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    Quote Originally Posted by izshadow View Post
    Just watched a girl take a sh*t on SM. Nice. SM, new home of public shows and why making a buck is near impossible for many.

    hold on what... how? why? and you stayed to watch? I'm so confused

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    Quote Originally Posted by princess_casual View Post
    hold on what... how? why? and you stayed to watch? I'm so confused
    It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......

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    Quote Originally Posted by izshadow View Post
    It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......
    I think I just puked a lil

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    Quote Originally Posted by izshadow View Post
    It was in free chat for the whole world to see. Had her legs up over her head and she kept pushing and I'm like wtf is this girl doing and then .......
    my god, you should send her your therapy bill

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    Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...

    Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.

    I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...

    Thoughts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by princess_casual View Post
    Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...

    Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.

    I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...

    Thoughts?

    This has been pitched to support enough times for us to assume they just don't want to do it. I've emailed them about it after seeing another girl here in the forum mention emailing them over it but they just sent one of those canned 'thanks for your suggestion' replies.

    MY REACTION TO 99% OF FREE CHAT



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    Quote Originally Posted by princess_casual View Post
    Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...

    Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.

    I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...

    Thoughts?
    I know on LJ, you could click on a members name and see if they are an actual spending member and have money on their account. Not sure if its still that way but it was some years back. I think it would be a great idea so we can flush out the freeloaders and time wasters. It would let me know who to focus my energy on.

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    am i the only one whos computer crashes and freezes when trying to run the SM software? i still have to logon and run it from the web browser. ugg i have fast fiberoptic and a HD cam. my computer seems to be holding me back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NitaBaby View Post
    This has been pitched to support enough times for us to assume they just don't want to do it. I've emailed them about it after seeing another girl here in the forum mention emailing them over it but they just sent one of those canned 'thanks for your suggestion' replies.
    Yeah, I figured as much. BOOOOOO.

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    I take notes on every guy that comes in my room, sometimes I just write beggar or only goes to show for 2 mins ect. I will post a $ sign for the guys that always take me to show. Plus it gives me something to do while i'm waiting to go to show

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    Hi ladies!

    It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
    I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
    I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
    In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
    Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.

    Thanks!


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    Quote Originally Posted by princess_casual View Post
    Okay ladies so I've had this idea and I wonder what y'all think...

    Members can rate us after a performance, yet we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc. Other sites at least have a system that shows you whether a member has money or spent money. There needs to be a way we can rate members after a show or for us to see (such as via font color or by clicking on the users name) whether they are spenders are not. We can see by the 1,2,3 and 4 icons how much a member has spent on US, but how useful would it be if you can tell when a member comes in your room whether he has or hasn't spent a lot of money on the site? That way we know who to direct our energy on.

    I want to pitch this to support (feeling hopeful I guess) and I wonder if I had enough models on board if maybe it wouldn't fall on dead ears...

    Thoughts?
    I don't see any benefit to a customer rating system because ratings would be incredibly subjective. You say "we have no way of knowing which members are spenders, abusive boundary pushers, etc." Say a guy comes into your room and doesn't take you into a show right away, or wants to "get to know you" before going (IMO that is totally reasonable and is often the way I score new regulars, though a lot of models disagree with having full conversations in free chat). I could see how several girls would automatically "rate" him low or note him as a freeloader as a way to "warn" other models. But maybe he just wasn't that into that particular model. That in no way indicates he's not a spender in general. Models have extremely different standards and preferences for members. I'm sure tons of guys that have been blocked by other models have ended up in my room and spent money.

    And seeing how much a guy has spent over time on the site isn't really helpful to anyone either. If a guy hasn't spent much money and it shows on his customer profile, maybe it's just because he's new or doesn't log on much. Or he's just picky, which customers absolutely have a right to be. And on the flip side, just because someone is an obvious whale to another model and has spent thousands on the site doesn't mean he'll spend anything on other models. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    Edit: Once a guy enters your room and says even a few words, I don't think it's difficult to figure out who you should and shouldn't focus your energy on. But I guess it really depends on your general camgirl intuition and the way you hustle and run your room in the first place. Guys who come in and say two words and type like horny teenagers are almost never worth my energy. The guys who want to ask a few questions and not jump straight into private usually are.

    Edit 2: The *one* useful thing I think would be nice would be to see what a guy's daily limit is and how much he's already spent that night. To me that is the only relevant data I could realistically use.
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    When did you wrote her? She's still around. I would suggest writing support first. If you don't hear back from them in a few days then write Liz because she's very busy.

    Quote Originally Posted by MarleyCat View Post
    Hi ladies!

    It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
    I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
    I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
    In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
    Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.

    Thanks!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarleyCat View Post
    Hi ladies!

    It's been a REALLY long time since I posted on here.
    I was curious if anyone knew if Liz was still working at SM?
    I've taken some time off and I got a guy rating me one star because I told him no.
    In the past, I used to just message Liz and she would take care of it but this time I haven't heard from her.
    Wouldn't be surprised if she was on vacation or something, she's always been super chill and there for all my questions in the past.

