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    Default First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Hello -

    I recently had a visit to a strip club and I was wondering about tipping etiquette. For the first dancer, I bought 2 lap dances and tipped her $5 for both dances. Frictional tactics were good, but I wasn't seeing a connection, so I stopped her after 2. Was that appropriate tip for the service received or too little?

    For the second dancer, I tipped her $20 on stage, $20+$10 to sit down and talk for a good while. I bought 3 lap dances, but I forget to tip her for the dances! The second dancer's lap dance was VERY GOOD. She earned a tip, in my mind, she probably thought she did too. She even did a small about of kink. Would she be insulted that I didn't tip her for dances?.

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    Last edited by Dominic.2; 11-30-2015 at 12:59 PM. Reason: Thanks for the feedback

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Dude, I can see that you are genuine but your post is WAY too long! You will struggle to get responses.
    I didn't read more than the first few sentences before I got peeved. Try 2 paragraphs of four to five sentences tops and expand on detail once you get some feedback.
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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Thanks Flickdreams and shanna dior. I edited the post.

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    It depends on the dancer. I don't expect to be tipped after every dance; it's just a nice bonus. Since you already tipped her on stage and to sit and talk I can't see why she'd be too upset about it. Maybe go see her again and tip her after dances? Most guys tip me $10 extra if they really enjoyed it.

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Thanks wednesday86. That helps. It seems that I did right. I would likely buy more dances from her in the future. Money talks.

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Agreed with Wednesday. I don't expect to be tipped but it is very nice $30 for talking/stage set, plus 3 dances, is a good little chunk of change and if you were respectful and pleasant, I'd probably be happy to have danced for you and the amount exchanged.

    Only if a guy is a real pain in the ass will I 'suggest' a tip and then be annoyed if he doesn't... it's my 'asshole tax'.
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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    You are fine! Go back and get more dances. Enjoy!

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    Update:

    I went back and got some more dances. I consolidated my response in my other thread:

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=1#post2822102

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    I don't always expect tips, and don't often get them in my club to be honest, but I'm very happy if I get one no matter how much it is, it's money I wasn't expecting so anything is a bonus

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    Default Re: First visit - bad karma from inconsistent tipping?

    I always say "Tipping is appreciated but not mandatory!"
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