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    First, I thank any member here who will give me their honest evaluation of my situation. Sorry this is so long, but my situation is quite complex ...I think.

    Should I Become An Escort?

    I'm a youthful looking ethnic woman who has been attracted to escorting for many years. I've watched documentaries, bought books on how to run the business, and have the mentality of a Pro (even since I started having sex, I believed a woman should get something out of it or at least have a boyfriend who should be able to well provide for her.) All of my boyfriends have been educated and well-moneyed, my last was "google-able" in that I was a kept woman in a non-sexual relationship, around the world, for 6.5 years. Yes, those "unicorns," as often described here, really DO exist. And no with the country I'm in now, I do not have time for months of "sugar freestyling". I look at dating as a business, I am not promiscuous, and I don't worry about damaging any future relationships. I don't care how anyone views me, that I cannot stress enough.


    I live outside of the US so I wonder a lot about getting caught if I ever were to take the plunge. After so many years of study, a year ago I started a website and advertised but did not accept any gigs. Again, I worried about getting caught and how this would fare on my passport if this happened.

    My fears are:
    -Messing up my passport
    -Catching an STD (personally I don't even have sex every year so -I am not on birth control. I would be using condoms ONLY. And this has always worked for my personal life)
    -Getting a violent customer (whom I cannot talk out of harming me. I've talked/mindfked someone out of raping and assaulting me in a foreign country before but I am not sure about my "luck")

    However, I know that with my mentality, I am perfect for this business...or am I just bulls%%^ing myself? Right now, I am a cam girl and not happy with my income. Though it is indoor safe, I never feel like I earn enough and that these men are annoying, take up too much time, and companies get over on us with their percentages. I wonder if my escort money would suck in comparison. Just 3 hrs of escort work a month and my basic expenses are covered.

    I feel I am getting mindfked by all of this and need seasoned girls advice.

    Thanks

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    Not sure about the country you are in but in the US prostitution is a misdemeanor and to my knowledge would have no effect on a passport
    Not being on birth control and escorting is reckless and irresponsible in my opinion - condoms have a pretty high failure rate
    Be super careful - always trust your gut instincts - dont be greedy or desperate and take calls you have a feeling about - it;s better to pass and be safe

    no one can say for sure if you are or are not cut out to be an escort -- my old bar running buddy used to pick up a different guy every weekend night and she couldn't make it escorting - I was always way more conservative and have been in the industry since 1980 something

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    Nikki Fox, thanks for the valuable input.

    I would like to stay abroad, so I'm not sure how it would fare getting caught and if there would be any repercussions of gaining entry into a new country or gaining a new visa of any sort.

    As for condoms, I've never had so much as a broken condom or pregnancy scare and I don't believe in unprotected sex. I also would clearly list my limitations. However, that is definitely something to think about.

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    Check with the country who issued your passport instead of speculating - then you will know

    condoms AND birth control just because you have been LUCKY this long does not mean your luck wont run out!!!

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    Great points, and they were fairly easy to solve rather quickly.

    If I may ask you, or anyone else willing to contribute, how did you know when you were ready to escort, and if/when there would be no turning back for you?

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    For me, I was ready when I felt comfortable & more confident with my screening abilities, also when I was sick of being broke. I spent a year wanting to escort but reading ladies reviews, seeing everyone's pretty photos, and how upscale the ladies were on their sites made me feel like I wasn't good looking enough or good in bed as these ladies were. I've come a long way from that viewpoint. Stripping wasn't bringing me the income I needed since I started to take rejection from customers personally as the years passed and started to hate it. The heels from dancing also ruined my feet so I had to stop after surgery. There was no turning back after my first appointment because the money was guaranteed after the appointment was over, unlike the rollercoaster of emotions I would experience working at the strip club, depending on the money I made that night.

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    Great points, and they were fairly easy to solve rather quickly.

    If I may ask you, or anyone else willing to contribute, how did you know when you were ready to escort, and if/when there would be no turning back for you?

    Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by eabby View Post
    First, I thank any member here who will give me their honest evaluation of my situation. Sorry this is so long, but my situation is quite complex ...I think.

    Should I Become An Escort?

    I'm a youthful looking ethnic woman who has been attracted to escorting for many years. I've watched documentaries, bought books on how to run the business, and have the mentality of a Pro (even since I started having sex, I believed a woman should get something out of it or at least have a boyfriend who should be able to well provide for her.) All of my boyfriends have been educated and well-moneyed, my last was "google-able" in that I was a kept woman in a non-sexual relationship, around the world, for 6.5 years. Yes, those "unicorns," as often described here, really DO exist. And no with the country I'm in now, I do not have time for months of "sugar freestyling". I look at dating as a business, I am not promiscuous, and I don't worry about damaging any future relationships. I don't care how anyone views me, that I cannot stress enough.


    I live outside of the US so I wonder a lot about getting caught if I ever were to take the plunge. After so many years of study, a year ago I started a website and advertised but did not accept any gigs. Again, I worried about getting caught and how this would fare on my passport if this happened.

    My fears are:
    -Messing up my passport
    -Catching an STD (personally I don't even have sex every year so -I am not on birth control. I would be using condoms ONLY. And this has always worked for my personal life)
    -Getting a violent customer (whom I cannot talk out of harming me. I've talked/mindfked someone out of raping and assaulting me in a foreign country before but I am not sure about my "luck")

    However, I know that with my mentality, I am perfect for this business...or am I just bulls%%^ing myself? Right now, I am a cam girl and not happy with my income. Though it is indoor safe, I never feel like I earn enough and that these men are annoying, take up too much time, and companies get over on us with their percentages. I wonder if my escort money would suck in comparison. Just 3 hrs of escort work a month and my basic expenses are covered.

    I feel I am getting mindfked by all of this and need seasoned girls advice.

    Thanks
    Escorting is considered a high risk occupation in regards to your health, your safety, and with the law. I am concerned, sometimes paranoid about this, for every single appointment because nothing is guaranteed 100% secure in this field. All it takes is 1 client to cause the above to flip your life upside down. Escorts accept these as potential risks, but I think it is a normal feeling that you are worried about these issues, you just have to be as safe as you possibly can.

    I think you won't know if you are right for this business until you try it for an extended period of time. A lot of ladies come and go after less than a year because it is not the easiest industry to be in. There is no such thing as easy money.

    OP, I am not sure what country you live in but as far as your passport goes: I've researched working in other countries in the past and it always seemed like there was less safety resources on clients or provider verification available for providers. The online market seems much larger in the USA and very limited outside of the country, especially with advertisement websites (which is why I never chanced it by working out of the USA). Plus there are different laws for each country so you might want to look them up to weigh the risk vs reward of working in this line of business. I have always found it incredibly difficult to screen out of the country clients online and had to ask for passport id because their information doesn't come up much on the internet for screening and their telephone number as well.

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