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    Default Is DATY safe for the provider?

    Is uncovered DATY safe for the provider? Is this common for providers to offer?

    It seems completely illogical to even do that covered if its even offered. Are there any providers that don't offer DATY at all?


    I realize BBBJ seems to be kind of common in the escort world, and I personally don't think that is safe and would not feel comfortable with it personally. However, I never see anything written about DATY...

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    Default Re: Is DATY safe for the provider?

    Quote Originally Posted by red.velvet View Post
    Is uncovered DATY safe for the provider? Is this common for providers to offer?

    It seems completely illogical to even do that covered if its even offered. Are there any providers that don't offer DATY at all?


    I realize BBBJ seems to be kind of common in the escort world, and I personally don't think that is safe and would not feel comfortable with it personally. However, I never see anything written about DATY...
    Of course there is a risk, but it is more common now for ladies to provide both bbbj and daty since there is a higher demand for bbbj than clients who are okay with cbj and dental dams.

    http://www.salon.com/2012/08/19/how_risky_is_oral_sex/

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    Default Re: Is DATY safe for the provider?

    Yes. I'm so tired of these review sites where the men have control over your business basically because a bad review can steer away men. It's like they expect it now and if you don't do it your gonna most likely get a bad review. I wish all the girls would band together and stop being so GFE but I dont see it happening

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    Default Re: Is DATY safe for the provider?

    I'm a dancer and bodyrub provider, I've considered escorting for a long long time but never worked for an agency. In my area BBBJ and unprotected DATY is pretty much the norm, ALL the escorts working for an agency have no other choice but to offer it. I contacted pretty much all the reputable agencies in the city where I live, they either spent a lot of time trying to convince me there's no risks at all offering unprotected oral sex, or told me it's fine but they cannot pay me as much if I don't offer it and offered to pay me 100 bucks per client... LOLL... I am good-looking and already make way more than that offering only sensual massage and dancing.

    I am personally not comfortable offering BBBJ and DATY for the low agency rates and especially with the number of customers the girls have to see in a day, it just seems too risky for me and I am not willing to take the chance. Girls in my area would offer CIM (come in mouth) and swallowing free of charge, anal for an extra $50...

    The only way to charge good $$$ without giving in to those risky practice would be going independent or seeing stripclub regulars OTC. I guess I wouldn't mind offering BBBJ and DATY if the price is right and volume is low, but for the low price and high volume of agencies is a big no.

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    Default Re: Is DATY safe for the provider?

    BBBJ and DATY are not high risk. It is nearly impossible to get HIV from DATY, if not actually impossible. BBBJs on the other hand are different, but the risk is so extremely minimally low that it isn't something I would be concerned with. To reduce it even further and to quell any worries, keep dental and mouth hygiene in optimal shape! And don't swallow or do CIM. Minutiae viral load is found in pre-cum, so it's not a big deal. Escorts do not have a higher incidence of HIV.

    Herpes is not the end of the world. You probably already have it.

    HPV? Get the Gardasil shots and you're protected from significant strains.

    Everything else is curable, just make sure you're getting tested regularly.

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    Default Re: Is DATY safe for the provider?

    To me the risk with letting someone eat your p*ssy is if the have cold sores/oral herpes then it's a higher possibility to transmit and then end up with genital herpes.

    True herpes virus is common and anyone who's had cold sores, chicken pox, shingles, etc has herpes virus in their system however it's better to still take precautions so as not to contract or spread any diseases in the first place.

    Dental dams are the best way to protect yourself during daty however there was a thread a while back and apparently not many people use it.

    Me personally I'd be the minority using the dental dam in this situation.

    What about when you want to exit the business? I don't know if I'd want to have a disease especially non curable disease as a physical reminder of how I should have used a dental dam to protect myself but was to impulsive not to care at the moment. Having a disease means you HAVE to tell your future partners what's up. You wouldn't be able to kept escorting gig a secret. But if none of this matters to you then carry on.
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