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    What do I need to know about platonic escorting/companionship ? Is there a market for it? And could I advertise on adultwork or would I just get guys wanting sex?

    I'm pretty much celibate right now - but I am a cam girl and am nude and sexual in my shows. I have no interest in having sex with a client. I plan to market this service on my cam site with clear rules that guys should not expect anything more. I think it could give me an (excuse the term) 'virgin' quality that could be endearing. I am quite young and successful on cam so I think a couple of guys a week could be interested in my service.

    I would always meet in a public place, never take them back to mine, never go to a hotel except to dine or go to their house, I would get buses to the venue, or get taxis paid by them, booked by me if they want to take me to a wedding for example. I will enforce rules such as no kissing except on the cheek(unless brought on by me), no inappropriate touching of the butt or boob etc (they can put their arm around me like a girlfriend), no sexual activity of any kind, no possibility of anything other than a friendly, intimate yet completely professional relationship. They would get conversation, company, my sense of humour, hand-holding, hugging, a "polite" girlfriend experience if you will. They are paying for a casual, fun experience with me without much pretence.
    I know I'd be good at it, and wouldn't let anybody purchase the service if they didn't respect my boundaries.

    Does this seem like it could be feasible or will guys not take no for an answer? I'm on Adultwork, can I use a disclaimer? (You have to pay even if you break my rules and I leave because you make me uncomfortable). Also how much could I charge for this kind of thing? Maybe half of what a normal escort charges?
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    Default Re: Platonic escorting?

    I'll jump in and provide an opinion.

    Platonic escorting is one of those things that divides genders on sites like this. The women insist it does exist, and say that men who don't believe in it are cheap. They always have a friend who had a sweet old gentleman client, or a very rich man who just wanted to talk, etc.

    The men insist that platonic escorting is a myth, and point to the hordes of actual escorts who are hot, smart, cute, engaging, and glad to go on a date or talk AND have sex.

    The truth is somewhere in between, I'd say, as with most things. Platonic escort clients do exist, but they're very very rare.

    One thing is for sure, you won't reach them with low rates as you suggest. The very few guys who will engage in a relationship like that want to show off their money, not pay bargain basement rates. You should keep it at a high rate; you'll be happier and a better date, and you won't get enough clients to make it worthwhile otherwise. Lastly, of course half of them will try something, and if you keep the money, adultwork will delete your account after a few chargebacks and complaints, and they won't care about your disclaimer. They just don't want the headache.
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    Thank you Bahuba you have pretty much answered all of my questions
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    I agree with Bahuba, I've been on dinner dates for $500-$1,000 with no sex involved. But these were get to know you meetings that could lead to something more so it may not fit your profile. I also have a girl-friday relationship that is 90% platonic. I don't know if these types of guys are very very rare as he says but money isn't much of an issue. I agree to keep your rates high.

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    Default Re: Platonic escorting?

    I've done it but it's RARE as mentioned!
    I think the way to package it is definitely as the Unique Oppurtunity to meet you in person. You may have some luck. Most will want sex and will either assume it's included and you are being discreet in advertising or they will bring more with them and try to convince you ( always the preferred of the two but then you'll have to decide what to do !).

    I wouldn't advertise for it. You'll have to sift way too much to probably be worth it. I would only ( personally ) offer if someone seems interested that has already purchased another service from you ( best cam or club customers ).

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    Get on MFC and do date raffles. You'll make a shit ton in raffle revenue, probably more than you would with just one guy paying you at a single sitting, and then of course like all other girls that do this, keep the resulting "date" short and non-romantic etc. Many girls do things like this once a month and run the raffle throughout the month, so they've more than made their cash by the time a winner gets chosen. Guys are also more likely to respect your platonic wishes because that's just how it is over at MFC, so there's less risk for you too.

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    Default Re: Platonic escorting?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post

    Platonic escorting is one of those things that divides genders on sites like this. The women insist it does exist, and say that men who don't believe in it are cheap. They always have a friend who had a sweet old gentleman client, or a very rich man who just wanted to talk, etc.

    The men insist that platonic escorting is a myth, and point to the hordes of actual escorts who are hot, smart, cute, engaging, and glad to go on a date or talk AND have sex.
    That's interesting you say that. I see the opposite on here, the girls are saying 'get real, you're a SEX WORKER' and people like NoRegrest (who is a unicorn) say it's possible.

    Anyways OP, I think you could get a few takers perhaps if marketed correctly, but it's not really a big thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    That's interesting you say that. I see the opposite on here, the girls are saying 'get real, you're a SEX WORKER' and people like NoRegrest (who is a unicorn) say it's possible.

    Anyways OP, I think you could get a few takers perhaps if marketed correctly, but it's not really a big thing.
    I see what you're saying but look at this thread for example - no one has really said that here. Plus I think this site is the "realliss" to quote ziggy azalea (who I can't stand, by the way) so we don't tend to falsify as much as some other sites. I do think it is pretty clear that cam girl + adult actress or cam girl + escort of any kind is better than those things alone. Camming gives you a wider audience and better marketing, plus thick skin and top level interactive revenue generation technique (otherwise known as hustle). I think OP would have much less chance to bag unicorns if she wasn't a cam girl.
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    Wait! I thought cam girls had the unwritten rules not to meet up with their webcam clients.

    Or is like the thing how some strippers (even though they are told never to leave with club customers) might eventually meet up with customers who become their regulars.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Wait! I thought cam girls had the unwritten rules not to meet up with their webcam clients.

