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    Hello all,

    I am new about going to strip club and I have a quick question about how a stripper told me to dress next time I come into the club. I went to a club last night and I had a t-shirt and blue jeans on, and I told the girls I was sorry about the blue jeans but I been out riding motorcycle and it just kinda hit me to stop in. Most of the time I go into a club I wear like khaki pants and a nice shirt, i figure the khaki pants wouldn't be bad for the ladies. Well last night a few of the girls was telling me to come back and next time to wear basketball shorts... I agree with them I would get much more of a feeling during the grinding with the shorts on but that just seem kinda old man perv to me. But I did tell one if I came back to the club I would think about it. So my question is should I do as the ladies ask and go back in basketball shorts or just keep to the khaki pants?


    Also if I could maybe ask one or two more question, every time I go to the club I am always told by the ladies that I am very respectful. I call them ma'am and so on and I don't ever touch the ladies unless they put my hands on them and I have always told them that. I always give them feedback about what I like or dislike how they are dancing on me, it just seem strange to me they keep saying this to me. I guess I don't understand if I am doing something wrong in this area, if I do touch them without them putting my hands on their body I always ask first.

    And last, I keep having the girls after a while of talking to them wanting to give me their numbers. I always tell them no, but the one last night look so sad when I told her no that I almost gave in and was going to give her my number. I do this because I have learn my lesson about giving my numbers out to a lady at the club. She would call and text me and one day she ask me out and I went with her on a date just for her to ask me for money at the end of the night. So since that time I am not to gun-ho about giving anyone from a club my personal number.

    Thank you,
    Potshop.


    Sorry for spelling and other errrors, typing this quickly before work.

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    Default Re: Question about how to dress

    This was literally just discussed. The initial topic was wearing suits, but the concepts covered are the same.

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-I-wear-a-suit

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    Wow. Strippers begging for your number. For a date..and for sweats. Lol

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    Default Re: Question about how to dress

    If you are going SOMEWHERE you should dress well. People send messages by their appearance. If you look you dropped out of the back end of a tall cow, you will not make a favorable impression on anyone.

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    Default Re: Question about how to dress

    Wear whatever you want. In some clubs the sweatpants/ basketball shorts will have the girls going out of their way to avoid talking to you, so be mindful of that situation. Mostly, if you practice good hygiene skills and your clothes are clean, what you wear isn't really going to matter.

    If you want a particular girl's attention, tell your waitress who you are hoping to meet and tip her $10-20 to make the introduction. Alternatively, tip the object of your affection when she is on stage $10-20 then ask her to join you when she's done with her stage performance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    If you are going SOMEWHERE you should dress well. People send messages by their appearance. If you look you dropped out of the back end of a tall cow, you will not make a favorable impression on anyone.
    What's wrong with a clean t shirt and jeans? That looks like he dropped out of the back end of a cow?

    All these threads about "what should I wear" make me shake my damn head. I wear a t shirt and jeans to the club and get approached all the time because I'm spending money. That's what matters. And if I don't get approached by who I'm interested in I stand my ass up and walk up to her and do it myself. I've never been told "I'm sorry, thanks for stopping by but I don't dance for anyone in jeans or a t shirt".

    Ive never worn sweats or basketball shorts to a club before but you can be sure that your choice of dancers will be limited by that though.

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    Wow! These ladies are on a mission.

    Basketball shorts?!?!? .....

    I personally think you should wear the khakis like you planned.
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    Why does this read like the beginning of a letter to the Penthouse forum?

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    Are you a child, that we have to tell you how to dress properly??? Do you have to be held by the hand?

    Leave the gym shorts and sweatpants at the gym, your home, or when you're running errands. Sweatpants and gym shorts are considered BUM attire. Why would you want to look like a fucking bum to go out???

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    Like Vyanka said, NO SWEATPANTS!!!!





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    Jeans aren't bad, but sweatpants are the creepiest.

    It's nice that you're polite. Don't stop being polite.

    Don't give them your number; it's just a hustle.

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    Default Re: Question about how to dress

    Don't wear basketball/gym shorts. Wear actual pants. Most dancers will probably avoid you. The dancers that told you otherwise are idiots or trolling you.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Sweatpants and gym shorts are considered BUM attire. Why would you want to look like a fucking bum to go out???
    This! No club I have ever worked at has allowed sweat pants...ever!
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    This! No club I have ever worked at has allowed sweat pants...ever!
    Me either. Certain attire is not allowed. Thank God. I have never seen anyone walk into any of my clubs with gym clothes on.

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