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    Dizzy 3 options, halp!

    i just wanna pull my hair out..i'd appreciate some advice and perspective!
    so some background, got fired from my club a year ago for something i didn't even do.so i took a little break but i went back a week ago to try and get my job back ( because they almost ALWAYS hire back girls they fire, and it had been about a year) and was told the female manager who fired me wouldn't allow me back, which was just a real punch in the gut because this place owns almost all the good clubs in the area and i had been a loyal employee for 3 years.
    sooo my options are :
    a) work at little rinky-dink dive clubs close by and try with camming/clips if that isn't enough.

    b) go into Boston to see if they are hiring (45 minute drive, plus tolls, plus finding a parking garage close-by and paying 15-20 bucks per night for parking in a sketchy neighborhood). they also said things were slow right now, which is weird because its usually good in the fall.

    c) commuting 90 minutes to RI or possibly Worcester for good money. i've worked in providence before and its great money but the drive is killer on both your energy level and your car. i would only be able to work once a week, maybe do a double.

    i'm thick/toned/honey blond except i have a tiny tummy pooch i can't get rid of no matter what and it affects my confidence a bit( i have a kid, so its never gonna look perfect). i only have 200 bucks in spending money right now, i was also wondering if i should get my hair bleached a true blond and get the roots done before applying, or make sure i've secured a job before spending anymore?

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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    That sucks that the club won't take you back. Did they say if there was anything you could do to get hired back, even if only at one of the sister clubs?

    Who did you hear from that Boston is slow right now? Consider the source, because that commute is obviously preferable to Option C. If it's a reputable source, I'd go for C with a mix of A. If you can only work in RI/Worcester once a week, work at the dives nearby or cam to supplement that. And who knows, maybe the dives aren't so bad lately -- or at the very least you can build up some regulars and it'll be decent enough and dependable.

    Also, would it be feasible to rent a car for Option C? Although there'd be an upfront cost per trip, it would help save the wear and tear on your car, so something worth looking into, especially if you can shop around for good deals on car rentals.

    Oh, and I would definitely hold off on getting hair done and put that $200 towards travel costs.

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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    ^ thank you for the reply! no, they aren't allowed to hire me back at any of the clubs if she refuses to allow me to, unfortunately. i called the club in boston to ask whether or not they were hiring and i got " well its really slow right now, but you can come in and fill out an application and talk to the manager and see what's up". maybe that's just the line they give out in case they want to turn you down, no idea..also i've never filled out an application for dancing so that was odd haha, maybe she just doesn't know what she's talking about.

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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    Oh blah, that sucks all around. I guess A and C for now and maybe give Boston a call in a month? If it's usually busy in the fall, it should pick up soon. Fall is busy season up here too, but it's been slow to start. We've had really nice weather though, so people usually stay out of the club to enjoy it before winter hits. Could be the same case in Boston!

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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    Do you enjoy camming? If yes, then maybe work as a cam girl between trips to RI and Boston.

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    Doesn't Boston have really puritan club laws, like three foot rule and everything? I'm pretty sure I've read on the forum before that you can make money there but you'll have to break the rules and risk an arrest. Not HJs and BJs break the rules, but do regular lap dances instead of following the three foot rule. Idk if that risk would be worth it. I would try Providence a couple times and see if it's worth it.
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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    I think you should go super blonde, apply at the RI place and then try at your old club again in a month or so...also camming is a good idea if you like it. I tried and couldn't stand it.

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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    Quote Originally Posted by lynn2009 View Post
    Doesn't Boston have really puritan club laws, like three foot rule and everything? I'm pretty sure I've read on the forum before that you can make money there but you'll have to break the rules and risk an arrest. Not HJs and BJs break the rules, but do regular lap dances instead of following the three foot rule. Idk if that risk would be worth it. I would try Providence a couple times and see if it's worth it.
    it does have those laws, although it depends on the club whether or not they are enforced. my last club didn't enforce it, the girls there did grinding dances and everything..they were probably paying the cops off. but yeah at some clubs its impossible to make money because of the 3 ft law, another issue :/

    and I've never tried camming, but my sister is really good with clips and said she'd help me out..should at least pay for my bills and then i can supplement with stripping. i'm going to check out the little dives close by and if that doesn't cut it, start traveling. i figure start with the easiest!
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    Default Re: 3 options, halp!

    If I were in your situation and only had $200 to spend I would stay local and just deal with the dives/camming until you have more to spend. I mean I doubt you'll leave the dives every shift with no money so even a couple hundred will add up quickly. THEN I would get my hair done if it's really necessary and then travel! I just know that if I had $200 I would have so much anxiety traveling just because you never know what could happen and I tend to think of the worst case scenarios lol. But even like $200 each shift a few times a week will stack up and if you go with option C you can maybe make that a weekend thing and then stay at the dives during the week? Or alternate so you're car doesn't get run down as fast. Sorry you couldnt get hired at your old club though that's so frustrating.

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