    Thanks!
    I’ve had good luck with messaging [email protected] She’s super nice and takes care of things pretty quickly.
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    Is anyone else having connection issues because I’ve been kicked from pvt 2x in an hour

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    I see what the issue is. C2C is making my bit go nuts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    I see what the issue is. C2C is making my bit go nuts.
    Yes, I have the same issue. My bitrate goes all over the place when I do C2C, but none of the guys has complained so far, so fuck it. I don't care if I look all pixelated if they still like it. ) Apparently, it shows only on our side, cause all of them said it was crystal clear, so don't bother worrying about it.

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    I was pixelting bad last night and all my speedtest showed it was my end

    just before my internet went to shit, I was having those issues

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    venting: I wasn't able to work much this week because i had my landlord fixing my bathroom floor so I was relying on these past few days to make up for it and I'm struggling not to fall asleep on cam today.... is no one horny anymore? lol. its a snooze fest and Im already getting bitchy towards these broke ass freeloaders.

    whats weird too is its mostly just 1 or 2 in and outs at a time but then sometimes ill get like 7 or 8 people all at once and i get excited but then they all leave just as quick as they came in. am i that hard on the eyes?? lol :/ #stressed

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    Quote Originally Posted by emkato View Post
    venting: I wasn't able to work much this week because i had my landlord fixing my bathroom floor so I was relying on these past few days to make up for it and I'm struggling not to fall asleep on cam today.... is no one horny anymore? lol. its a snooze fest and Im already getting bitchy towards these broke ass freeloaders.

    whats weird too is its mostly just 1 or 2 in and outs at a time but then sometimes ill get like 7 or 8 people all at once and i get excited but then they all leave just as quick as they came in. am i that hard on the eyes?? lol :/ #stressed
    This week has been so fucking terrible for me. Less traffic than June when it was pretty bad. I have no clue what's going on. I'm pretty stressed about it too. I'm doing everything right, but it's not working.

    Hang in there. You're not alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_ShaSha View Post
    This week has been so fucking terrible for me. Less traffic than June when it was pretty bad. I have no clue what's going on. I'm pretty stressed about it too. I'm doing everything right, but it's not working.

    Hang in there. You're not alone.
    thank you for the kind words its def comforting knowing im not alone. i stay positive, put on my makeup and cute outfit and encourage conversation but how am i supposed to hustle when theres no interaction from these dudes? sometimes it feels like its MY fault im not making money and its easy to get insecure about things, at least for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by emkato View Post
    thank you for the kind words its def comforting knowing im not alone. i stay positive, put on my makeup and cute outfit and encourage conversation but how am i supposed to hustle when theres no interaction from these dudes? sometimes it feels like its MY fault im not making money and its easy to get insecure about things, at least for me.
    Girl, it's easy to internalize it. I'm fighting NOT to let it get to me. I too have been positive. I max out on self care, but this is just a really bad week. It's not us, and like you said...if we don't have good paying traffic then we can't work the room. I'm doing more this week than I have in the past and it's just not working. As long as we try then we cannot fail.

    Girl...hang in there. It will not be like this always. Good for you for getting cute and doing what's necessary. For all we know, new guys who stop by are faving us and will come back when they have money. We never know all the reasons for guys entering then leaving without a hello. Stay up. We got this!!!
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    Yes for me aswell was very slow. The past two weeks were good as usual when the month begins but this one, aiaiaia Waiting for the first days of october for things to pick up again for all of us. For me usually end of month is horrible cuz my regular customers come Once a month so the rest of the days I have to strugle, I know we have to turn new guys into spenders but is hard when they dont show interest at all Or are cheap. Send u more positive vibes

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    its been slow for me.
    I did a speed test last night, for hours it acted wonky and got a tech out here today. I had a loose connection outside of my home.
    My speeds are back up to normal but Im not hitting 2.50 bitrate in smconnect using obs it sits around 2.20

    Last night I was pixelating bad but today I didnt seem to be pixeling
    I wonder if my dark walls make a difference. sometimes i think its a light reflecting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AcidYellow View Post
    Yes for me aswell was very slow. The past two weeks were good as usual when the month begins but this one, aiaiaia Waiting for the first days of october for things to pick up again for all of us. For me usually end of month is horrible cuz my regular customers come Once a month so the rest of the days I have to strugle, I know we have to turn new guys into spenders but is hard when they dont show interest at all Or are cheap. Send u more positive vibes

    Yes, turning new members into regulars can be tough. I'm smiling and trying to think happy thoughts. I even did an abundance meditation and negative energy clearing...still bad.

    I hope, like you mention, Oct is much better. I hope all the good I'm doing will result in reward. Hang in there sister...sending you good vibes.
    Sha

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