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    Default the deal with Sugardaddyforme.com

    Please feel free to burst my bubble if you have been there and done that...i would love to hear about other experiences

    I was going to wait to write this but I figure I can just update it when I need to. I just wanted to say that this site and, i'm assuming sites similar to it, are actually a potentially legit way to get customers rather than sugar daddies. I made a profile a long time ago and just had some generic "spoil me" About Me section and a pic that was just ok. I got mostly annoying guys who were obviously trying to get free/cheap sex. After a month of this I didn't bother upgrading. Fast forward 5 years or so (now) and I'm chatting with my best regular and he told me that his very rich friend turned him on to the site and he's looking for a regular escort (not a sugar baby) and i'm like....wait.....there are REAL RICH GUYS on this site? He is STUPID rich so if he's on there along with his friend, that's at least two legit rich guys looking for escorts/sugarbabies. Dollar signs flash in my eyes. I make a new profile and spend a decent amount of time figuring out a way to make mine unique and interesting. I'm good looking but I'm in NYC so everyone is good looking/beautiful so i'm not focusing on that aspect, although I add a couple of tasteful and natural looking photos of myself (not nude, not even bikini...i'm wearing a white tank top and white lace panties that cover everything), upgrade to "gold member" and send about 10 "kisses" out and wait. I don't get flooded with replies but notice that those who do send me messages appear to be pretty high quality. I pick out the ones who I think are the most promising (about 5), talk with all of them on the phone and set up dates just to meet for dinner. They know what the arrangement is but I'm trying to set this all up to look like im interviewing them to decide which "one" I will take as my new sugar daddy. No sex will be going on in the first meeting, although if they hand me cash then yeah thats what it will turn into and i'm ok with that. Anyway, first dinner date is this coming thursday with a guy who i've already discussed $ and expectations with so hopefully all goes well.

    A lot of girls use these sites to try and get way more than what I'm trying to get and I don't knock their hustle, get yours, but I'll take the guys you pass up because you refuse to have sex for $1k. My regular was telling me that girls ask him for cars, apartments, etc before they even meet him. Now, i'm sure those things are within reach with the right strategy (this reg is getting me an apartment if i end up going to grad school here) but I realized that this site is better utilized as a way to find a trick then a way to find a legit sugar daddy. Just my opinion.

    I will know for sure if its all worth it after I snag myself a few good regulars and let you ladies know. But might be worth a try!


    I should also add that i don't have a website or advertise online since my regulars are all from the club i used to work at so there isn't a way for them to find out i'm a professional. I just look like a regular girl trying to get a sugar daddy. that might be something to keep in mind.

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    Default Re: the deal with Sugardaddyforme.com

    There are certainly correct that very wealthy guys on those websites. I think the problem that's been mentioned before is finding the real guys from the 90%+ fake guys there. If you have a good filter and can spend the time you'll find them.

    I'm not so sure about the wealthy guys just looking or escorts and not sugar babies. You could be right but that's not my experience. I can say that most of the women that I met from the website I was on were escorts and not looking for a long-term thing. That was one of the reasons I got off the website. If you're stupid rich as you said, there are much easier ways in NYC to get working models by the hour or night. There are so many models/actresses in the city I'm not sure why you would waste your time with a website, but to each his own. Also, now it seems high-end escorts are using Instagram to advertise. If you see a girl with 500k followers and a booking website (without being an actual model) she is often a high-end escort.

    It's great that your regular is getting you an apartment. Just be sure to talk to an accountant (he should let you have time with one of his) to handle the tax implications. You don't want any IRS surprises later on.

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    Default Re: the deal with Sugardaddyforme.com

    When I signed up way back when a few years ago, there was a way to beat the system and not pay to upgrade. How? I don't remember, try searching tumblr or google. But I personally believe women should never pay for sugar sites. SD4M is probably my least favorite out of the "top 3" sugar sites. A lot of men on there are scams saying they are looking for models, ask for all your details, Social security, Western union scams where women lose thousands of dollars from men saying they will pay them double back, etc.
    I have only met one man off this site, the date and dinner was alright, he was a bit dry and flew from a different state to meet me. He wanted to me fly to him 2-4 WEEKENDS a month. I said I would for $10,000 a month (even that is low for weekends, I know girls that get that in 2 overnights escorting.) He definitely had money, I was able to screen and verify him. The next morning he texted me singing me praises but "wanted someone closer to him." No man, you are just cheap.
    Other guys I have talked to have been creepy and just looking for a hot girl that is cheaper than an escort. I should mention I will only talk to people that have their income listed at $1 million or more a year, they can afford to not be cheap. One guy would text me pictures of him having sex with girls from the site, the very ones he would complain about during a conversation over the phone, saying how "greedy" they are and how they only want money, etc. One guy wanted me to drive 2 and half hours to him and have sex that day if we had "chemistry". Good thing I didn't listen to that asshat as I later talked to some girls on tumblr who had been ripped off by him, raped, and also blackmailed.

    Girls don't waste your time (or money lol) on this site. Go out in person and meet a real big spender in person. Hell even Craigslist is better.

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