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    Default Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Has anyone hit, choked, punched, etc., a customer? I'm not talking about a weird fetish situation where it turns them on, I'm referring to a scenario where you instigated the violence because of something they did/ said, or self defense. Were there repercussions?

    I don't want this to be a judgmental thread, but I'm genuinely curious to hear stories and opinions.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    One time during a lap dance a dude tried to finger me, I said no and pulled his hand away, he said sorry so I thought I would stop, next thing I know he jammed his finger straight in and I wasn't expecting it at all, so I slapped him as a reflex without even thinking. Anyways he apologized lol. There were a couple other times I shoved guys off me who had basically grabbed me to try to ask me for sex and wouldn't let go and I wanted to get back on the floor to hustle. Other than that I've never hurt them, only those couple times as reflexes for being violated.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    One time during a lap dance a dude tried to finger me, I said no and pulled his hand away, he said sorry so I thought I would stop, next thing I know he jammed his finger straight in and I wasn't expecting it at all, so I slapped him as a reflex without even thinking. Anyways he apologized lol.
    Wow what a creep. He definitely deserved more than a slap!

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Only if I'm getting paid.
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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    I slapped a guy across the face for grabbing my ass on the floor. You could hear it over the music from several metres away. Was early on in the job.
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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    ^I also slapped the shit out of a guy for the same reason. He grabbed/slapped my ass as I was walking past (after I'd just had to stop dancing for him because he was being inappropriate). I slapped the shit out of him. Then to hide his embarrassment from his friends who were laughing at him he's like "see I like her, she's feisty." ...yeah buddy too bad you're an idiot perv. Ignored him for the rest of the night!
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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Hell yeah.

    Act like an a$$ and get your a$$ handed to you on a platter.

    I've slapped, punched, squeezed balls tighter than vice grips, and choked dudes because I was pissed they didn't give me all the money we agreed on (now I get money upfront if it's large amounts and or dude is intoxicated) or for touching me without my permission.

    They better be glad I didn't do worse.

    I don't advocate violence because in reality most men are physically stronger than women but it's just a knee jerk reaction when you feel physically/emotionally disrespected. If the bouncer is nearby I'll let him handle my lightweights but if bouncer is nowhere to be found, I take it into my own hands depending how I'm feeling that moment.
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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Ho boy.

    Yes. Many times, & often much more than just a resounding slap.

    Mainly for getting touched inappropriately, grabbed & held onto, or assaulted. One guy had slapped my ass so hard it left a hand print & immediately bruised, they heard it several metres away over the music. I turned round & let him have it right back across the face.

    Also had several instances of unintended consequences, mainly to th customer but also a couple times to myself as well. roll the dice, muthafucka …

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    I love the stories!

    I normally don't do violent things... I've slapped people or kneed them in the balls but nothing too awful. But the other day I was in the VIP with a customer and was turned so my ass facing him. Without any warning he put his wet mouth right in between my ass cheeks. Without thinking, I grabbed his face and twisted as hard as I could. He screamed in pain, and afterwards his eye puffed up and wouldn't open and he had a huge scratch across his cheek.

    I pretended to be sorry and got him a towel for his face and he still paid me, but it got me thinking that if he wanted to he probably could have gotten me fired or sued for assault or something.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    I try to avoid hitting because I don't want to get hit back, but I've scratched, smacked and grabbed guys by the balls and stepped on their dick when they start getting too handsy in VIP.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Oh god, yeah.
    I've slapped/punched/grabbed the throat of many customers who grabbed me when I've told them politely already that they're not to touch.

    The most memorable though was a guy sitting at a table who grabbed my ass every time I walked by. I told him not to nicely, then I told him not to quite aggressively, then when he did it a third time I kicked the back of his chair really hard. It tipped over forwards and he landed face first on the table full of drinks.

    I'm really lucky that none of the glasses broke in his face and that he wasn't hurt, I could have been in so much trouble. It was an instant reaction and I actually feel like a bit of a dick about it now.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Only once. I had a guy approach me about buying a dance, hold out a hundred dollar bill, and then say "No, I want you to find someone for me. Someone with bigger tits and a prettier face." You'd best believe I slapped the shit out of him. Management backed me up.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    I've only gotten violent with a customer out of self defense. The only time I initiated the violence is when I yanked a female custy off the rail by her hair. She was stealing the bills off the stage and putting them in her purse. The bouncer did nothing because she was female.

    I've also "accidentally" spilled drinks on more than a few people. I know it's not violent in the traditional sense, but if a person wanted to get technical it is considered assault to throw a drink on a person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kleptomaniac View Post
    I love the stories!

