So I told my cousin in confidence about dancing and she told my parents. My parents freaked and started telling me I needed to quit and that they would help me with my finances. I explained how I've always appreciated everything they've ever given me but I don't want to take anymore. I told them how much the job has helped me financially. I explained that it's helping me reach my goals quicker. My mom told me not to speak to her until I quit. My dad told me I'm taking the easy way out by showing my "pussy to nasty old men" my sisters and cousins keep telling me I'm making a terrible decision by choosing dancing over family. I hope this gets better soon. It all happened last night. They knew I worked at a strip club but I told them I was a waitress. They weren't happy with it but accepted it. I hope they accept that I dance soon also. I hate feeling like I've made a mistake when I haven't. I hate feeling like I've disrespected my family when I haven't. I'm doing this for me. It has nothing to do with anyone's feelings. It's just the income and I really hope my parents will understand that soon



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