Slixa sucks. I try to stay away for TER cause some of the men are jerks there. I mainly advertise in NYC, DC, Boston, Jersey, Chicago.
Whats best for DC?
Slixa sucks. I try to stay away for TER cause some of the men are jerks there. I mainly advertise in NYC, DC, Boston, Jersey, Chicago.
Whats best for DC?

Eros is probably the best one. But submitting a copy of my license on their website scares me.



The sugar daddy websites seemed to have quite a few women looking for high-end clients on them.

^ But are there actually any high end clients on those sites?



^ There was a thread about this:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ly-are-wealthy
I'm sure most people are lying on those websites. That being said, there are definitely high end guys there. I tried to use one myself but gave up, too much work and easier to meet women the old fashioned way. The problem is filtering through all of the fakes to find the real ones. From the few women I met from the website, there seems to be a ton of guys that pretend to be wealthy just to get free hookups. Be sure the guy is real before you waste your time.

^Assuming you're a guy, how would you like a girl to make sure you're real. Would you be put off if I bring up my allowance in a few messages and mention the amount I expect upfront if we were to meet? You mentioned old fashioned ways, how else do you meet potential SBs?



I'm a guy. It's fairly easy to make sure I'm real when we first meet. I normally bring a car that isn't very common. I'd rather get the allowance agreed to quickly so nobody wastes any time. I have no problem agreeing to an upfront amount, as long as you're the same person as in your pics. Anyone that doesn't want to talk allowance or agree to specific amounts up front is most likely looking for a freebie.
I've met girls I "date" in clubs (bottle girls, dancers, promoter girls, etc). I've also met girls at charity events, which is a bit strange. I've even met someone at a party in the Hamptons (they were kind of party crashers from NYC).




TER has many guys that comment on every post, but there are many, many more lurkers. It serves as a good 'consolidator' of sites - listing in one place your website, P411, etc and a few reviews to show that you are real. (They no longer post Eros links because they have started something similar and consider them competition... Any other site offering reviews isn't allowed...) You can also post free ads on their regional boards to let people know you will be 'Touring DC on these dates'. Only one ad per week but you can update it, ie a new post under it that says 'change of plans, will be in XYZ town on Friday'...
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I don't know what it is about me that says "wife me up." Everyone wants to choke me or date me. Or both. This job is weird.
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... Kittens are assholes but they're just so darn cute.



Ye Eros is doing the most with this need a photo ID BS. They even require it despite my full face submissions, ugh

What if your information is leaked from Eros like it happened with Ashley Madison? I feel like it's only a matter of time.



That's a valid concern. Also, any DA/LE could get a warrant for information on the website servers. This would include your ID as well as any messages you may have sent. I'm not sure they would waste their time doing this, but during election years they sometimes like to do high-profile busts. Protecting your privacy is very important.



If police officers could arrest sex workers simply for having an ad then they would. Its not illegal to advertise yourself. Which is why you ensure the language is not explicit. Can they use your personal info later in court. Sure. But I don't think they would need it. An undercover bust is all they need.
I'm more worried about another Ashley madison leak than LE bust











PI have to second this. It's an SB site - if the guy doesn't want to talk money easily, and take 5 minutes and get that all out of the way, then there is something wrong. It literally takes 5 minutes to say, let's agree to X, and then you can get on with things. No experienced guy, or 1% guy, will shy away from a financial conversation. We hate wasting time as much as you do. It's the only thing you can't earn more of and can't get back.
Why is that strange?
Ive read a handful of books on sugar lifestyle and each one suggested charity events as a place to meet wealth men open for sugar arrangements.
I posted in the other work about this same topic - one of the girls was worried about the id and face shots eros requires.
Ask rickdugan. According to him law enforcement doesn't distinguish between oppresed sex trafficked escort and women who engage in the consensual typical escorting so a raid/bust would swoop everyone into the same category.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

I don’t know how to tastefully approach the subject of money, I guess I just have to be blunt? Is saying something like this appropriate- “I expect a 4k monthly allowance provided we’re meeting twice a week for a few hours each time.” Or is there a better way to talk about money/time commitment in a sugar relationship? I’m of course implying we’ll have a physical relationship but don’t want to put that in writing in case it’s an LE trap.





That expectation, i.e. the 4K, goes in your initial placement, before you ever meet. If that "scares him away" then you just saved yourself some time. IMHO the "hustle" is around the close, and right before the second time you meet, when it goes from a one time thing to a longer term relationship,



^^ Yes, your financial expectations should be up front along with the amount of time you can spend with him. Also, if you can travel or not is normally important. As Bahuba says, it's all about screening quickly for both the guy and girl. Making sure you have the same expectations. You don't need to talk about sex at all, that's a red flag for me personally. Just talk about spending time together and what you're looking for. The rest works itself out naturally.
miss.a.p1600, when I'm at an event for charity I'm in a bit of work mode. So switching out of that mindset to a different one is odd for me. But I agree it's a great place to meet wealthy men (and women). And you can help out a charity as well!





Agreements about money and 'physical' would the most commonly important things to clear up. But the sex discussion should be privately done, not on email, seems to me (having never pursued the matter).
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.



Just as a side note, contribution to this, Eros asked me for a copy of my license, I sent - then had to contact support for further help - they said their legal team said my ID was fake (which is most certainly wasn't, it's my current license, current address etc and most definitely from DMV) and I was banned from advertising indefinitely. I offered to send a copy of my passport and they said the decision was irreversible. So sometimes might be a better option to just send your passport as ID verification to begin with.



Sticking to the OP.
There is no such thing as a site for "high end" clientele. It's all a myth and you'd be wasting your precious time chasing some "pretty" directory trying to attract highend clients.
Slixia tried to compete with Eros and got their asses handed to them.
Eros isn't what it used to be back in the day. If you want to get the most ROI, make sure you are also advertising on backpage.
"I'm too classy for that", "My clients won't like it", "Only skanks advertise on backpage" - Yes I understand that most "high end" escorts can't get off their imaginary
high horse. If Amy Taylor advertises on backpage, any sensible escort should take that as a sign that there are men on there willing to pay that kind of money. And trust me there are.
There are all kinds of men frequenting backpage. From the truck driver to the Hedge fund manager.
If you do your homework you'll find that more and more highend escorts are placing ads on bp.
Just because you advertise on bp doesn't mean you have to be like Raquanda with the bad lace front and the tampon string hanging out of her vagina.
*made that name up btw* Present yourself in a classy, professional manner and you'll have absolutely no problem attracting the clients that are right for you.
Eros is great in certain cities but backpage is still the number one advertising medium.
Last edited by fbsmgirl; 09-25-2016 at 05:17 AM.
Backpage is essential in NYC as it's one of the few websites that guys can access at work without the site getting blocked by the company IT parameters - eros gets stopped, city vibe, etc.
If you feel self conscious about being on there long term just post your ad for the day, then remove it.
Totally agree with you FBSM.
Eros def gives less hits than it used it or is just so over saturated with girls in certain places unless you pay for premium placement (which gets expensive and doesn't guarantee results) your ad can really get lost.
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