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    Hey y'all! So recently I've dyed my hair in the hopes of catching more attention...and more $$. First week or so- great! Alas, after the newness wore off, seems it may have all been in vain. Many regulars have been MIA or sit in my room for a minute and bounce. I've also seen a reduction in new comers. I feel torn on this. Normally I would ride low traffic out and see, but I don't really have the time. Dying it has been a part of my baby step plan to cam more, and the whole more eggs/ basket thing to gain more income so I can finally move out of my hell hole of an apartment.
    I'm cautious to redye it for two reasons. One, I freaking LOVE muh new hair! It's been so long since I've had colored hair. Two, I'm worried it's not really my hair but just a total fluke and shitty traffic.
    Alright back to the question. I've heard/ seen of many positive outcome from a slight (or even major) appearance change on other ladies, but not so much the opposite. Have you even changed your appearance and it just didn't work? How long before you just knew it was the change?
    If anyone has any other kind of advice or thought, I love to hear it!

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    AUGH! I just bleached my hair brown dark brown to light red. My first night out with it is tonight and I am having this same stress! I can't add anything yet but I can say this post was super timely for me.

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    Default Re: Appearance change possibly ruining earnings. Has it happened to you?

    I'd just have to say with all of my hair color changes in the last 8 months:

    No, it doesn't matter. Dont let it get to your head and ruin your confidence, because THAT would be what tanks your earnings.

    None of my color changes affected my traffic in any way, and I went from black to Ariel red to dark red to purple to blonde to hot pink to light pink to black. They didn't care, lol.

    Don't let it ruin your self esteem! Rock it like you own it and they'll pick up on the extra confidence boost and love you even more! And if they Dont, they can f off. Your hair doesn't define you and who you are. Your attitude and personality does.


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    And most importantly, if YOU love it, Dont dye over it! Its more than likely a fluke.

    I've been a victim of this with all my color changes mentally and it was just because my mental stage of mind wasnt where it needed to be. I adjusted that and it all went back to normal. Confidence is key!

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    You have beautiful fair skin so red would look awesome!
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitcatt View Post
    AUGH! I just bleached my hair brown dark brown to light red. My first night out with it is tonight and I am having this same stress! I can't add anything yet but I can say this post was super timely for me.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    I don't think it really matters. Confidence sells! Once your bras and panties come off nothing really matters that much!
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Yay for another redhead!
    Try not to stress too bad! I'm sure your peeps will love it! Like I said, I've witness many positive outcomes from hair changes and such.
    Hope it goes well!

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    Thanks Cutie! I'm sure hoping it is! It could be just the traffic and my stress getting to me more than anything. I've actually felt even more confident with my new color. I'm trying not to let it diminish from the lack of custies for sure though!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaeAnything View Post
    Hey y'all! So recently I've dyed my hair in the hopes of catching more attention...and more $$. First week or so- great! Alas, after the newness wore off, seems it may have all been in vain. Many regulars have been MIA or sit in my room for a minute and bounce. I've also seen a reduction in new comers. I feel torn on this. Normally I would ride low traffic out and see, but I don't really have the time. Dying it has been a part of my baby step plan to cam more, and the whole more eggs/ basket thing to gain more income so I can finally move out of my hell hole of an apartment.
    I'm cautious to redye it for two reasons. One, I freaking LOVE muh new hair! It's been so long since I've had colored hair. Two, I'm worried it's not really my hair but just a total fluke and shitty traffic.
    Alright back to the question. I've heard/ seen of many positive outcome from a slight (or even major) appearance change on other ladies, but not so much the opposite. Have you even changed your appearance and it just didn't work? How long before you just knew it was the change?
    If anyone has any other kind of advice or thought, I love to hear it!
    Girl, it's not you. Camming totally fucking blows right now. You know men LOVE fucking change. Plus, if you love the new color, you're probably a lot more bubbly and confident (not saying you weren't already). But, you know we women get excited with a new 'do. We feel on top of the world. It's totally not you. I'm sure the color looks great!


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    Thanks ladies for all the kind words! Mean it <3

    and BadBitch, you know it! I've got bubbly on lock
    I'm gonna give it another week or so to pick up. I love my hair, but I also love the cha-ching. lol
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    A model I currently work with once cut her hair from waist long to shoulder long, and lost one big spending regular with long hair fetish.

    Later on with me, we have been trying different hairstyles - its about members' personal tastes and chatting compliments, without any huge income boost.
    Begging for pigtails ends up with a tip 1 out of 20 times or so.

    Recently, she got prolongued square cut and toned her hair from badly bleached stain to dark chocolate - our current regulars love it.

