl. Just give it a try see if I can do it. If I don't like it or it doesn't work for me Ill do something else.

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