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    Hello, I've been reading a lot on here about how to get started, the benefits/risks, what to expect etc. I've set up a profile on a cam site (though haven't uploaded pictures or anything yet), and feel that I'm generally quite well prepared. The problem is that I'm generally quite anxious and don't have much confidence, and can't seem to take that first big step of actually going on cam. I'm also having a lot of money problems right now, and can't afford to get nice underwear/make-up/toys/a decent webcam just for camming, and I'm worried that might hold me back from getting customers. I know that once I start and build up my confidence, I'll do well, but I'm a bit crippled by self-doubt at the moment.

    Any tips on how to get over this and just start?

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    Default Re: Nervous about going on cam for the first time

    Obviously you realize camming isn't a get rich quick type of job but you generally don't need the most expensive or glamorous items (panties, etc) to make money. The panties come off anyway and the guys couldn't care less. For about 7 months I worked with a dingy, holey bra and the custies didn't care one bit. They wanted what was under it, lol. If they have something to say about your panties they can tip or go pvt to take them off. As for confidence, you can fake that as well and men love fresh meat. Don't let your self-doubt stop you from logging on and creating a better financial future for yourself. Just log on, once you've made your first dollar you'll be glad you did. Good luck, you got this, girlie!




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    Default Re: Nervous about going on cam for the first time

    Work with what you have and scale up as money comes in.

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    Default Re: Nervous about going on cam for the first time

    I think everyone feels a bit like that when they first get started. Definitely get rid of any ideas of getting rich quick if you read down the forum you will see that the experienced girls with regulars are struggling right now. I have been in the industry a long time but only camming a few months and I thought it would be much easier to make money than it is. Be prepared to put in ALOT of hours and do a fair amount of sitting around. I am only making the money of a decent vanilla job and some days not even that so I would scale down your expectations its really hard work.

    Good luck! You are in control remember if you are feeling anxious turn it off!

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    Default Re: Nervous about going on cam for the first time

    Thanks for all the help, after reading the replies I put some make up on, got my nicest underwear on, and just did it. I feel a lot less overwhelmed now! I can see it gettng easier as I get more used to it.

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    Glad you did it . Also, I don't know if it's the same where you are but there are sales on summer clothes right now which can be useful.

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    This might be against what some people think, but I am camming with my built in laptop camera and it works fine. That said, it is a really good built in camera, much better than the one on my old laptop. I use a desk lamp, and didn't buy any new things when I started. I already had a couple of toys but I doubt that will hinder you too much. Plus, to most guys on these sites, any underwear is sexy underwear.

    The way I built up confidence is by camming on a private-only site first (no free chat). I was super nervous too. Everytime I got a customer, I'd try really hard to impress. Now I know the tricks of the trade when I work on SM.

    Also. Be absolutely sure about what you are going to show and do. If you don't want to show your pussy, don't make excuses to customers who want to see it. Be upfront.
    They will wanna see your pussy. I didn't show it on the private site really, and made excuses as to why not. Still made a decent income. But now I'm on SM I prefer to show it, if I'm fully naked I can relax in my show more.
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    When I started, I didn't even have enough money for a toy so I borrowed money from my sister. Hubby was unemployed and we were living on social assistance which just all went to rent. I went to the dollar store and got some cute tank tops and undies because the clothing I had was so worn out and faded. I spent the rest on a used Logitech c910 that I used with my old desktop computer, no lights, just an overhead ceiling light and natural window light. I remember taking a deep breath, with butterflies in my stomach, and feeling a bit nauseous--then going live on SM. Once I got on cam, the nervousness sort of disappeared and I felt a lot better and just started talking to the guys. I made $50 in about 40 minutes on my first day on SM from a few custies. I was hooked after my first day. I actually still have my very first customer.

    A year and 3 months later, I have everything, pro-lighting, a kickass cam set up, computers, lingerie, toy collection, shoes, makeup...everything that makes me money I take to the next level. I'm also moving soon to a much larger place because I finally have savings. It's not about getting by, it's about doing it the best way possible and staying up to date on the latest self improvement techniques, tech, toys, fashion, beauty etc. It all counts. Cam modelling is truly my passion and I think that is the key to succeeding in this business. If you truly enjoy what you do, you have no choice but to succeed. You know you're on the right path when it just keeps getting better and better.

    You create your own luck. If you don't try something just because it scares you, you won't find out if it is your passion. Sometimes, what we fear, is the exact thing we need to kick our asses into success mode. Nobody truly likes change because it can be good or bad but how else will you know unless you try? You don't want to look back on your life and regret the things you didn't do because you feared the worst. Be aware of the worst, but also be aware of the best. Even if it doesn't pan out, so what? At least you crossed it off the list.
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