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    Default That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    ....is always the one to watch out for. I hate to have this attitude, bc I feel like we should be supportive of each other as women. I'm new at this club, and this girl is always coming up trying to talk to me. Asking me if I had a good night, why did I get a locker right away and she had to wait a month, what days do I work, where do I buy my clothes, how much money i spend....

    I'm polite to her but I'm irritated how she's always trying to be in my business. Like just go make your money and go home lol!!
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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    Nah, I totally get this. Just make like you're dumb, broke and clueless and they'll leave you alone. Emphasis broke since coworkers like this seem to do this because they perceive you as a threat.

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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    Maybe she thinks you're someone to look up to, or a threat/competition, as baby cougar said. I had a girl do this when I was new at a club; she saw that I was top earner for a couple nights, so every time we were in the same room alone she'd be asking "You got 2 half hours right? I'm doing shitty but you're doing good, that's good", shit like that. I ended up counting my $$ in the bathroom stalls bc it made me feel like a target. It sucks bc you don't want to get 'hazed'.

    Agreed with acting clueless or disinterested. Give vague 1 word answers without eye contact. "Where do you buy your clothes?" "Online" Then start digging in your bag for something or just go back on the floor, like you've got more important things to do. She'll get the hint.
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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    I would literally give a broad like this one word answers only.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    Where do you get your clothes from question, I usually say I don't remember, online, or a store from a far away state. Lol. Try to avoid that leech as much as possible. Excuse yourself and make excuses.
    Any time someone asks you how your night went, just say "ok". If they have the audacity(bc it's nobody's fkn business) to ask how much you make, just say you don't know bc you count your money at home.

    Do a resting bitch face around her.
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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    Yeah I agree, sometimes you need to be suspicious around girls like this and not engage them. I had a girl act like that to me when I first started working at this club, and she acted nice so she could get me to buy drugs off of her! In most cases though, I feel like they act that way because they want you to lower your guard around them. So dont. Keep it casual and act like you're too busy to talk. You dont have to be mean, but you dont have to be nice either.

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    I'd tell the bitch to fuck off. I have zero qualms shooting straight from the hip.
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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    i have a girl at my club ( i'm new there) exactly like this. plus she's always trying to tell me how young and beautiful she is ( she's not anything spectacular) and how she makes so much money..yet is always in MY business. if you were really making the money and so beautiful, why would you care about lil old me?

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    It's like dancers claiming to be top earners * cough cough* but worrying about how much other dancers are making.
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i have a girl at my club ( i'm new there) exactly like this. plus she's always trying to tell me how young and beautiful she is ( she's not anything spectacular) and how she makes so much money..yet is always in MY business. if you were really making the money and so beautiful, why would you care about lil old me?
    I would laugh in someones face if they tried to tell me how "young and beautiful" they are! How stupid and tacky do you have to be to tell that to other people?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    I would laugh in someones face if they tried to tell me how "young and beautiful" they are! How stupid and tacky do you have to be to tell that to other people?!
    Its always the super basic boring bitches who need reassurance in this way as I've noticed. (Yawn.)

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    Default Re: That girl that tried to be your friend in the club....

    OP, maybe she is less experienced, a newbie, trying to make you feel welcome as you are new there or just trying to be friendly (but doesn't realize that she's being inappropriate)? It's annoying when dancers are friendly solely because they want to "buddy up" to or potentially team up with a top earner though *le sigh*. If that's the case, just try not to engage her beyond general politeness and she'll get the hint.
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    You are Whirlez.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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