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    Default Guys Going To The Club Just To "Hang Out" And Other Dumb Shit Rant.

    So in light of my current situation I have decided to go back to dancing and while the club I dance at is actually a pretty good club (one of the best for miles around) I am already tired of the stupid bullshit you have to put up with when you are a dancer. One thing that has been really getting under my skin is guys coming to the club just to "hang out", "chill for a bit", "have a beer", or my favorite "killing some time". I don't understand why anyone would want to just "hang out" at a strip club. I even confront these guys when they say stuff like that and I always get some dumb, sarcastic answer so I have given up trying to hustle those guys. I guess my problem is I come from a time where people didn't "hang out" at the strip club which makes me think strip clubs have lost their initial allure and become just another place to gather with friends and have a drink. Another thing I'll never understand is the guys bringing their wives/gfs to clubs it's like wtf? I don't know but strip clubs aren't what they used to be and I am going to have to revisit my hustle as it seems most guys now a days come in with no intention to spend money they just want to waste my time. Sorry for the rant anyone else experiencing this?

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    Default Re: Guys Going To The Club Just To "Hang Out" And Other Dumb Shit Rant.

    Yea, I've seen guys come in just for a few beers. No convo, no dances, anything. They don't even look at the dancers. They can go to Walmart or a gas station for beer.

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    in miami most clubs are becoming full of these guys. the management doesn't care cause they still spend money on drinks. Can't really do anything about it though...

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    Yep, I am having a really hard time in Phx because so many of the clubs have turned into places to hang out and have a drink. When they do buy dances, it's after a girl has sat with them for an hour, and I think it's more of a pity dance than anything...
    I think they have the mentality that the girls are choosing to sit with them, ergo if they wanted to go make money off another guy they'd do it, when in fact everybody has the same thought and nobody wants to pay for the girls time, and most weren't intending to get dances to begin with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Yep, I am having a really hard time in Phx because so many of the clubs have turned into places to hang out and have a drink. When they do buy dances, it's after a girl has sat with them for an hour, and I think it's more of a pity dance than anything...
    I think they have the mentality that the girls are choosing to sit with them, ergo if they wanted to go make money off another guy they'd do it, when in fact everybody has the same thought and nobody wants to pay for the girls time, and most weren't intending to get dances to begin with.
    I thought it was only on my state where this happens frequently because it's a dry state for strip clubs. It's getting really bad at my club as well, where it seems that more and more girls are doing extreme extras just to sell dances and rooms.

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    Nope, it's a common thread here. I'm sure there's somebody in Phx that will hop on and tell me I'm working in the wrong clubs, but I've been here for 6 years and worked in most of the clubs... There's 1 club I know of with a very quick hustle, and a couple with a 2-3 song hustle that are unfortunately only good during season, and the rest seem to be turning into Cheers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    the rest seem to be turning into Cheers.
    ^This cracked me up!

    I agree though, a lot of patrons treat clubs like sports bars. It's a shame that SC's are less taboo and also that mangers encourage (or at least tolerate) non spender types in order to boost bar sales. SC's are the new night clubs in a sense, also many ppl who get rejected from night clubs end up drinking the night away and camping out in SC's here unfortunately. It's always happened to an extent, but I have noticed that it's becoming worse too.
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    Yup. Same here. This week has been the worse in my area, with a bunch of those guys. Mind you, it's suppose to pick up around October. A bunch of guys just standing around with their beer, not wanting to do jack shit. Human furniture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Human furniture.
    This is my favorite. Girls will ask "how's it out there?" when I come back in the DR and I'll be like, it's all furniture rn

    These guys completely confuse me because idk why they wouldn't just go to another bar where the drinks are half the price and strippers aren't constantly "trying to take their money" or one of the ridiculous lines they will give.

    I find this a bigger problem on weekends. I'm fortunate to work in a smaller club where they cap weeknights, and it's virtually always the same dancers, so we can work as a team to kinda scare these guys off. If you get a bullshit line, push hard for dances and then take off if they say no. If there are enough of them sitting around drinking that you get put on stage, do a garbage show if they aren't tipping. I'm only legally obligated to be naked on the last song, whatever else I do on stage is up to me. Throw money? you get a damn impressive show. No tips? I'm stretching for the whole time, straight up. and not "sexy" poses. If you make sure the club is literally zero fun without spending money on the dancers, they don't come back. And that's fine. I'd rather have the club be EMPTY than full of guys who are wasting everybody's time.

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    Default Re: Guys Going To The Club Just To "Hang Out" And Other Dumb Shit Rant.

    I unfortunately have a lot of guy friends like this. (Well, they're not very good friends anymore - partly because of this shitty attitude). They'll have a conversation where one of them goes "Let's go hang out at the strip club." "Dude, I don't like the strip club. I don't have any money." "Neither do I. You don't have to spend any money on the dancers. We'll just sit at the bar and drink."

    Wtf.... It blows my mind when people who obviously go to a strip club because there's, gee, something different about the SC vs. a regular bar (Hint: strippers) think it's insane for them to part with any extra money to pay for the very thing that made that venue more appealing...
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    I hate when customers buy one dance or nothing then ask for your number!
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    F*ck em!

    I loved the fact about the dayshift how all the girls would take turns wearing the furniture out till they got tired of hearing dance offers and finally bought some dances or just left cause they knew no dancers would let them sit in peace to freeload! Lol!

    Only thing you can do really is just ignore the cheapos and when men with money to spend arrive THEY get your attention. Gotta be kinda of snobby in this sense.
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    These are the guys I like to call "sitters". They dont do anything but sit and take up space and are completely useless. I agree with miss a.p1600^^ the best thing to do is ignore them and act kind of snobby towards them. Dont put on a stage show for them, dont smile at them or make any kind of interaction with them. Men need to learn that you get what you pay for when you walk into a strip club!

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    The club that I'm working now is full of them. Yesterday, A group of three came to the club. I approached them to try to sell them dances, and they all said the just came to drink. They did, 'cause they quickly finished their drinks and left immediately. At least these people didn't turn into "club furniture", they were honest from the get go.





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    the hanging out does my head in especially when they follow it with something like 'oh no im not into that stuff i dont get dances'
    but as for men coming in with their girlfriends/ wives i think its great, but maybe that because i go with male friends and my husband to them? I get dances, as does he its great 'foreplay'

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