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    Default Start tomorrow... not too good at dancing.

    Hey everyone,

    So I start tomorrow at my first club, and I'm not too fussed about my body shape/ looks or talking to customers, reading people and everything. It's more the dancing, which is (obviously) a big part of the job.

    I am a bit awkward when it comes to doing things in a sensual manner for an audience, I can learn if someone else teaches me, but I haven't been able to get anyone to do that and the youtube tutorials are a bit G rated when it comes to lap dances and the likes.

    Is there any advice or help people can give me so I don't look like a fool on my first night? Thank-you!

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    Default Re: Start tomorrow... not too good at dancing.

    Instructional Video thread, for starters. It's either here or in Stripping General.

    Dancing is actually not a huge part of the job, at least not stage dancing -- unless you're at an urban or otherwise stage-centric club. The best way to learn is by watching other girls. You will learn the longer you work at a particular club, what will fly there, what probably won't, & how to adjust your own style to fit.

    It's really more abt finding your own personal style. I am all abt pole tricks myself, not huge on actual dancing, minimal 'ass work' i.e. twerking & the like, & I can also get goofy as hell when the mood strikes me. Others are ass-trick masters, or barely touch the pole & are much more slow & sensual. It's abt what they are most comfortable w/ & what makes them $$$.

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    Default Re: Start tomorrow... not too good at dancing.

    Thank-you very much, i'm half freaking half excited about tomorrow

    I guess i'll only be able to learn once i'm doing it haha and find that video
    Been thinking about taking a few pole dancing classes because it looks like fun!

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    Default Re: Start tomorrow... not too good at dancing.

    ^ Don't bother with the pole dancing classes, read sales books.

    If you really want to there is probably a cammodel on here somewhere that you can pay to watch giving a lapdance, otherwise just fo what Aniela suggested.
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    Unless you're going to work in a stage centered club or urban club pole classes are a waste of money imo. But do what you feel comfortable with.
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    Love the name ! Tell us how you did!

    You can learn to dance. The job is mostly selling lapances and " hanging in " as some shifts move slowly financially at the beginning of shifts.

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    Default Re: Start tomorrow... not too good at dancing.

    I wouldn't worry about the dancing part, for stage at lest. There have been a more then enough times i just walk around on stage. It more about the dances you sell. Just dont try to do any dance moves you are unsure about. Practice at home if you are really worried about it. You will learn as you go. When i first started i was absolute mess on stage! I tried to dance moves that i knew were not going to look good, but i tried. Heh.

    Just dont stress about it and youll be fine. Maybe search youtube for basic floor work. I used to that, and learned a good amount.

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