Please feel free to burst my bubble if you have been there and done that...i would love to hear about other experiences
I was going to wait to write this but I figure I can just update it when I need to. I just wanted to say that this site and, i'm assuming sites similar to it, are actually a potentially legit way to get customers rather than sugar daddies. I made a profile a long time ago and just had some generic "spoil me" About Me section and a pic that was just ok. I got mostly annoying guys who were obviously trying to get free/cheap sex. After a month of this I didn't bother upgrading. Fast forward 5 years or so (now) and I'm chatting with my best regular and he told me that his very rich friend turned him on to the site and he's looking for a regular escort (not a sugar baby) and i'm like....wait.....there are REAL RICH GUYS on this site? He is STUPID rich so if he's on there along with his friend, that's at least two legit rich guys looking for escorts/sugarbabies. Dollar signs flash in my eyes. I make a new profile and spend a decent amount of time figuring out a way to make mine unique and interesting. I'm good looking but I'm in NYC so everyone is good looking/beautiful so i'm not focusing on that aspect, although I add a couple of tasteful and natural looking photos of myself (not nude, not even bikini...i'm wearing a white tank top and white lace panties that cover everything), upgrade to "gold member" and send about 10 "kisses" out and wait. I don't get flooded with replies but notice that those who do send me messages appear to be pretty high quality. I pick out the ones who I think are the most promising (about 5), talk with all of them on the phone and set up dates just to meet for dinner. They know what the arrangement is but I'm trying to set this all up to look like im interviewing them to decide which "one" I will take as my new sugar daddy. No sex will be going on in the first meeting, although if they hand me cash then yeah thats what it will turn into and i'm ok with that. Anyway, first dinner date is this coming thursday with a guy who i've already discussed $ and expectations with so hopefully all goes well.
A lot of girls use these sites to try and get way more than what I'm trying to get and I don't knock their hustle, get yours, but I'll take the guys you pass up because you refuse to have sex for $1k. My regular was telling me that girls ask him for cars, apartments, etc before they even meet him. Now, i'm sure those things are within reach with the right strategy (this reg is getting me an apartment if i end up going to grad school here) but I realized that this site is better utilized as a way to find a trick then a way to find a legit sugar daddy. Just my opinion.
I will know for sure if its all worth it after I snag myself a few good regulars and let you ladies know. But might be worth a try!
I should also add that i don't have a website or advertise online since my regulars are all from the club i used to work at so there isn't a way for them to find out i'm a professional. I just look like a regular girl trying to get a sugar daddy. that might be something to keep in mind.



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