
Originally Posted by
DivorcedDude
Hi, I've only been to strip clubs a few times, so was hoping for some advice. I try to be polite and respectful of the dancers and don't want to waste their time. I also don't want to piss them off by saying something rude.
So, what's the best way to say no in the following situations, without being a jerk?
1. If a dancer asks if I want company, or a dance, and I don't want a dance from her, I just say "no, thank you" or "you are very pretty, but I don't want a dance, thanks". However, a lot of dancers just sit down next to me without asking. I'll have a nice conversation with her, but I know I don't want a dance from her, so I don't want to waste her time. What's the best way to communicate this without being rude? Or, should I just be nice, until she eventually asks for a dance, and then say no?
2. Occasionally, a dancer will sit down next to me, start touching my thigh, and then start touching my crotch. If I don't really like the dancer and don't want her to, what's the best way to tell her to stop, without pissing her off?
When I go to a strip club, I usually see a few women that are really my type and I want a dance from, so I'm only looking to get dances from them. Sometimes it takes a while until they are available, and while I'm waiting, I get approached by a lot of dancers. I'm just trying to pass this time without wasting anyone else's time.
3. Also, if a dancer is sitting at the bar talking to another dancer, and I want a dance from her, is it okay to interrupt her to ask for a dance? I wasn't sure of the best way to go about this and didn't want to interrupt her if she was on break or something.
Thanks in advance for your advice.
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