    No significant and reliable income impact at all.

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    Shaved my head two months ago. It looks hot as fuck.

    I had done it once before, so I knew I had a nice head shape. I also have a conventionally attractive face, so I still attract "mainstream" guys.

    I probably lost some custies, but nobody was rude about it. I think I gained a lot more than I lost though. Guys like special girls.
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    I shaved my head in Feburary, managed to stay up in the first two rows on SM.





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    I dyed my hair hot pink about 2 months ago and even though there were a couple of guys who whined about missing my blonde.. it didn't affect a single thing. Still in the top rows of Streamate and still bringing in that money. (Side note: @kitcatt On cam, most guys thought my hair was red and they LOVED IT! So rock that shit girl, I think you would look perfect with any color hair honestly )


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    Ohhhh man this thread is really tempting me to shave my head again lol. I've been sitting on the decision for a couple months and even had offers as high as $300 to shave my head on camera from a few custies. I'm still fairly new though and trying to learn my hustle and gather an audience/more regs so I'm not gutsy enough to do it just yet! One day though!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by OpenBobsBB View Post
    Ohhhh man this thread is really tempting me to shave my head again lol. I've been sitting on the decision for a couple months and even had offers as high as $300 to shave my head on camera from a few custies. I'm still fairly new though and trying to learn my hustle and gather an audience/more regs so I'm not gutsy enough to do it just yet! One day though!!
    Make sure you record it. I really kicked myself for not doing mine. Could of made oodles of moneys on that on.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Make sure you record it. I really kicked myself for not doing mine. Could of made oodles of moneys on that on.
    will most certainly do!! thank you!

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    I need to cut about 4 inches of hella damaged hair off the bottom and I keep using "dudes will hate it" as an excuse. Yeah, because it will go from below-the-bra to just above the nipples. They;ll be traumatized! But my hair will finally be healthy again. So...

    I was red-brown (heavier on the red) when I started camming, dyed it dark brown, a few guys whined (they liked red hair + green eyes) but no real difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Make sure you record it. I really kicked myself for not doing mine. Could of made oodles of moneys on that on.
    I'll probably do some on-cam shave shows. I'm keeping this thing for several months. Last time I grew it back WAY too quickly!
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    You can always rock a wig if your insecurities seep in. And you can get them for next to nothing and watch YouTube tutorials on how to make them look realistic. Sometimes I change my hairstyle in the same day. Also wigs can be a great way to test a style before you commit. Cuz I do think that if you do something too drastic it can send them into shock. And that's not good if you have a big goal. I did a blue and black wig once...very pretty. It looked like my natural hair despite the blue. But I got called ghetto and I never get that.
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    Uniwigs has a lot of nice synthetic wigs that I heard are just like human hair wigs.. I plan on getting some for fun in the future, if they ever sell a pink one, of course. So much better to use them then t kill your natural hair, my hair knows the pain of all the torture I've put it through but its starting to feel healthy again after I ditched the bleach.

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    Quote Originally Posted by webcamcutie View Post
    Uniwigs has a lot of nice synthetic wigs that I heard are just like human hair wigs.. I plan on getting some for fun in the future, if they ever sell a pink one, of course. So much better to use them then t kill your natural hair, my hair knows the pain of all the torture I've put it through but its starting to feel healthy again after I ditched the bleach.
    https://www.youtube.com/results?sear...+synthetic+wig they have options from Sharpies to KoolAid there

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    I really want to go blonde but right now I don't want to possibly jeopardize my earnings at the moment. I know I can switch back but getting blonde the right way can be a drawn out process and get expensive. I tried a blonde wig on camera and it looked pretty decent but all the guys said they much preferred me with dark hair and my earnings did drop with the blonde wig.

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    I put pink and blue in my hair a while back and I have platinum blonde hair, that personally didn't really seem to affect much. One thing I notice is when I cover a tattoo i have below my neck I do better. I had it uncovered last night and it was quite possibly my worst night on cam lol. I also know there were some issues last night because I had no traffic. I always stress about changing anything to my appearance, but I think if I actually just had more confidence in my changes id do better instead of fretting over it.

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    Guys thanks a bunch! This has definitely picked my spirits back up! I mean if some of you can go all Shana O'connor and still bank...wow that's awesome! I think I'm being a worry wonda over it.
    Extra thanks to PhatGirlDynomite! I've actually been checking out wigs that don't look so dang cheap, but also not breaking the bank. Def bookmarking that site. If it doesn't pick up, a wig is going on my splurge list right after a sound proof rug (hence the needing to move out part lol).

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