Being a stripper, is it hard to date? I imagine a lot of guys would be insecure.

Being a stripper, is it hard to date? I imagine a lot of guys would be insecure.
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It's hard to date (and there are lots of guys who are insecure) irrespective of the stripping career.
However, finding a quality guy as a dancer is not impossible - as evidenced my many ladies here who are in committed relationships or are married.
Are you trying to date a stripper or something? What's up with the rhetorical question?
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





Is it hard to tip?










Give me 50G and never speak to me again. Then we can date.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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Being a stripper is the least of my problems when it comes to dating. Any insecure, judgmental loser who would have a problem with what I do is automatically disqualified from dating me.















It's hard to date because I'm smarter than 90% of the guys I come in contact with, and because my personality itself is not conducive to the culture of dating nowadays.
It has nothing to do with being a stripper.
The only relevant factor there would be they're always afraid you're gonna make more money than them.
Oh, and the fact that stripper-dom has granted me the ability to filter through their bullshit easily and made me not afraid to say "no" or "I don't want to do such and such" and guys my age are NOT used to an assertive woman.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."





I prefer figs to dates
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt




The dating part is easy. It's the conversation about what I do for a living that is a little tricky. I've found that men who are sexually submissive seem to be the most amenable to dating strippers. Cuckold fetishists, especially if the man doesn't even realize he has that fetish, are good for consideration for long term relationships.
If you are talking about dating for NSA sex, then I'd have to say married men are best. Single guys tend to think they want NSA sex. That is, until they start falling for the woman they are with. Sometimes even the married ones can be trouble. I met the man I'm with today while he was still married, if that's any indication. (I know, I know, I'm a horrible person.)





Figs are good, people never seem to think about prunes these days.
Is it Hard? Hmmmm you tell me.
Just kidding.
Use the search next time. https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...the-profession
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”



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(no need to update the link. we get the point)
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I'm borrowing this for the CC section the next time a newbie asks if they can cam without getting naked or showing their face. It's like a bi-monthly occurrence, so it should see some excellent use.
Back on topic--no, dating isn't hard because I'm a stripper. I'm not a stripper. I'm a cam girl. And dating still isn't hard because I'm a cam girl. Dating is hard because a lot of potential partners are too close minded to even talk to me about my job and thus snow ball their misconceptions of my job until it blows up and the relationship collapses. This is not, however, a habit exclusive to my job--close minded/non-communicative types tend to let misconceptions and frustrations snow ball until they blow up/cause the relationship to collapse when just about anything 'uncomfortable' (read: new, with which they do not have experience or knowledge) comes up. And that just means the person was shitty at being in a relationship and therefor not worth my damned time.
Dating is hard period. They say there's someone out there for everyone, but I'm frankly not convinced the vast majority of people are equipped to handle adult relationships at any point in their lives, so I'll keep sorting through the shit until I find a keeper.
The whole world steps aside for the one who knows where she's going.

Yes I'm aware dating is hard regardless. This is obviously a small sample size, but I know about 10 strippers very well, and 8 of them are dating guys who either don't have a job, are in jail, sell drugs, have felonies, or a combination. I've asked other strippers and strip club goers, and they say that's pretty common. It got me thinking why are strippers settling for these losers, which then got me thinking it's probably really hard to date as a stripper, and maybe in a lot of situations those are the kind of guys they think they deserve?
I'm not claiming to know it all. Correct me if I'm wrong. I just want your insight on this. Thanks.
Yep I decided to not tell guys what I do until after the first date or so he gets to know ME first.Worked great with my last boyfriend, Dr. Dreamboat....Told a couple guys on this dating site I was on before we met and they immediately started asking for pics of me in my outfits, wanting to know my stage name and shit like that...Like I immediately ceased being a human being to them and was just "a stripper." Huge turn off.
You're talking about "typical strippers" many of whom have drug problems, mental problems and have been in trouble with the law themselves...Of course they're gong to date guys on their level. Many of the dancers on THIS board tend to be more educated and intelligent than your "average" stripper, and our choices in men are reflected in that. My last boyfriend was a doctor, my soon to be ex worked for a civil engineering company, my first husband was an officer in the military...All drug free, crime free, no abuse or anything like that. Also many women on this board choose not to date at all and simply focus on themselves or have sugar daddy situations because they make more sense than dating (in many cases.)





It is common that they get with those guys, I agree. On Sunday my club's manager was like "Wait, you're legit engaged? And he has a job? And his own vehicle? Holy shit" and then proceeded to tell me I was the only one who had a boyfriend that wasn't a piece of shit. The other girls he knows of are dating the aforementioned loser drug dealers who borrow the girl's car, don't pay rent, etc etc.
I think it isn't necessarily that they're a stripper, except that those who buy into the lifestyle end up spending more time around losers and don't have opportunities to meet decent dudes. Most girls my age seem to go for the hot dude regardless of if he's financially stable or has any kind of brain in his head.
I could get started on a rant about how girls have been taught by Cosmo how they have to get and keep the guys attention, like guys are on a pedestal, but that's another thing. But I'd say that's part of it too.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."
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