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    i just need a lil piece of advice. if i never got paid out for camming (meaning i did it twice and never made enough, so i shut down my account) and no income was reported, that won't leave behind a trail for me? i know it seems pretty obvious but i'd feel a lot better if someone confirmed it for me. apart from my images being on the web no one would know right? i was thinking about going to nursing school but i'd rather not spend all the money to go there and get told no because for some reason adult work is "immoral" which is complete bullshit. for some people it's a hobby and for some it's a career, regardless it shouldn't affect anyone's lives.

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    1) is camming your main source of income?

    2) thank you to all the supportive people in my first thread. thinking logically about it makes me feel a lot better that no one will know and i want to stop thinking about it but i feel if i stop then someone is going to post my videos elsewhere and i wouldn't know to report it. the ones on upstore are gone and i don't think they're anywhere else. i just want it to stop controlling my life like it has for the past month. i can't tell anyone irl and everyone here is so sweet.

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    you're right and i'm sorry if i'm being annoying. you really helped me a lot

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    Why do you think that you wouldn't be able to go to nursing school? I am not sure of the protocols for signing up to a site like MFC, but....I don't see how or why that would prevent you in any way.

    I have known people that are nurses, work at banks, and have various other 'vanilla' jobs that cam. Granted, they're not on public streaming websites like MFC or streamate, etc.

    I can appretiate the anxiety you're feeling....I am the type of person to worry about something, or feel anxiety....and I obsess over it. I am not sure the types of things you did on cam that was recorded, but....the chances of someone finding it that you know is pretty minuscule.

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    A lot of the times nursing had some sort of moral code where camming would fall under "unprofessional conduct" which is dumb. Although I'm pretty sure the background checks for nurses require 1099 and I'm not getting one because I never got paid enough. Sigh, here's hoping.

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    One thing that comforted me greatly way back when I was thinking about this stuff is simply this: Finding you is like finding a very specific needle in a very specific haystack. Think about it like that. Seriously, if no one is looking for you, no one will find you. I have even Google searched my cam pics but they have never gone back to anything in my personal life. For an extra layer of protection as far as pics are concerned remove your Facebook profile from Search Engine results. But seriously, unless you are a top top model and you've done some media stuff besides camming or someone really really wants to find you and knows where to look, you are good to go. If you never got a 1099 even better.

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    That's such a good idea, I never thought to remove my Facebook from search results. I have been feeling better lately but it's still in the back of my mind. I'm not looking up my camname anymore because I don't want them to be in higher ranking. I did all I can do with cam model protection and I guess that is that. It's time to move on. Things will get better in time

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    Yea, if you also cammed for a short time, then that content will fade into obscurity. It's a lot harder to get noticed on the web than it looks, that's why most full time camgirls spend HOURS doing promo on its own because its tough out there. You will be fine

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    Relax. Nobody will find you. I have top cam girl friends that became nurses.
    I, myself, am an out and proud camgirl.
    Nobody came running to help me when i lost jobs, and housing, so they can kiss my ass!

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    you are all the sweetest and I really appreciate the replies. I'm really hoping it does fall into obscurity and I can fully move on. by the way I also love and respect what you all do. I haven't been able to connect sexually with myself in a few weeks and I really miss masturbating haha sorry if that's tmi. hopefully none of the viewers who saw me two times on cam two months ago care about me enough to try and find me. It's probably difficult because my personal Twitter and Facebook nobody even cared about when I tried to get followers. I recently got a job that gave me 40 hours a week and I'm going back to school next semester. life will continue and I hope it's alright with all of you if I come back because I get emotional or sad.

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    Also I'm crying cause of how supportive you are and caring you all are, idk if it's the hormones from recently starting birth control but I haven't been this happy in a month.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadexcammer View Post
    Also I'm crying cause of how supportive you are and caring you all are, idk if it's the hormones from recently starting birth control but I haven't been this happy in a month.
    Aw, you have every right to cry. Luckily you found this forum. I didn't know about it until my 2nd yr in camming.
    Camming is a very isolating profession.

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    i don't know what i wouldve done if i havent found this forum, the reassurances are very uplifting. i have this fear of like winning the lottery or something similar and having people taking pictures of me then connecting the dots. i want to lay low for a few years. i guess this has taught me a very hard lesson about adult work. i know i won't look the same at 30 as i did when im 19.

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    You won't have to even lay low for years. Seriously. A lot of us work everyday on cam, still maintain active profiles on FB etc and have personal lives and have never been found out. Heck I even have vids on Pornhub and no one has ever found me. Very specific needle, very specific haystack. Even the person who knows I cam has no idea how to find me.

    Side note though, what you worry about, you eventually attract. If you keep thinking like this, someone will find you because you are attracting it. I always think no one will find me and no one ever has. What you believe becomes real so stop worrying.

