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    Default has camming affected your relationship?

    Has it made you closer with your spouse,boyfriend,girlfriend...etc or do you think it has made you drift apart. Maybe is hasn't affected your relationship at all. Just curious how other camgirls feel
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    Default Re: has camming affected your relationship?

    There has been no negative affects for me. In fact, it has pretty much only made my relationship(s) stronger.

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    Camming has made it better because I am more selective, I like my circle small. My radar for bullshit has never been more on point.
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    Agreed. Its made my relationship stronger. I have a better understanding of men and camming has also helped me realize what a good man I've got. Surprisingly I feel like he respects me a little more, that I can use my sexuality as a resource.

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    Probably because now you will only accept gold, tokens not shit!
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    Agreed. Its made my relationship stronger. I have a better understanding of men and camming has also helped me realize what a good man I've got. Surprisingly I feel like he respects me a little more, that I can use my sexuality as a resource.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Probably because now you will only accept gold, tokens not shit!
    Haha yess!! It now makes me want to shake all my female friends when they complain about guys and say "Do you know how powerful you are!"

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    I started camming when I was in my last relationship and it never was a problem. My then bf got a kick out of knowing that men had to pay to see what he had. There was never any jealousy or issues. The guys I've dated since then never had a problem either but that's because I'd never date someone that did have a problem with it.

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    Makes me love & appreciate myself more and more everyday. In the end, if you aren't happy with your job, life, then how can anyone else?

    Lots of people, Millions of people, in fact a billion dollars dating biz prove that we are NOT the exception when it comes to finding love issues. We seem to take it all way to personally & let those who knew beforehand & still got involved off the hook for their bad intentions & actions. Because we feel guilt or shame ourselves about our jobs. Fuck that, I tear them apart if they break my heart.

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    It made my girlfriend feel more secure, because she gets to hear all about my loathing of cock.

    OK, that was too fun a joke not to make, but in truth it's been up and down, mostly because last year we both worked from home so we were constantly in each other's hair. Plus, dildos everywhere - it's a tidying nightmare.

    It's not so much of an issue now I'm at grad school and she's got an office job. We're more excited to see each other when we're done for the night.


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    Yes all the outfits and toys has renewed it!

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    When I first told my boyfriend I wanted to cam, he was shocked and did not really like the idea. Now he has no problem with it at all and it has not ruined our relationship or anything of that nature. He always tells me good luck before I start working and he asks me how my day went every time I log off. He tries to pick out outfits for me to wear and is always thinking of new ways to improve my cam room. It's great and I am very happy he is supportive

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    Initially in 2011, I had to cam at my then boyfriend's house because I was 18 and still living at my parents with thin ass walls. I was on MFC briefly and I have a feeling he didn't mind because his mom had done cam muscle flexing shows in the past, he let me use his laptop and his moms webcam. In fact, I ended up doing a show with her there :0 . Fast forward to him staying in my parents place because his mom made us leave his bachelor pad in a friends house. We didn't know where to get money consistently, and I was camming on the very few days I had alone there plus eBay full time. I paid our very few bills and saved up for a cheap little apartment with sporadic camming. fast forward to now, we cam every day together & We've been here in this apartment ever since lol. He decided to enter the world of couple's camming as a stunt cock in 2012, I'd say camming has helped our relationship a lot more than it has hurt. As a duo, it takes a toll on your sex life so we take lots of arginine/nitric oxide boosting supplements and foods to keep our alone time on point. It can be frustrating to want actual sex that's passionate and just between us when it's cam time, but that's one of the very few drawbacks... That and sore vag/ass. So glad to have my husband as a co-worker to talk about the squatting losers to. He's also in part time assistant mode when I cam solo. Yesterday I made a huge mess all over in a show where I spread raspberry jam on my chest, he was there with wipes in hand when it was over

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    It affected my first relationship negatively - my SO at the time thought chatting and showing his dick to women was a-ok since I showed my tits to men. I thought it was cheating, he was adamant it was not because I did it too. BUT IT WAS MY JOB!

    Now it has affected my new relationship positively! We cam together and we feel even closer every time we cam. Even though it's a job, doing it together is so fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lTina View Post
    It affected my first relationship negatively - my SO at the time thought chatting and showing his dick to women was a-ok since I showed my tits to men. I thought it was cheating, he was adamant it was not because I did it too. BUT IT WAS MY JOB!