    I normally don't do violent things... I've slapped people or kneed them in the balls but nothing too awful. But the other day I was in the VIP with a customer and was turned so my ass facing him. Without any warning he put his wet mouth right in between my ass cheeks. Without thinking, I grabbed his face and twisted as hard as I could. He screamed in pain, and afterwards his eye puffed up and wouldn't open and he had a huge scratch across his cheek.
    He sexually assaulted you. Sure he could have called the police and attempted to press charges, but he broke the law first.

    If you are ever touched in a way that would be considered sexual assault in any other environment, it is still sexual assault in the strip club.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Oh yes, several times but they were all warranted. My knee jerk reaction when a guy slaps my ass is to slap him right across the face. That's happened many times. My go to move with handsy guys who won't listen to my warnings is to grab their hands, hold them to their sides and squeeze until I hear/feel their knuckles popping while giving them death glare. I have pretty good grip strength from the pole.

    I've only got in trouble once (just a talking to). I was doing a dance for a guy and he bit my nipple HARD, without even thinking I grabbed him by the neck and slammed his head against the wall. It just happened to be the wall shared with the managers office and he heard the bang. I could tell I scared the shit out of the guy bc he was shaking as I demanded he give me all the money he had left in his wallet lol. He more than deserved it, it hurt EXTREMELY bad and I had a mark for at least a weak.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by catlover0106 View Post
    One time during a lap dance a dude tried to finger me, I said no and pulled his hand away, he said sorry so I thought I would stop, next thing I know he jammed his finger straight in and I wasn't expecting it at all, so I slapped him as a reflex without even thinking. Anyways he apologized lol.
    That is so FUCKING gross I feel so bad for you. Ass and boob grabbing is fairly easy to get over and continue work; if a man did anything like that i don't think I could continue my shift, I'd beeline to the nearest health clinic. I would knock his ass out. Idk wtf is on your fingers dude!

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    I slapped a guy once for trying to grab & kiss me while I was on stage. He got all embarrassed and left with his tail between his legs, so to speak. The managers were totally on my side and laughed about how that loser totally deserved it. As a side note, this job has totally given me the balls to tell guys off or smack them if they're being inappropriate to me!

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    A few weeks ago i was one stage and some young Indian guy came in and started tipping me, he grabbed the bottom of my g string real quick and pulled, almost pulling my tampon out with it, so i kicked him in the face with my 8 inch heels, almost broke his nose.

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    There was a troll thread sm time ago that I think got deleted, where the troll was posing as a newish, churchmouse-timid stripper who 'just didn't have the balls to hit rude guys but was dying to know what it's like!!' They even went so far as to PM members asking for more juicy details. I know you've been round for a bit OP but for sm reason this discussion has been making me think of that thread.

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    Default Re: Have you ever done something physically violent to a customer?

    During a lap dance I told a guy the rules. He ignores one and proceeds to grab my ass firmly. I'm usually with holding of the hips and a brief touch of the booty but he literally grabbed it really hard. So I stepped on his foot with my heel. He was feeling it and was good the rest of the dance.

    Another guy was good the entire dance in fact the first 3 dances he was good so I got more comfortable with him. He told me it was going to be his last dance so to show my appreciate I bent over at the end. Well he obviously thought this was an invitation to stick his finger in my pussy. I jumped up kicked him as hard as i could in the shin/ankle area. Then yelled for the bouncer. He got kicked out.

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    The worst customer I've ever had (though not nearly as bad as some stories I've heard) was this coked up guy in his early twenties. He was a salesman and kept going on about his company and what a bigshot he was. I danced for him for the last 15 minutes of a terrible night and made more money than the rest of the night combined, but he was ridiculously aggressive and kept trying to pull me down onto him/order me around. Sooooo my dances consisted of a lot of "accidental" heel jabs, pinching, digging knees/elbows into any body part I could find, and shoving him around. Pretty much whatever I could do to hurt him and still get his money. But he probably deserved a good punch.
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    I've seriously fucked badly behaved customers up. Like... They had to go to the hospital. If I'm going to get violent, it's always a surprise and it's always going to completely disable the guy, so he has no opportunity to get a shot in. As I'm in a nicer club these days, I haven't beat the piss out of anyone in quite some time. Feels great, actually!

    My all time favorite was the time that a Customer randomly grabbed my boobs as he was passing by to do a VIP. I was sitting by myself, playing Candy Crush and... Wham... Tit grab. WTF! So, I grabbed his wrist, pinned his arm behind him and slammed him face first into a wall. Considering that bouners had to get out of the way, lest they get slammed into the wall with Mr. Grabby, they asked what the fuck I was doing. I made the Customer admit what had done, apologize twice (the first apology wasn't sincere enough) and promise not to sexually assault strippers. I let him go and waved him away. He did his VIP and stuck around afterward, so I made sure to lunge at him, because it was funny to watch him try to scrabble away in terror.

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