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    I think I have officially decided I am going to start blocking all old regs that used to come private that have not been private in months. However, love to come and camp in my room and talk my ear off for hours. Doing so even without the slightest tip! Getting so annoyed with this I think I have been nice long enough!
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    You think that's bad? I had a regular in my room today trying to book his vacation on Airbnb completely ignoring me and NOT spending money on me.. Well I want to take a vacation to mother fucker if you spent money on me! They are so fucking rude.

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    I had regulars that felt entitled to talk to me in free after a show or camp in my room while he's watching T.V. because they paid me in the past.
    I hit the BREAK button and wait until they leave or I block them for a certain amount of time and eventually unblock them and if they continue their camping behavior I block them again. I think it's rude to just sit there and not tip. It's like going to a restaurant and not paying for food. Either buy something or get out. Maybe it's a little harsh but that's me and I block anyone who has given me less than a 5 star rating. I ask them why and if it was an accident I'll give a show again. More power to you.

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    No I totally agree! I don't mind casual convo but like you said feeling entitled to sit for hours and talk to you um no! Especially not when I have other regs who come priv just to chat it's not fair and is wasting my time honestly. I always ask them do you go to strip clubs and just talk with the dancers for hours with no tips? HELL NO! Don't do it in my room.
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    If a guy hasn't been saying anything I'll ask "Are you still there? You're not talking. I guess not." Then I kick him. Most of the time I just ignore the talkative ones as they're probably intoxicated and they eventually get the UN-welcomed hint and leave. A freeloader told me he "doesn't go to privates" and only come to chat for free. I told him I don't do that and he said "Most girls are happy to chat with me for free..." It's because they think they'll eventually get money from you. I wish I could direct those losers to Tinychat or something. Paying customers come to private chat just to have simple conversations...Someone needs to give these dudes a public service announcement or a timer as to how long they can sit in free chat without tipping.

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    I will ask for a little tip, since it's my job. I banned this one dude who would come in my room and talk my ear off about movies. Never takes me to private or joins into my gold shows. Came in on a bad day, started going on how The Visit was a good movie. Couldn't take it. Movie was bad, he was bad.


    I ban regs all the time. If they aren't going to value my time, I won't give them any.





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    almost every single guy i met on MFC tipped me for maybe a month, then bought a lifetime snapchat, and decided this must be like hulu or netflix. unlimited content streaming for free! HA. they started only "hanging out" and being room cops. you know the type ladies...telling others to tip but not contributing a cent. annoying, useless, and foul. so, i stopped offering lifetime snapchat, i grew testicles. I changed my mentality. i keep my lingo generic as fuck unless they tip, pay, and talk. no exceptions. Like Beyonce said...

    You must not know bout me. You must not know bout me.

    the guys who wanna be validated and pretend like they have 'real friends' in free chat using up our time and energy need to be paying the most. they're the ones seeking a human experience. and the last time i checked, GFE's are a high paying gig so NO I CANNOT MAKE YOU FEEL IMPORTANT HERE IN MY FREE CHAT. just like when guys seek free therapy in free chat about their day. You want me to be your therapist? Pay me like one.

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    I have this one reg who comes in daily and tips every time he's in my room. Never goes private but always tips. He stays in my room and chats with me, tipping every so often which is great! However, he sometimes has an attitude and I cannot stand it. He's not really mean but says stupid shit like "If I tipped you as much as I tipped this other model, you wouldn't have given me as much lolol"...

    Wtf. I give him stuff all the time for tips, so saying something like that angers me and I have come close to banning him because some of the rude things he says. I always give him something, so there is no reason for him to act like I don't and say shit that gets under my skin.

    Oh well, I'm just happy he tips every time he comes in. If his attitude worsens I'll probably end up banning him because it's uncalled for.

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    I really think sites need to encourage tipping/spending in free chat. You know those generated hint/tip messages some sites use for models; they should have some for the customers. I get that it's free chat and all but damn... sales stinks sometimes, give us ladies a break occasionally.




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    Default Re: blocking old regulars

    You could ignore them..let them talk to themselves if they won't pay for your time..I am sure other members will get tired of their goofy ass.
    Talk all you want, you won't get shit till I see tips!

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    I've had this issue with someone who used to be a regular with privates twice a week and then stopped. He told me he had to buy a new oven that month. I understand if he hasn't got enough money for privates, I do. The thing is, I have stuff I want to buy too so if he can't tip just a little bit ever, what does that say. He doesn't think I'm worth the price of a cup of coffee? He has a good job in law too.