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    true, just gotta stop thinking about it. no one should find out, the download links are gone and i can't find myself on any website that's not dedicated to "cam girls for you" and i doubt many people my age go to those sites to get off. the amount of porn uploaded every day is probably in the millions. i freaking had a dream last night my mom found me on amazon so i really have to stop. you are the voice of reason. in 10 years i doubt i'll be worrying about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadexcammer View Post
    true, just gotta stop thinking about it. no one should find out, the download links are gone and i can't find myself on any website that's not dedicated to "cam girls for you" and i doubt many people my age go to those sites to get off. the amount of porn uploaded every day is probably in the millions. i freaking had a dream last night my mom found me on amazon so i really have to stop. you are the voice of reason. in 10 years i doubt i'll be worrying about it.
    Worrying is like a rocking horse, you can do it all day long, but in the end you're still in the same spot.

    Let it go and let it be You'll be just fine!


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    i like the rocking horse analogy, i've been freaking out for like a month barely getting sleep without the help of pills and i really didn't accomplish much. accepting things for how they are and moving on HAVE to be the only choice. i'm going to keep these forums with me at all times to help calm me down. you gals are the best. much love to you all

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    Just had a major panic attack because one of my moms clients found her Twitter without them knowing her real name. She used her maiden name on her Twitter account so they probably found it through that but she never uses her maiden name at work. I know it's unrelated but I just want this nightmare to end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadexcammer View Post
    Just had a major panic attack because one of my moms clients found her Twitter without them knowing her real name. She used her maiden name on her Twitter account so they probably found it through that but she never uses her maiden name at work. I know it's unrelated but I just want this nightmare to end.
    Look, girl. Here's the deal. You made the decision to cam. You signed up, you broadcasted a couple of times and then you decided that it wasn't what you wanted to do. What happens now? You move on, you do what you have been planning to do. Go to nursing school, have friends, live life and stop stressing.

    Worst case scenario, it comes out. Better to ask for forgiveness than permission in that case. If it does happen (which I would like to stress is VERY, VERY unlikely) you tell them that you only did it for a day and realized that you were putting the future career of your choice at risk by doing so, so you didn't end up going into that industry.

    This is the exact reason why we stress to people that come on here and are thinking about going into the industry to really, truly make sure it's what they want to do. Fact of the matter is that once it's on the internet.. it's on the internet. It's out of your hands, there's nothing you can do except to STOP thinking about it. Having life experiences doesn't define who you are, or what you're capable of accomplishing. It's how we handle those experiences that do that.

    That's all that this was for you, another life experience. Turn it into a step and take that step to get to where you want to be. Learn from it. Take a deep breath and let it go. Whatever happens, happens. You can deal with it IF the time comes... you are honestly stressing yourself out for no reason.


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    I know I know, I'm just going to watch the walking dead tonight, smoke a few cigarette and look at things with a lease of clarity. I will now do research on ANY thing I choose to pursue. You're all right. Hopefully I can get that through my paranoid head. This was a learning experience and it can't kill me.

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    In the nicest way possible, I think you should get some professional help. You are compounding the nightmare and being unreasonable. If you don't want anyone to find you as your real name or cam name then first off get off social media. It is all interlinked and everyone wants to be friends and follow everyone. I am sorry but I am beginning to think we are being trolled.

    Quote Originally Posted by sadexcammer View Post
    Just had a major panic attack because one of my moms clients found her Twitter without them knowing her real name. She used her maiden name on her Twitter account so they probably found it through that but she never uses her maiden name at work. I know it's unrelated but I just want this nightmare to end.

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    No I'm seriously not trolling anyone. I wish I actually didn't do it and I'll leave you guys alone now. My college offers free counseling but I have to get enrolled first to do that. I'm sorry I didn't mean to bother anyone.

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    I just have no one to talk to right now and I came here to vent my frustrations and paranoia. It's eating away at me. I'll take it as a life experience, thank you to everyone who gave me advice.

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    ^^^You are not bothering me. I just think when you're freaking out about your mom's twitter that is not even yours, you need to get this anxiety under control.

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    I just bought tea with honey at Starbucks, gonna have a smoke break in my car. I'm seeing my friend at 8 before the walking dead comes on but my anxiety/paranoia gets bad when I'm by myself. I know it's silly to worry about my moms Twitter but I thought about her clients who would love to show her the pictures of me and be like " I found your daughter on camxgirls.net!!" But my mom doesn't have any pictures of me in her office and I know I'm going through like a psychotic break and I do need this under control. Being by myself right now isn't helping any. You're all wonderful. Hopefully I can find the right counseling/medication I need to get better.

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    what's the best way to stop thinking about it?

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