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    Quote Originally Posted by Sansa View Post
    If a guy specifically calls another dancer over when a girl is already with him, that should signal to the first girl that he's not interested (unless there's a double dance situation). Why would it be up to the dancer that the customer actually likes to explain the situation to the rejected girl?
    I completely agree. This happens to me occasionally (I've been on both sides) and in my opinion, the customer has the right to choose which girl he wants. I think we would all prefer that they not reject us so blatantly by calling over another dancer right in front of us, but hey, it happens. I tend to think it's best to graciously wish the customer and the other dancer a good night and keep hustling the crowd. The other dancer isn't to blame for the customer's rudeness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Electra36DD View Post
    I completely agree. This happens to me occasionally (I've been on both sides) and in my opinion, the customer has the right to choose which girl he wants. I think we would all prefer that they not reject us so blatantly by calling over another dancer right in front of us, but hey, it happens. I tend to think it's best to graciously wish the customer and the other dancer a good night and keep hustling the crowd. The other dancer isn't to blame for the customer's rudeness.
    That's exactly what it is. The customer being rude and not wanting to tell the girl he's not interested so she can go hustle other customers on the main floor.

    But it could also be the customer not interested in buying dances at that moment (not necessarily that he's not into dancer #1 he's just not turned on). Then here comes mega hustler cutthroat sees potential customer, even though he's with another dancer (dancer #1 is passive and doesn't say anything about the intrusion), whispers in his ear, turns him onto vip, tells him to come with her (he happens to like being told what to do) and BAM! Gone to the back.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    No, this is never ok like the others said unless its just to say hi cuz u know them or if they ask u to join. I once went up to a group with one girl n 2 guys and the girl got mad at me, I was like wtf u can't have both hoe, u gotta pik one!
    Sorry if this is a threadjack, but I think it's still related to the OP's question. I have this ^^ situation where a girl is with two or more guys and gives me the death glare if I try to approach the one she's not currently talking to. In a slow club, where there are really no other options, do you guys consider this okay?
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    Default Re: Is it ever ok to approach a customer while hes with another girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Sansa View Post
    Sorry if this is a threadjack, but I think it's still related to the OP's question. I have this ^^ situation where a girl is with two or more guys and gives me the death glare if I try to approach the one she's not currently talking to. In a slow club, where there are really no other options, do you guys consider this okay?
    I think if it's a group, it's fine. Conceivably, she thinks that she's gonna get dances out of all of them, but realistically, you can't expect a whole group of guys to all go for the same girl, or patiently wait their turn while, one by one, their buddies go back without them. If there's only two guys, some are reluctant to go off for dances while leaving their friend alone. I've also experienced it where if you try to entertain more than one guy by yourself, whichever one you're not talking to initially gets a bug up his butt about how "Oh, you wanted to talk to HIM. I'm not gonna buy a dance now, when you didn't want ME." It actually makes way more sense for multiple girls to team up on a table full of guys. You can get them to cajole each other into going back together, up the "party atmosphere," and not make anybody feel left out. Girls who get mad that you stepped up to a full table that they thought they could magically monopolize are silly. The rest of the group is fair game, and it's actually in her best interest as well if you can work together.
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    Default Re: Is it ever ok to approach a customer while hes with another girl

    Not unless CUSTIE signals over for me to join him even then i get nervous lol

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    Default Re: Is it ever ok to approach a customer while hes with another girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Sansa View Post
    Sorry if this is a threadjack, but I think it's still related to the OP's question. I have this ^^ situation where a girl is with two or more guys and gives me the death glare if I try to approach the one she's not currently talking to. In a slow club, where there are really no other options, do you guys consider this okay?
    Yes, this is completely fine, they cannot be that greedy to think that cuz there at a table with multiple guys and were sitting there doing nothing that were not gonna come over and try the one she's not talking to. Ive had girls act like that too but I brush that shit off, those kind of girls can kiss my ass.

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    Default Re: Is it ever ok to approach a customer while hes with another girl

    I personally prefer being given the option to work 2 guys at once but if the club is empty and another dancer joins us then its just 'tough biccies'. If its a group then absolutely its fair game for other dancers to approach.

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    I confronted my intruder. I didn't want to tell management about it but I couldnt let her get away with it either. She played it off saying the first time she doesn't remember stealing my custy because she had been drinking and the second time she was only making quick small chat cuz she knows him well. She didn't seem to get it, but she said she won't do it again.

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    This happened to me the other day. She's a new dancer and we get along but I still didn't appreciate her coming over to my table. I was sitting with a customer that gets VIPs from different girls (sometimes from her, but he also goes back with me and a few others.) However I used her intrusion to my advantage. She came over to say "hi" and wouldn't go away, so I included her in the conversation for a minute and said "Well ___ is about to take me to VIP so we'll catch up with you later!" I got up, took his hand and he followed me back. lol. I'm going to do that from now on. Thanks for helping me close the sale biatch.

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