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    Customers touching my boobs while trying to sell a dance was something that always irritated me. I even had one guy run his finger up the inside of my thigh while I was speaking with him. I jumped back just in time. So creepy.

    Normally, I'm not easily provoked, but this would cause me to want to retaliate in some way. I never did though.

    Maybe because I work in 'Extras' City, it is more prevalent. A guy in my club was doing this to unsuspecting girls the other day. He would act friendly and interested as though he was going to buy dances and then start groping them. He was doing it to be cheap-he didn't want to spend on dances-he was just trying to get all the free feels he could.

    As the manager, I asked him to leave-told him his visit was over that day.

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    Either find a different club or learn how to upsell for touching. Guys are going to try to touch you in this industry and you can control how they touch you especially if you upsell and are very firm with how you do it. If you are not comfortable with men touching you at all, perhaps dancing is not the job for you. They are going to try, you might as well make the rules and get paid for it.

    You don't have to put up w anything you aren't comfortable with, so make the rules how you want them.

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    When they start touching you tell them your penis is starting to get hard they'll stop

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    Default Re: Customers Inappropriate Touching When Selling Dances

    I say something like, "I see you like to touch. You can either pay me $20 now for the "fun sized" experience or we could go back to VIP for $100. Most will either stop right there, or will agree to VIP. Some will pay for more "fun sized" experiences on the floor, but I try to avoid that if I can.

    I'm ok with being touched, so obviously if you don't want him to touch you, this won't work.

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    Default Re: Customers Inappropriate Touching When Selling Dances

    I have no tolerance for this! I smack his hand and say "Nope, that's for VIP dances only! you cant do that unless you're paying for it". Either he'll buy a dance right then and there or he'll be a bitch about it and I'll just walk away.

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    I demand money if they start touching me without me giving them verbal and non verbal cues as permission. If they claim they have no money then they might get smacked or nuts squeezed with great force (but if bouncers nearby I let them handle my lightweights). Nobody has the right to grope all over you especially if they have no money.

    If management allows c*cksuckers like this to stay in the club then I notify the other dancers to avoid the broke time wasting pervert.
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    Default Re: Customers Inappropriate Touching When Selling Dances

    Quote by Dely: "Either find a different club or learn how to upsell for touching. Guys are going to try to touch you in this industry and you can control how they touch you especially if you upsell and are very firm with how you do it. If you are not comfortable with men touching you at all, perhaps dancing is not the job for you. They are going to try, you might as well make the rules and get paid for it."

    Actually, I've had a very LONG career and have worked in many different parts of the country. Several months ago, I applied for and was hired as a manager at my club. If you re-read my post, you'll see that I said, "as the manager, I asked him to leave".

    As far as not being comfortable with men touching me at all, I don't know where you got that. I didn't say it.

    I was interested in others thoughts on customers trying to touch for free which is why I asked.

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    Default Re: Customers Inappropriate Touching When Selling Dances

    my club has a strict no touching, no "dirty-grinding" lap dances on the floor policy. security literally everywhere.... I've given countless dances where they tapped the guy on the shoulder to stop touching mid dance..... anyway, whether or not you are okay with "extras" like touching and using that to upsell to VIP... (which I personally don't.....thats just me).... my go-to for what I usually say so they don't get "pissy" when I tell them to stop touching and to keep the mood going is honestly something like, "aw, sweetie, I'll get in trouble if they see me letting you touch me. I know it sucks but its the rules...I'm glad to know you're liking it though...." etc...etc.... *writhe *writhe *wiggle *giggle etc....."you wanna keep going right?" id rather stack all night anyway....

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    Default Re: Customers Inappropriate Touching When Selling Dances

    ^ Unfortunately that really only works in a club where the bouncers have your back.

    At my home club, the bouncers don't give a shit so if you say they'll get in trouble, the guys usually say "No I won't" bc they know the bouncers don't care. Or they'll say "they won't see me", to which I respond "The cameras will"... which leads to "Oh those cameras don't actually work" -___- The asshats who don't respect the dancer saying 'no touching' in the first place are the ones that have an (idiotic) answer to everything.
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