When you lapdance do you grind against them or barley touch?
I visited a club whilst on holiday and got a few dances to see how varied they were. So do you grind or barley touch? What brings in the best cash for you? x

When you lapdance do you grind against them or barley touch?
I visited a club whilst on holiday and got a few dances to see how varied they were. So do you grind or barley touch? What brings in the best cash for you? x

In my club full contact is allowed and it's completely up to the dancer and I choose to do a lot of grinding. Since it's completely legal I have no reason not to. I make a lot more money that way.

I grind a lot but what do you mean by full contact are they allowed to touch? x




Full contact means the dancer can touch the customer and the customer can touch the dancer.
One way contact means the dancer can touch the customer but the customer cannot touch the dancer.
No contact means neither the dancer or the customer can touch each other.





Depends on the guy (or girl) and what they seem to be there for. You can dance differently for a guy who is there for companionship/GFE than a guy who is trying to get warmed up for extras.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

ah ok i work in a club where we can touch them, over clothes, they cant touch us and strictly no extras i think this is why i grind i feel as though im giving them 'more for their money' rather than if i didnt touch them during a dance





Contact doesn't HAVE TO include grinding. You can include other methods of sensual/playful touch. Try using grinding as a seasoning rather than a main ingredient, or if you're going to 'lay it on thick' then do that more towards the end when you start your pitch for an extension.



One way contact with light grinding. I change my position a lot.



I'm still trying to find my lap dance style. More recently, my lap dance has been a constant transition from air dancing to my resting my body on them while I breath in one ear and feather my fingers behind the other before doing a body slide down. I get close, literally in their face, letting them feel my body on theirs (though, I make sure to keep my boobs away from their mouths -- trust no one!), and then I pull away and let them see the entirety of me for a second. Maybe I'll hover over them, using the back or arms of the chair to support myself as I mimic a reverse body slide, sans contact. It's all build up and partial cool down, the entire thing a tease that I try to time so the song ends when we're in the middle of the close contact "build up" phase again. Things were "just getting good," so of course they'll want to keep going for another song. It's all about teasing, so you don't want to give too much. People want what they can't have, and they want it even more after they have a little taste of it.
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