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    Default Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    Sorry I'm posting a bit much today but all these questions just popped to me now lol

    Situation 1:

    So this guy wanted to have sex with me and says "I wanna fuck you for $300" and has been tipping me before and so I did play along and was like "anything can happen" and then ended up giving him my textfree number and didnt answer any of his calls, obviously.
    But now he comes back and is clearly not happy that I won't sleep with him. He comes every night to watch me if I make any money. He'll act like he's paying the other girls attention, like tip some here and there, but every time I glance around the room just to watch my back and be aware of my surroundings, I always catch him glaring at me. When a customer would reject me, he'll get up just to walk by me and smile like I got my karma for not wanting to sleep with him. But when a customer is treating me generously, he'll give me a disgusted look as if I don't deserve anything lol. And every time I walk by he always tries to be as loud as possible to try to grab my attention.
    Do y'all just ignore him? Or try to get him out the club? Sorry this is such a newbie question and stuff but I'm still trying to get a hold on how to deal with people like this cause its new to me.

    Situation 2:

    This one guy tips well, but he keeps trying to get me to touch his dick and shit. And of course I'd reject and just spin around and do a quick twerk to make him forget about it. But later he's like "I'm trying to help you make money! You know how to grip a dick!" when he catches on that I'm not trying to grab on his dick for money. I walked away and said I had to use the restroom cause I did not want to be in that situation. But has this ever happened to you and do you think it would make me look like a bitch for getting him kicked out the club?


    And also, when you're at a club where stage dancing is the only dancing allowed in your club so you can go around for tips for conversing with patrons and whatnot, when they start to grab on you, how do you tell them to pay up without being a total bitch?


    Sorry for the length of this post but thanks so much in advance, ladies!

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    Default Re: Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    This is why I never, ever lead anyone on at the club. Don't get me wrong; I'll be as evasive about what happens in the VIP room as I can as long as someone is asking vague and evasive questions, but if someone straight up asks me if I'll have sex with them, the answer is always some variation of "this is a strip club, not a whorehouse." I'd rather go home with less money tonight than have to deal with a potentially violent or vengeful customer later. Was it worth the money this guy tipped you to have to deal with the negative energy he brings in with him when he harasses you and tries to fuck with your game? Learn from this.

    For now, I would completely ignore him until he gets tired of his game. Don't look at him, don't acknowledge his presence, and let this be a lesson for the future.

    You need to learn to be direct and assertive. I know it's easier said than done, but it is extremely important in our line of work. With the dick-grabbing guy, deflecting by changing position is a good first step, but if someone is persistent, you need to be direct with them. Eventually, you left and removed yourself from any money he might have spent because of how uncomfortable the creep was making you. If you'd turned around and said "I'm can't do that, sweetheart, so let's just have fun together" (followed, if necessary, with a very firm "I'm not going to do that, don't ask again."), worst case scenario he would have stopped spending money (which is what happened when you left anyway). Best case, he would have accepted it and kept giving you money. Either way, I bet you would have felt a lot better about the situation.

    Guys can smell insecurity; they think they can capitalize on it. The good news is, as you get better at sweetly telling these creeps to fuck off, they will seek prey elsewhere.

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    Default Re: Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    Quote Originally Posted by ZafinaX View Post

    he keeps trying to get me to touch his dick and shit. he's like " You know how to grip a dick!" when he catches on that I'm not trying to grab on his dick for money.

    And also, when you're at a club where stage dancing is the only dancing allowed in your club so you can go around for tips for conversing with patrons and whatnot, when they start to grab on you, how do you tell them to pay up without being a total bitch?
    The bolded line cracked me up!
    Do you mean like a tip walk?


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    Default Re: Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    The bolded line cracked me up!
    Do you mean like a tip walk?
    Yeah, thats what i meant to say lol

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    Default Re: Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    On the pouty customer, just ignore him. It's not worth your brain space to give him another thought. He'll get bored and move on to someone else (probably the next new girl he encounters).

    When guys try to touch me on the floor, I just redirect them to the VIP room. "Hey now, you know you're not supposed to do that!" Usually does the trick followed by, "So, do you want to get a little privacy in the VIP room?" Getting right to the point with the grabby guys is important when it's busy. Most of them are cheap and just trying to get a cheap or free thrill.

    Also, always start with the most expensive option when selling dances. If you are asking them for $500 right away, a $100 or $30 dance will seem down right affordable in comparison. Don't start with the cheapest option. It makes upselling a lot harder.

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    Default Re: Have y'all dealt with weirdo customers like these? And charging for touching...

    I've had customers make me sex offers, and of course there are the guys who put dollars in your g-string and take a little too long to move their hand back. I figure it's just part of the trade.

    so far i haven't had to call a bouncer to help but I know it's only a matter of time. I would never accept any sex offers and I don't think any of us should.

    I would say what you need to do is obey the club's rules on the matter, but also obey your own personal rules. the bouncers are there to protect you, don't be afraid to use them if you need to.

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