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    Default Cam Girl Fuck Up

    This is a little long winded, I tried to keep it short.



    Hi lovely ladies! I've been lurking around these forums for a while now, and I finally decided to get this account. Very briefly, I'm 24 and I have been dancing and webcaming on and off for 5ish years now. I've mostly been more "off" than "on" because of a fabulous relationship I had with my SO. It's the typical story. He hated my job and I loved the work and money.


    A couple years ago I tried out MFC and it was awesome. I made it into the top 30 my first (and only) month, and I just adored the guys and the atmosphere. I worked 12 hour days most days and it never even felt like work. Well, during that one month I was there, I hosted a raffle to go on a harmless date. No sex, just a designated meet up and hang out. I'm sure some models would scoff at that, but I was comfortable with it. By the end of the month, my SO was at his wits end. Long story short, I quit. Cut all ties. And never fulfilled my raffle.


    My SO and I are no longer together, we went our separate ways and everything ended peacefully. Now, I can fully pursue my camming career like I wanted to. But I feel like I burned a couple bridges on MFC. I really hurt some feelings and made some people mad (maybe I'm too sensitive)


    MFC feels like the kind of community place where your reputation will either make or break you. I don't want to go back just to fail. Any MFC ladies here have any experience or stories about girls/members in this sort of situation? Thanks guys!!

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    Well, you won't be the first or last to have cut out on a raffle. You're right though--it's not good for your reputation as a model and, in general, you shouldn't offer things that you aren't 100% certain you'll be able to deliver on--but you know that and I'm not here to chastise you for it. It was 5 years ago and you know not to do it again. Not beating a damned dead horse.

    Camming is a lot of hard work and long hours, but if you can hack it, there's is great money to be made. Even 5 years ago, MFC would have been a very tough site to hack it on and end in the top 30. You're clearly willing to put in the time and effort if your first foray was anything to go off of, so there's no reason you can't be successful in camming now. Also, if MFC hasn't already deleted your old account due to inactivity, you can probably just make a new one under a new persona and no one would really make a connection. You're better off having new model status on MFC anyway, especially when starting out.

    The important things to consider are why you left the industry in the first place (reasons beyond SO or just him?) and what you'll do if/when those issues crop up again (date someone new? get back with SO? dating as a camgirl is ROUGH, as many of us can attest). As with stripping, you need to have very clear boundaries of what services you do/do not offer and what product you intend to push. Are you selling videos? Nude shows in public or paid chat only? What's your hustle? Prepare for everything and be prepared to follow through.

    As for hurting feelings of customers, well, 'do what you say and say what you mean' applies here, but there's a difference between follow through and being bullied. If you commit to a date raffle, do so (SAFELY!). Don't let customers complain their way into making you do one. Don't let them convince you to do a show or make content for them you don't really want to. Stay away from show types you aren't comfortable with. The internet is forever and your reputation as a model--especially on a site like MFC--follows you to the point of make or break. As in the strip club, please customers but never let them walk all over you.


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    Oh boy. There may not be a chance to dig myself out of this one. Maybe a different cam site where the 'lounge' doesn't exist? I never thought this would follow me. Man, If I could I'd give the money back.

    I'm very determined. I'm not going to allow anyone to separate me from my independence. Even if I did take time away, I know to never repeat the mistake. But it's almost impossible for anyone to believe me. Actions speak volumes.
    Thank you so much for that post Issabelle

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    Why don't you delete your old account and make a new one? Change your appearance up a little bit, I doubt anyone will remember you just from looks alone.
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    Like I said, it's been five years. Make a brand new account with a brand new model name and brand new pictures and brand new videos. Basically, be squeaky clean different. Models come and go on sites all the time and after this long, I doubt members will notice. If they do, well, denial or feigned ignorance go a long way. If you're truly committed to making cam work for you now that you've learned from mistakes and are in a position to succeed, don't let fear of former customers potentially cropping up stop you.

    ETA: If your old account hasn't been properly deleted (i.e. you can't log in/find the account after a search), then strip it completely bare of photos/info and try to get it fully removed. But seriously, horny dudes have short memories. You're more than likely totally fine.


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    It's been a little over 2 years since I was on MFC. But I started the adult industry 5 years ago. On and off of course.

    I'm sure i'll be recognized, but only by a few. Some of my old room regulars have logged onto mfc within the past 7 days. I'm definitely nervous of going back. Maybe I'll work on some other site, and get the balls to start on mfc again later on? I'm still not sure.


    Such a stupid mistake...

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    Just make up a story! You had a crazy boyfriend, he freaked out, you were scared, you went through a really hard time, you'd rather put it behind you and make amends with whoever lost out PERSONALLY. That should shut anyone up who is not the raffle winner. Please get back on MFC, nobody will care that much I PROMISE you. Imagine a room of horny guys then imagine them caring about something that happened two whole years ago. Your MFC reputation can only be enhanced by a bit of drama, IF there is any. Just pout, say sorry to whoever needs it and tell him the BF is gone. You'll be so glad the BF is gone. Go and conquer MFC once again!

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    It's been a little over 2 years since I was on MFC. But I started the adult industry 5 years ago. On and off of course.

    I'm sure i'll be recognized, but only by a few. Some of my old room regulars have logged onto mfc within the past 7 days. I'm definitely nervous of going back. Maybe I'll work on some other site, and get the balls to start on mfc again later on? I'm still not sure.


    Such a stupid mistake...
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    (I also really hope your bf was paying your bills and providing you with the kind of lifestyle MFC top model earnings provide... Don't date insecure men anymore please, as you have seen they WILL screw with your (very high) earning potential)
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    Damn, thank you harlot. <3


    *He was paying the bills. But not an mfc top model lifestyle. Definitely screwed with the high earning potential. I'll take some blame though. I was silly and allowed it to happen.

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    Delete and start over. You were there for one month, guys don't really have amazing memories. Camsite clientele also changes a lot over the years, and guys financial situations change also, so you might find that some of your old peeps are not around anymore due to money etc. The worst thing to do would be to come to it with the preconceived notion that this will affect things.

    Also as some people have said already, make up a crazy BF story, that always works too.

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    Apologize to those who won, make it up to them with an hour skype session & such. As in own up to it, apologize & make amends. Ignore & act like it didn't happen at all isn't being an adult.

    Once that is done, keep moving forward & chalk it up to a lesson learned. If you can't fullfill a raffle or promise then DON"T do it. Being great at a job is also knowing your own limitations and keeping your word.

    Sam

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