    Now it has affected my new relationship positively! We cam together and we feel even closer every time we cam. Even though it's a job, doing it together is so fun.
    That's so not okay. I'd considering that cheating as well. I'm with you chicka!

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    He has his boundaries, but so far it hasn't been bad. I try to avoid discussing camming with him, but once in a while I will let him in on a funny!

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    My current partner prefers I don't do certain kinds of shows (basically anything that he can hear) while he's home but he is happy that I get to do work that I like and doesn't force me to sacrifice my mental/emotional health like my retail job did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lTina View Post
    It affected my first relationship negatively - my SO at the time thought chatting and showing his dick to women was a-ok since I showed my tits to men. I thought it was cheating, he was adamant it was not because I did it too. BUT IT WAS MY JOB!

    Now it has affected my new relationship positively! We cam together and we feel even closer every time we cam. Even though it's a job, doing it together is so fun.
    My current SO used to make comments about doing those things when I started, eventually I made a couples account to show him that it's not all fun and games. After a couple of shifts he started wanting to talk about camming more, and definitely wanting to be on cam less!

    Now he's gonna start marketing for me (social media is not my strong suit!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by EffyRose View Post
    That's so not okay. I'd considering that cheating as well. I'm with you chicka!
    Thanks! I told him "if you're showing your dick to other women AS A JOB it would be fine but you're not!". He was even forming online relationships with them! My customers are that - customers. And they pay for my tits. He just wanted to cheat.

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    My boyfriend knew that I was a professional dominatrix when he first got together with me. He knew that meant cam and live sessions. I have since stopped doing live sessions but not because of him. Although he is the hold everything in and never say anything type of guy, so often times I feel like it bothers him what I do. I would love to share my day with him and details of my video shoots that I do at the dungeon or in my house, or even share videos with him. But I really think it bothers him, I just wish he would be honest and forthcoming about his feelings. It would not make me stop doing what I do, but I think it would be good for him to share and maybe I could make him feel better about it. I think also he keeps quiet because he knows its my livelihood and how I survive.

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    It effected my previous marriage negatively but it was already negative. He actually brought camming back into my life because he was secretly paying for private shows behind my back but yet got pissed and nasty when I did it for a living to try and leave him. My last relationship which lasted 3 weeks the guy said he was okay with it but when I eventually showed him my cam room he said later that it was off putting. At this point in my life I'm very honest about what I do for work when guys ask and quite frankly I'm the decider in my fate, not another person. I like what I do for work and I'm happy which is all that matters to me. In the future I plan on being a paid gf anyway so it's all good.




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    I actually met my future husband as a camming customer. I asked him if he wanted to talk to me without the money involved and now I am engaged to him
    He is a former camboy himself and just super relaxed about my job and very supportive.

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    My husband was against it to start, but eventually he was comfortable with it. He says as long as I'm not doing free shows and it is a JOB he doesn't mind at all. He doesn't overly like hearing about my day though unless it's uhhh "interesting" or funny.

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    As far as jealousy and respect (or lack thereof) goes, there's no issues. He doesn't experience any jealousy at all, ever (crazy right?), so even if I was getting something out of it emotionally/sexually, he wouldn't really have a problem with it. And he respects me as an individual and a woman- he doesn't think any less of me via how I earn money.

    We have had issues with being able to spend quality time together because often the only time I can cam is when he's off work, and also with our sex life. We have to plan it down to the letter because after hours on cam and masturbation sex can be the last thing on my mind, and while I enjoy the closeness of sex no matter what I often can't orgasm or really feel good, which takes the fun out of it for him. He used to get a little upset if I took more than 2-3 days off but after he sat in for a day to show him how fucking exhausting it can be and how it's better for my overall earnings to work hard three weeks a month and take a week off than to work myself into the ground every month, he's started to understand.

    On the positive side, because of cam we have more overall freedom and money, so life is a lot less stressful a lot of the time. Also, it's helped me appreciate him a lot more. It's sooo nice after a long day of being objectified and catcalled and blah blah blah to be held by someone who appreciates me as a woman and a person and a lover, who is going to be sweet and tender with me. Overall I'd say there's some good, some bad, but that's just like any job ever.
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