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Help!!
So I very recently broke up with a man who was my soul mate. At least that's how I thought of him. Not sure if he 5hought about me the same way. He persistently didn't step up, in ways that I thought were important, especially cause I have a six year old son.
so, long story short. I broke up with him. And in very quick order found some one else.
i wasn't really looking for another relationship but I am young(ish) and hot and another relationship just feel in my lap.
He he is everything my ex wasn't, hotter, more attentive, has an actual job, the list goes on...
Here is the thing. I am still totally sprung on my ex.
i have to restrain myself from calling him and texting him every single night. Because as good as this new man is, he's not my boo.
Maybe you ladies can slap some sense into me.
odviously need it.
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Re: Help!!
You 'very recently broke up' with your ex so it'll take some time to completely get over him. I just broke up with my bf of 4 years and can't help but get a little sad when I think about us moving on from each other. It just takes time to get over these things.
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Re: Help!!
its because you didn't give yourself enough time to grieve for your relationship and move on. its a whole process you just kinda skipped over. we often get nostalgic and romanticize our former partners as well. its like withdrawing from a drug, and people laugh whenever that's said but its so true..your brain is addicted to all those feel-good love chemicals, and they are strong. so if you dont intend on getting back together with him and think you can do better for both yourself and your son ( either with a new man or on your own) you need to hold strong. do you have a support system or good friend you can call whenever you feel the need to text him? maybe even see a therapist , keep a journal, take things slow and be kind to yourself. i was in your same situation , so message me if you want!
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