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    Default Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    Ok I know there are already threads about dating customers, but what if you realize you like the guy after you've already hustled (and lied) to him? There's a guy comes in maybe once a month I have a thing for. I've only met him twice. The first time we were talking relationships (he was having problems with his gf) and I told him I was divorced (which is true) I just left out that I remarried because who's going to buy dances from a married stripper? I also gave him a fake real name, because I never thought I'd see him again anyway.

    I basically gave him the same spiel I give all the customers. He bought dances from me and some other girls and I never thought of him again.

    The second time he came in he and his gf had just broken up. I hung out with him waaaaaaay longer than I normally would, and realized I was very attracted to him. It's rare for me to be attracted to anyone so it really surprised me. Again he did dances with me, and a couple from another girl and went home.

    Because he comes to the club so infrequently I'd at least like to get his number if I see him again, but is there any point since I've already lied to him? Is it salvageable? I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone right now but I am interested in getting to know him better. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    Did I read that correctly? You're currently married and you lied to this guy about that. But you're looking for a way to still go out with this guy?

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    ^My husband and I split up. But yeah

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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    ^My husband and I split up. But yeah
    Sorry to hear that. I just noticed your other thread. It looks like your breakup just happened. When I divorced many years ago I took a 6 month break just to get my head together before I started seeing anyone. I'm glad that I did that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoRegrets View Post
    Sorry to hear that. I just noticed your other thread. It looks like your breakup just happened. When I divorced many years ago I took a 6 month break just to get my head together before I started seeing anyone. I'm glad that I did that.
    that's good advice. I don't plan on seriously dating anyone for a while, but I would like to get his number since I don't know if/when I'll ever see the guy again, you know? I guess i didn't technically "lie" to him about being married, I just didn't reveal my relationship status. Idk maybe it's pointless to go after customers.

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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    At your own discretion of course... I think if the guy is someone you'll make it past a few dates with he'll understand that it is your work "character" that you were talking about. That make sense?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    that's good advice. I don't plan on seriously dating anyone for a while, but I would like to get his number since I don't know if/when I'll ever see the guy again, you know? I guess i didn't technically "lie" to him about being married, I just didn't reveal my relationship status. Idk maybe it's pointless to go after customers.
    Babe, Im going to give you a law of attraction 2 by 4; give yourself some single time and ask the universe to have him come back after 6 months and him to offer his number if it's meant to be.... give yourself some space after your relationship to really get back to you ok? lets talk about this more in PVT but I seriously feel that you are rushing here, much love k.
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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    I think if he wanted to see women outside the club he would have mentioned exchanging numbers those two times. Since he didn't he may be the type that has wife and kids at home or a prominent career and HAS to leave the strip club affairs at the club.

    Me personally I would wait till he comes back again and get a feel for what he's looking for and have him ask me for the number...but this is 2015 and if you feel compelled to ask then do so. I just like for the guys to take the initiative cause then I know it's THEIR idea.
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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    I personally wouldn't invest much thought into this guy. I know the whole "let the guy make the first move" is antiquated BUT if it was that interested he would have gotten your number. Theres a million reason why he didn't ask for your number but it all boils down to he isn't that interested. Its always nice to have a custie who you get along well with but I wouldn't hold out hope he will be ever be anything more than a custie.I'd focus more on hustling and keeping a clear mind set in the club.

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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    If he became more than a customer, you lying to him is completely understandable and forgivable. But I wouldn't come clean just yet, I mean you JUST met the guy and the thing about strip clubs is that most of the time it's JUST fantasy. He might be lying just as much as you. And I JUST got finished reading another thread of yours... your husband barely just left the house, lol. It's time for YOU time. Booty calls? Yes. Already spilling your whole entire information to a stranger from the strip club and considering dating? No. Just have fun girl. Slow down. I'm not saying it's wrong to date customers but give it some time and utilize your time by making money off of getting to know this dude.

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    Default Re: Liking a Customer, that you've already hustled

    Several reasons why he didn't ask for your number have been guessed. One more of those has been mentioned here countless times by strippers who get this request many times a night - from club experience he knows that you don't want him to ask because all he wants is to get into your pussy then he's gone. You have to let him know that asking you is alright. He will be flattered if he's into you.

    I've asked only a few times when clearly there was a possibility, as mentioned by her, and it worked out. Of course I may be in a minority.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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