Hey ladies, its nothing about camming this time..worse..FB drama? I hardly login to those social media sites, (In fact I am thinking of just quitting) It is just kind of boring and so much is going on right now and getting caught up in life that friends are pretty much being snooty and clingly. There is this one guy who is very sweet and we have been very close friends (nothing relationship wise, just friends) but he never really...got the hint. In fact he got pretty mad and using things like tickets against me. I had told him straight up in the past that it wasn't going to go beyond anything more, but I feel like he has always wished for more. He doesn't live near anymore as he flew many states away so contact is hard. I am in a super comfortable and relaxing relationship for 3 years now, and he asked questions like, "Are you still with him?" Its kind of..annoying, but I remind him I am. Is there a way of getting the point across without hurting his feelings? He is a great friend, we have played video games, gone on flee market hunts, leaned on each other for support during emotional issues (but he was supportive as a friend and helped me through some shit) I'd hate losing him as a friend, but I don't know what to do..I can't be friendly either like use happy faces or say missed you too, because I fear he gets the wrong idea.. I am Starting to think I should remove all friendly text, faces and anything that may be hinting something. He says things like "I miss you very much" or "I kept these glasses we had during the time we hung out." then I get confused about what to really say and it just spirals.
As for FB, some friends are very short with me after I say hello from not taking a break from my business/modeling/personal complications
Sigh, help?




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