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    Ok ladies,

    I know I haven't contributed to this forum but I hope to one day when I'm no longer a novice. I have a question and am open to anyone pm'ing me their response. I have a potential 1st client who wants to book on Tuesday. He didn't complete my screening form but sent a booking request with his name, phone number, email address, and TER name. The search engines turn up hundreds results for the common name he provided and the email doesn't turn up anything either. His phone number belongs to someone with the same first name but different last name. I contacted 3 recent providers he's seen and only 1 has responded. She said he tends to send alot of emails and makes alot of requests. I didn't ask her for details but I asked if she would see him again. She said yes because he booked a 2 hour pse session but she wouldn't if he tried to book a 1 hr gfe session. I don't offer either as I am safety first. I'm at a loss for what to do. Should I ask him for a email or phone number that can be traced back to him or go ahead with the booking if another provider ok's him.

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    I'm not an escort, but it looks to me like he is doing everything he can to circumvent your screening process. IMO, that alone shouts RED FLAG.

    Admittedly, I know very little abt different screening methods. I mostly just lurk in the Other Work section bc I find many of the discussions interesting & informative. But whatever screening process you've got, I'm certain you've set it up that way for a reason. Yet here he is trying to take control of your security measures. Have you been able to glean any helpful info on him from TER?

    Have the other two providers you contacted just not yet gotten back to you, or are they actually refusing to discuss it? If they are avoiding mention of this guy, I think that speaks volumes. Not to mention, the one who did respond to your enquiry only seems to be interested in seeing him again for what appears to be double or triple her typical rate.

    If you are truly 'safety first' I wouldn't touch this one w/ a 10ft pole & someone else's dick.

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    Always Safety First!!! Stick to your guns. You set the pace of the encounter. Do not lose control of the appointment before it even begins. Clients will push you around if you let them. If the client is pressuring you don't see that person. Do not see anyone until you have thoroughly verified him. Most reputable providers will get back to you relatively quickly (but some don't because they're bitches) because some day they may need you to do the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    I'm not an escort, but it looks to me like he is doing everything he can to circumvent your screening process. IMO, that alone shouts RED FLAG.

    Admittedly, I know very little abt different screening methods. I mostly just lurk in the Other Work section bc I find many of the discussions interesting & informative. But whatever screening process you've got, I'm certain you've set it up that way for a reason. Yet here he is trying to take control of your security measures. Have you been able to glean any helpful info on him from TER?

    Have the other two providers you contacted just not yet gotten back to you, or are they actually refusing to discuss it? If they are avoiding mention of this guy, I think that speaks volumes. Not to mention, the one who did respond to your enquiry only seems to be interested in seeing him again for what appears to be double or triple her typical rate.

    If you are truly 'safety first' I wouldn't touch this one w/ a 10ft pole & someone else's dick.
    The other providers got back to me. One said he was a bit of a hassle making alot of requests and the other said she didn't have any problems with him but forwarded another email from another provider who said he set a long appointment but never showed and never paid the cancellation fee.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elektra Luxx View Post
    Always Safety First!!! Stick to your guns. You set the pace of the encounter. Do not lose control of the appointment before it even begins. Clients will push you around if you let them. If the client is pressuring you don't see that person. Do not see anyone until you have thoroughly verified him. Most reputable providers will get back to you relatively quickly (but some don't because they're bitches) because some day they may need you to do the same.
    Thanks! I think I'm going to pass on this guy. He's asking if I have any reviews on TER...I don't but I'm not sure if I want any....I'm not sure if I want clients who want to tell their experience to the world...Besides just because you have 2 references does not mean that I should get false or no other information about you...that alone seems shady to me.

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    Me personally, I don't want any reviews anywhere, but I do this part-time only. Reviews are a double edged sword. A great review can keep you busy for weeks, but just one bad review could kill your business completely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elektra Luxx View Post
    Me personally, I don't want any reviews anywhere, but I do this part-time only. Reviews are a double edged sword. A great review can keep you busy for weeks, but just one bad review could kill your business completely.
    I agree! I'd rather not be reviewed at all but I'm new so I feel like that is a hindrance to building clientele.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EbonyATL View Post
    I agree! I'd rather not be reviewed at all but I'm new so I feel like that is a hindrance to building clientele.
    In your case you're right.

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