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    I mentioned a few weeks ago about the guy who tipped me $200. Well he came into the club again last night. Watched me during my set but didn't tip. After it was over I walked around the club and went up to him and did they usual talk to customers thing. He asked for a private dance with little to no hustling from me so I took him to the room and danced for him.

    He was quite for a while but then asked if he could get a lap dance while we were there. I didnt feel uncomfortable or anything so I agreed and he paid so no problems. It did get weird but not because of anything he did it's what he told me.

    He said not to take it the wrong way but that he really likes me. I smiled and flirted a little which he enjoyed and then he told me that apparently I reminded him of someone he used to know who died. A few minutes later he said it was his daughter.

    Now I stayed flirty on the outside and said that I'd be happy to dance for him anytime he wanted, but in my head I was like "WTF he is getting a lap dance from a girl who reminds him of his dead daughter? That's kinda messed up."

    He gave me an extra $100 for the dance and left the club. Said he would be back as often as he could. Seems harmless if a bit strange. I guess if I make the client happy and he tips me well I have nothing to complain about. Still kinda messed up

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    That is weird. Hopefully the extra money will help you deal with the weird fetish guys.
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    yeah it's bizarre but so far I don't think he means any harm. and if he always tips me like this I think I can live with it lol

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    I had a customer like that but with an extreme fetish that made me really uncomfortable. He came in a few times until I told him I would no longer dance for him, even though he spent and tipped really well. For all you know this guy could be for real or full of bs. If it really bothers you I would say the money isn't worth having to deal with the emotional toll.

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    so far while it's a bit weird it's not really making me uncomfortable or giving me a feeling of being unsafe, but I will be careful to keep my head on and not get lost in the high tips he gives.

    Like if he starts asking for too much or gets too attached or anything. I don't need that.

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    Idk if it's a fetish or he understands that you are at work so you need to be paid, and is thus buying dances to keep you around... I've seen some guys who 'shut off' the sexual part of their brain even in the face of naked women.

    Or I'm way off the mark and he really has a creepy bizarre fetish.
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    I couldn't tell you if he was being creepy or being what you said Selina. He seemed to enjoy the dance either way. So for now I'll just dance for him when he wants/pays for it and see what happens.

    One thing he hasn't done is any sex offers or lewd comments. Just said Im beautiful a few times. It felt sincere but you can't always tell of course.

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    ^ Yeah he seems harmless enough, so just take the $$ and be thankful for it.

    I have met a customer who was TRULY creepy in that realm; said I looked like his niece, proceeded to tell me "She'd been caught sexting but I think she's still a virgin", and would only buy a dance if I pretended to be his niece. THAT is the kind of guy you run screaming away from.
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    You are over thinking the situation. Sometimes you get lucky and get customers that are nice for whatever reason and know how to compensate for your time. He seems harmless IMO. Just a lost father who sought comfort from a familiar face. He may have just gone along with doing actual lapdances because 1) That's what he really came into the club for, 2) Wants them from you because your look/age brings back good memories for him, 3) Doesn't even realize a creepy vibe could come from saying you resemble his daughter (sadness messes with the brain). If he brings up you resembling his daughter again you could ask if he would like to go in the back to relax and chat about her. Just let him talk, keep him on happy topics, maybe cuddle, and then dance on him during the lighthearted moments. Then you have that chance to chill out and may not need to dance and feel awkward. Either way, he seems nice and as long as he isn't being inappropriate you'll be fine.

    I've had widowers that say I look like their late wife did when they got married and end up spending hours just talking and cuddling. I know it isn't the same, but sometimes we aren't strippers, we're a type of therapist. These emotion based customers don't always last a long time. They come in to see you whenever they need to feel better, but once they get through their grieving they part ways. Maybe come back on a birthday or anniversary. Personally, I like these people. They are usually sweethearts, and it makes me feel good to know I'm not the cold heartless bitch the regulars think I am. Helping those customers find their happy place is a rewarding thing in a job that doesn't get the respect it deserves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora14 View Post
    You are over thinking the situation. Sometimes you get lucky and get customers that are nice for whatever reason and know how to compensate for your time. He seems harmless IMO. Just a lost father who sought comfort from a familiar face. He may have just gone along with doing actual lapdances because 1) That's what he really came into the club for, 2) Wants them from you because your look/age brings back good memories for him, 3) Doesn't even realize a creepy vibe could come from saying you resemble his daughter (sadness messes with the brain). If he brings up you resembling his daughter again you could ask if he would like to go in the back to relax and chat about her. Just let him talk, keep him on happy topics, maybe cuddle, and then dance on him during the lighthearted moments. Then you have that chance to chill out and may not need to dance and feel awkward. Either way, he seems nice and as long as he isn't being inappropriate you'll be fine.

    I've had widowers that say I look like their late wife did when they got married and end up spending hours just talking and cuddling. I know it isn't the same, but sometimes we aren't strippers, we're a type of therapist. These emotion based customers don't always last a long time. They come in to see you whenever they need to feel better, but once they get through their grieving they part ways. Maybe come back on a birthday or anniversary. Personally, I like these people. They are usually sweethearts, and it makes me feel good to know I'm not the cold heartless bitch the regulars think I am. Helping those customers find their happy place is a rewarding thing in a job that doesn't get the respect it deserves.
    this is actually a great idea. Maybe he would like to just talk about her sometime. I might have to ask him about her if he brings her up next time. Probably best to let him bring the subject up though.

    He did seem a bit sad. I thought it was just shyness at first but maybe it was his way of "seeing her again" I don't know.

    I guess it's kinda flattering in an odd sort of way.

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    Ew, just ew. Creepy.
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    To me, it sounds like he's just a guy trying to handle the grief in his own way. Grief is a terrible thing, and everyone handles it in different ways. Who knows, though. Best of luck with your custie.

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    It's likely that the whole story is made up. Some guys have the strangest fantasies.

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