    I feel like he intentionally said that to keep stringing me along so I stopped talking to him (I understand not being able to do privates if you have a month where you have a tight budget but I don't understand not being able to just throw a few tokens someone's way for all the talking and their time and fun).

    I feel like I've become a bit more harder on this but ... I think I have to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella28 View Post
    No I totally agree! I don't mind casual convo but like you said feeling entitled to sit for hours and talk to you um no! Especially not when I have other regs who come priv just to chat it's not fair and is wasting my time honestly. I always ask them do you go to strip clubs and just talk with the dancers for hours with no tips? HELL NO! Don't do it in my room.
    Well they certainly try anyway- men's behaviour in this industry seems to be pretty common across each job-stream.....
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    I know it's hard to let go of once good regs but you have to do it at times for your own sanity. Sometimes you can make it work in your favor as they'll buy themselves back into your life and the cycle continues.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella28 View Post
    I think I have officially decided I am going to start blocking all old regs that used to come private that have not been private in months. However, love to come and camp in my room and talk my ear off for hours. Doing so even without the slightest tip! Getting so annoyed with this I think I have been nice long enough!
    I do suggest kicking before banning completely.

    I've been able to shake down old regulars by kicking them over and over again and telling them that my time is worth money. They will either start to become hostile and start with the name-calling (which means that I can ban without guilt they have no respect for my time) or they will just stop coming back or they will understand that they have to 'pay for parking' and pay out.

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    This guy came in my chatroom over the weekend and said he was bored. I told him I had a remedy for boredom...take me private. He goes "Naw Im just trying to decide what to do with my new crib and furniture." WTF is wrong with these guys? That line isn't gonna work on a camgirl. Its a virtual space. That's a line you use on a girl you meet at the club or the mall. So i told him "Okay then take me private, turn on your cam and I will give you some pointers. Otherwise I suggest you set it all on fire and get the fuck out of my chatroom."

    I've blocked regulars before. Not many but a few. I don't let them talk for long stretches of time without paying me. Its funny but I've recently realized that when I get shows from my best regulars I only see them when they're buying. I suspect that they're on the outside watching me because they know I will cut it short. If they dont tip or go private I will log off in the middle of a conversation or hit the break button for 30 seconds and then release it LOL It's rude as hell , I know. But I just don't have the patience for small talk.

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    lol yes ladies I just can't deal I have been blocking left and right. Won't tip in for gold shows wont tip in free won't go priv or excl lol it's like um leave me alone already. Why are you even here they have yahoo chat rooms for this or forums uuuugh. Like go private/excl than come chat for few minutes but not hours like ur obviously unemployed and that's why you have hours and hours of free time and no gf lolol. I will no longer except this behavior. Bottom line. Fucking children I swear.
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    It feels like a big slap in the face when guys buy one show from me then just come back to my room to stare at me and talk to me about stuff that isn't relevant to an adult site. I am here to masturbate for money, I don't wanna talk about the weather. I ask them if they are ready for private and they say they just came to chat, I kick them the fuck out because I am tired of this shit. Just leave me the fuck alone dude and sign up for tinder if you wanna talk to girls for free. It might be fun for them to come in and chat but it's not fun to me because this is MY JOB. It is not fun having guys leech off my energy and will to stay online. If I'm not making money I don't get to have a life because I end up staying on cam all night and day.

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    ^^^^^exactly!
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    At this point, I'm beginning to shame them. I will entertain them for a certain amount of time. but If you have NEVER gone pvt, I will shame the shit out of you. If I was a stripper, do you know how much I would get tipped for just chatting away like this. No stripper would give you the time of day with no tips. bc I'm a virtual stripper its all good though SMH.

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    I have a few guy who came pvt only once, and they returning to talk... one of them say things like this: "i ll come, just need to sleep before it" " i ll come, but i m on holiday now" etc, other just come and start to write about his day. I kick them out, in a few minute. I dont know if they like it or not lol, but i m pretty sure they make me feel irritated like that. So that s it.
    I understand if they can t buy a show, or whatever but wanna make me to their "free friend" or "free psichologyst" - no, no way.

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    Clubs have a buy 1 drink minimum. Perhaps sites need a one tip minimum. PER DAY!




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