    Or is like the thing how some strippers (even though they are told never to leave with club customers) might eventually meet up with customers who become their regulars.
    I see many breaking the tos of cam sites & getting or giving out their personal information. Seen one do it right in front of a new cam sites owner. I had to call him up & ask WTF are you doing. STOP her, unless you want to be hit with pimping & pandering tickets. Credit card companies all have it in their tos about prostitution, which is against the law for the U.S. accept for a few counties in Nevada.

    Does non-sexual escorting exist? yes Are you going to have to deal with & answer 10,000s of thousands of men expecting sex, sending you dick pics, wanting free sex, regular dates that end up in sex but they don't pay for sex. Escorts have to deal with tons of bs before the book a legit client, those who don't have sex but just provide companionship even more so.

    One of my bff has many men spend lots of money on her, give her lots of money & she NEVER fucked any of them. She is a hustler on another level than anyone else ever. She is honest, let's them know she will never fuck them, marry them no matter what. Even those guys have a shelf life of 3 months. But she met them all in real life, going out on the town to fancy bars & events. She always adored them & offered real friendship & still keeps in contact & talks with them years afterwards for no money or expectations of gifts.
    One guy paid her $10,000 to model for a marble statue to keep in his home. Jewelry, shopping trips, vacations, cars without fucking a single one of them. But she started stripping at the age of 16. Comes from a family of hustlers & con artist. Once she was paid $17,000 for a table dance when she worked in Vegas & never once gave a rub or blow job. Even at 40, we can go to a strip club, fully dressed she will walk out with $300 to $500 from kicking it with the patrons. The strippers & waitress will also tip her because she helped them make way more money too.

    You got to be a hustler, a great friend & know all of them have a shelf life. So you always have to be on the hunt for another. Each guy can be hours of emails, text & calls before it pays off in cash. Each will be an investment of time, energy & most of them will be bogus. Men lie, men will pretend to be rich in order to get that time, attention and energy before you finally meet in person & they give you money. There many who have perfected the art of promising big money, making you jump throw hoops for it to end up with nothing.

    Are you so hot that you can walk into any night club, upscale expensive restaurants & turn heads. Men walk up & offer to pay for everything that night just to spend time around you? To me, that is easy, so easy even management will offer to pay me to stay at that place & not go to another as the night goes on. Do you have that kind of power? Do you have the clothes, purses & jewelry to fit the look that these kind of men expect? Do you have the ability to talk about current events, politics, banking, art at the level that they are at? Are you an expert in fine wines, enough to impress a wine snob? Do you know where all the best dining places to eat at? How about a little dive that has the best food ever, but few people know about it?

    I've dated doctors, lawyers, hedge fund managers, yes being pretty is important but to hold their interest to get them on another level, to get their money you have to be well informed on many subjects. So that in a conversation you can happily surprise them with stuff that is their passion. I can out talk cars & art than most men.

    When men expect more & aren't getting sex, you have to step your game up.

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    Sam38g, that was a spot-on description. I would only add that the girl also needs to be able to charm her "boyfriend's" friends and business associates. Social status can be very important to many men and having the "right" women with you at an event can open doors. It's not just the women that are hustling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    I see what you're saying but look at this thread for example - no one has really said that here. Plus I think this site is the "realliss" to quote ziggy azalea (who I can't stand, by the way) so we don't tend to falsify as much as some other sites. I do think it is pretty clear that cam girl + adult actress or cam girl + escort of any kind is better than those things alone. Camming gives you a wider audience and better marketing, plus thick skin and top level interactive revenue generation technique (otherwise known as hustle). I think OP would have much less chance to bag unicorns if she wasn't a cam girl.
    Not in THIS thread but there was a similar one a few months ago and I remember pretty much everyone was like "Escorting is sex work, don't do sex work if you don't wanna do sexual things".

    I do agree with everyone here that it IS possible but will be a very uphill battle of weeding through a gazillion people who want sex, and will require a lot of 'branding' herself and marketing it the right way.
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    I was going to do it through Adultwork, which means you can also organize to meet clients legally.
    I would have to sift through them using a 'make sure you've read my profile first before contacting me about dates' system but it would help fund my travels this summer and live comfortably right now which is all I need...
    I guess there is an unwritten rule, but I was gonna be strict about new rules. It's just that the guys who stay for a long time and would want to spend that kind of money just to meet me platonically are people I am going to want to meet. Higher rates seems like a good idea...I don't think I could work a site like MFC...
    Yeah, conversation is kind of my thing, I usually talk too much on cam instead of getting naked straight away. I can be classy and would be a realistic young girlfriend option, as well as a figure to speak with, to listen to and get advice from. I can talk about films, music media, news and hot topics for ages, and I'm a good listener. I wouldn't plan on offering it for more than 6 months unless I really enjoy it.
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    Default Re: Platonic escorting?

    If you aren't going anywhere near sex work. you should not be associating with sex workers' or their opinions about platonic things. (Nothing personal about sex workers because I like them too, well, some of them.) Go where well-to-do men are associating and get to know a few. For example learn to play golf and go to golf clubs to play golf and make friends. Some older gentleman, maybe a widower, will likely ask you go to some important event in their lives. Make sure you tell them you like classy dress-up events like cultural things, etc. You may have to explain the non-sexual thing and cover-up the camming thing. You know nothing about any escorting idea and never thought about it. You never have had any idea about marriage or mothering, etc. for reasons you may have to explain. Maybe these ideas will help, but I have no idea what you're going to do about your boyfriends, camming life, etc.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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