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    Post Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    I am a webcammer and am completely happy with doing very sexual things with myself only.

    I am not very comfortable with having sex with other people, and certainly not on demand, so I would never offer this.

    I have found that my biggest spenders are guys who just want company, just want to chat mostly.

    Would there be any market for a dinner date service so that my customers could actually meet me?

    I would allow kissing/touching at my discretion, charge 1 set price per meal instead of per hour.

    If I got the inkling that someone was not interested in abiding by my rules, I would not agree to the date.

    If I say no to something e.g. french kissing/hand on my butt and the guy does not stop then would I be able to reserve the right to keep the money on AdultWork?

    Obviously I would charge about half the price a cheap escort does, and get him/her to buy me dinner.

    I just really like food and eating out and talking to people and my cam shows are popular because of how I talk to people (also I'm cute lol) but am not sure if they would want it if there is no possibility for sex. I was thinking about charging around £50-60 per date, plus they pay for everything.
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    Charlie I took a crack at answering this in your other thread.
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    Also, I believe there's threads in Cam Conn about dating cam custies.


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    I would charge way more than that...especially if kissing is allowed! Don't sell yourself short imo...At the SC I'm offered hundreds of dollars for kissing alone (not that I do it, but it seems like there are just as many guys looking for kissing/cuddling/companionship as sex...maybe even more.)

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    Thank you guys! I think you are all very right! Maybe £150-£200 an hour is acceptable. Yes I think the purpose of these sessions would be to make the guy feel loved and appreciated and talk. Seems like that has the same value as getting naked and draining his balls :3

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    Only if it was at a burger king.

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    ^^^you are too crazy

    No one in their right mind would go to Burger King for a date. Good luck with that buddy. Get your money up!
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    Quote Originally Posted by zeke View Post
    Only if it was at a burger king.
    rofl!!!!!! awesome

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    him/her to buy you dinner?
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    If you are going to offer your services as a real-time prostitute (sexual services) or non-sexual companion (no sexual or intimate services), take the money IN CASH at the start of the meeting. Don't use AW for receiving credits for meets as it's against their ToS and you would be risking your account, especially if you get a guy who decides later that he's pissed off you didn't suck his cock/let him finger you/wear revealing clothes etc and he does a chargeback or complains to AW.

    I would also say that you need to decide what your boundaries are and then charge a set fee per hour to encompass everything you offer, on the off-chance that your client will want everything on offer. £150-200 per hour sounds rather high for a dinner date with no sexy sex included or offered, I would say half that would be more realistic OR charge the £150-200 for the entire date.

    However. Having said that, you are obviously free to charge whatever you wish, and there will be guys who want to pay higher prices. Perhaps instead of having a set fee you could negotiate?

    Good luck and keep us updated - and remember: CASH UP FRONT FIRST
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    Thanks Cat, had no idea about that AW rule.

    I really need to think about this. It would be really exciting but making the transition from 'no i will not meet you' to 'yes I will meet you in a strictly platonic way as a paid companion' could be hard. The money excites me more than anything.

    The money is also an issue though. I've seen prostitutes on adultwork who charge even £300-1000 an hour...I'm wondering whether to charge a lot or a little for non-sexual services...
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    I could be wrong but I'm thinking a lot of guys who would do this would think that you are really a prostitute and that sex is actually included but you were just advertising this way to avoid spelling it out.

    I'd also be terrified that the guy would get violent when not getting sex out of the deal.


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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    Charlie Ten,

    It could be more profitable to just a dinner whore and leave AW out of it. I mean you do not want a lot of chargebacks because guys thought it was going to be an escort date. Or men getting mad because you did not have sex with them after the date. In San Francisco, Dinner whores have well-off men or women take them to fancy restaurants and cafes.Usually, it is just dinners and /or other events like plays and stuff. It is more about getting to know each other than sex after dinner.However, I do not know if that is common where you live. Or you could do what CatBBW said and charge 150 to 250 for the whole date. In addition, make sure to get the money upfront and to be safe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CharlieTen View Post
    Thanks Cat, had no idea about that AW rule.

    I really need to think about this. It would be really exciting but making the transition from 'no i will not meet you' to 'yes I will meet you in a strictly platonic way as a paid companion' could be hard. The money excites me more than anything.

    The money is also an issue though. I've seen prostitutes on adultwork who charge even £300-1000 an hour...I'm wondering whether to charge a lot or a little for non-sexual services...

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    I could be wrong but I'm thinking a lot of guys who would do this would think that you are really a prostitute and that sex is actually included but you were just advertising this way to avoid spelling it out.

    I'd also be terrified that the guy would get violent when not getting sex out of the deal.
    True but if she stays in public then only a crazy perv with a desire to get arrested would have the nerve to get violent in public. I am assuming though platonic date would mean being in public.

    Me personally Id only go out on a date in public and during lunchtime/daytime hours. If I did do dinner it would be super early like 4pm.

    And perhaps take a weapon or brush up on your self defense skills - just in case.
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    ^^ It's very sad all the talk about men getting violent and having to bring a weapons or know self defense. There isn't any type of system where men are vetted or reviewed?

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    Lol! I know right. We live in a crazy world nowadays. I don't think she should go in expecting the worse but she should be prepared for anything.

    Even if you screen you still can't guarantee safety 100%. You never know, a person could totally flip on you. Self defense is good to know anytime, just in case.
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    Default Re: Would you theoretically pay for a mostly platonic dinner date with a webcam girl?

    I like the ideal of a platonic escort but I think you are just going to get garbage for clients if you advertise at lower escort rates. I can't give you much advice on how to price your rates. You do need to screen the hell out of your potential clients, though.

    I do like the idea of marketing to your existing cam customers. I like the raffle idea. You might also put the information on your twitter page, and then point your best cam customers to your twitter page. That *might* get you around the TOS with the camming sites, since I think meeting customers or dating customers is against the TOS, no?

    PS: When you said kissing, my mind immediately went to LK, GFE, DFK. Actually it went immediately to DFK. If my mind can go there, I think a lot of other guys will too. So you might want to be explicit there if you plan to offer kissing.

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    PPS: I would just accept a cash donation, in an envelope, at the start of the date, if I were you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CharlieTen View Post
    Thanks Cat, had no idea about that AW rule.

    I really need to think about this. It would be really exciting but making the transition from 'no i will not meet you' to 'yes I will meet you in a strictly platonic way as a paid companion' could be hard. The money excites me more than anything.

    The money is also an issue though. I've seen prostitutes on adultwork who charge even £300-1000 an hour...I'm wondering whether to charge a lot or a little for non-sexual services...
    They may be CHARGING it, but are they GETTING it? Do they have feedback as an escort? Or are have they listed that price in order to put off 99.9999% of the cam guys who hassle her for a meet? (and so that she shows up in searches for an escort in the hope she can hook a few more cam custies and private gallery sales?)

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