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    When I mean accessorizing, I'm talking about the girls who buy nice necklaces, bracelets, designer watches, and purses to wear on the floor. Basically spending a little extra and try to make themselves look "more expensive." Do any of you ladies do this and does it make a difference? Do men really notice the difference between a designer and knock-off clutch or pricier versus costume jewelry? I'm wondering because atm I just use a cheap clutch and don't even wear any jewelry. I do just fine for my club, but am wondering if the investment in looking "more expensive" is worth it... One of the top earning girls at my club always wears a nice necklace and a designer watch, but I don't know if that's a relevant factor in her success.

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    Default Re: Accessorizing - Worth the extra cost?

    oh hell no! if you know how to shop, they cannot tell the difference, nor do they care. imo its more about impressing other women, which isn't what you're there for, and do you really wanna risk getting that $500 watch/cluth/necklace stolen? there are way better uses of your money. and its not like its either super expensive designer stuff or dollar store costume jewelry..there's a happy medium. but i'd definitely keep it to a minimum in the club

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    Nah guys can't tell. I wear a big rhinestone encrusted watch that cost $25, and guys are always like "Oooh are those diamonds?"

    But it can help, if they think your regular gave you that watch or something you're now 'something other guys want' and that makes you in demand bc men are competitive. Same reason some girls advocate for wearing their money on their wrist with the large bills showing. It's worked for me before.
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    No, I really don't think so. Expensive jewelry isn't a foolproof way to look classy. Plus, even if a nice necklace and designer watch is a surefire hustle, I doubt it's cost-effective. Everything that I wear to work gets so banged up eventually, and jewelry that looks like it's been through the ringer is definitely not the look.

    If you want to look more expensive, focus on how you carry yourself. After all, you're what's expensive, not your accessories.

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    Heck no.

    Typically jewelry is seen as a sign of wealth in many cultures. However, dudes in the club half the time are sh*tfaced and could careless about your jewelry. They want to see SKIN! and jewelry can interfere if it's too much and it can get in the way of doing pole tricks if that's your thing.
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    If it makes you feel sexier/more expensive or whatever then wear it...I don't really like wearing jewelry anyway so I don't bother with it.

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    I never wear any jewelry to work, don't want them to get stuck/tangled with my hair or clothes, or risk losing or breaking them, but I always make sure my outfit, make-up and hair is on point.

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    I think the only way it would help is if YOU feel better about yourself as a result of wearing something specific and therefore carry yourself better. Otherwise, guys don't really care. That dancer probably is a top earner not because the things she buys are attracting men, but she buys those expensive things because they make her feel like a million bucks and then that attitude comes across in her hustle. If it's not important to you to have those things, don't waste your money on them.
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    Nah guys can't tell. I wear a big rhinestone encrusted watch that cost $25, and guys are always like "Oooh are those diamonds?"
    This ^^

    I wear a rhinestoned bracelet that I found at the dollar store of all places, and guys ask about it CONSTANTLY.

    In a guy's mind sparkle = expensive, so if you feel jewelry would polish your look, get it from places like claire's, forever 21 etc. Also you're eventually going to lose/break/damage it at the club somehow (I lose earrings constantly?) and you don't want it to be something you'll be heartbroken about.

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    No, guys definitely don't care or notice. Cheap costume jewelry is the way to go, IMO.

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    I got a 7 row rhinestone bracelet from walmart for $9 and I look expensive in the clubs blacklights. I spend most of my money for my stripper wardrobe on cute shoes and bras and panties and wear cheap froever 21 jewelery guys really can't tell and I'd never wear anything expensive in the club anyways because it would get stolen.

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    I stock up on that shiny, rhinestone jewelry from Claires. It's cute and cheap and makes you look a bit more put together. If you look around prom time they always have sales. I feel like having one piece of expensive looking jewelry makes me more money.

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    Last night this guy tipped me $100 for chatting with him while he waited for his girl to cash out then complimented me on my Kate Spade purse. My reaction:

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    My purse is from Forever21.

    In all seriousness though, most guys (even rich ones!) can't really tell the difference between designer goods and cheapo things! Wear whatever makes you feel good.

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    I would never bring expensive designer stuff to work! I would be afraid it would get ruined or I would lose it. Most men could care less if your bag came from Bloomingdales or if it came from Target. I stick with my fake diamond earings (which get complimented all of the time) and my cheap $20 wallet No need to spend the extra $$$

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    Some of my customers have noticed my higher-end watches after we spend a lot of time together. But some guys take an interest in knockoff vs designer when it comes to watches. What guy cares about costume vs real jewelry unless he's shopping for his wife? And if he likes you enough to notice whether your accessories are expensive or not, he's not going to complain about them. He'd be more likely to buy you nicer ones than to stop seeing you.

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    I personally lose my jewelry alllll the time so I never buy nice things. I do like the idea of making it seem like another customer gave it to you so that you appear more "expensive", but i'm so bad at accessorizing at the best of times so I usually just stick to my $8 sparkly earrings ( necklaces always seem to get caught in my hair or get all flipped around and I never remember to put rings on)

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    First night I worked I wore a necklace, it was such a pain to try and keep in place and then I snapped the chain while doing pole tricks. I would almost say it hurts your money more than helps it in my experience, because it's a distraction and looking comfortable is far sexier than looking like your always trying to keep your outfit together.

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    The only jewelry I wear is my body jewelry, nipples and belly. Those do help me make more money. I've worn all sorts of other stuff over the years and guys never notice earrings or necklaces so I don't bother with them anymore. But if I worked in a gown club I'd probably change that.

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    here it makes a huge difference....me, and other escorts at the time, had a big difference on income for wearing jewelry. i am a person in my normal day by day, who used necklaces, bracelets and watch, rings as well and in my culture it does make a difference, i even use them for cam shows and guys do tell me i look classy and many even coment on the things i wear. one of the top escorts in sao paulo, has a super bmw, lots of jewelries and yes, for that reason she charges a lot more than the girls who look simpler. its just that old concept of if u look more expensive, ppl see u as expensive and pay more. just my opinion, but for me it makes a huge difference.
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    Guys cannt really tell the difference! Cheap sarkles look good, so a few dollars are worth of spending

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    If they can tell the difference they're in the wrong place.
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    It's a bad idea to bring anything expensive to the club because it can get stolen, and no, guys are very oblivious and they can only tell the surface stuff (it's shiny so it must be expensive!!) so just go for the cheap stuff that does the job. A lot of my jewelery are forever 21 and thrift store rhinestone stuff under $15.


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    I totally accessorize, but I spend wisely. I can look expensive without spending a ton on accesories. I've bought some really classy looking jewelry for pretty inexpensive prices from Amazon and even beauty supply shops. Same for clutches, I've found decent looking ones that appear upscale for $20. I don't wear knock-offs ever, and will only use designer clutches if it's something I've had a while and don't wear much outside of work anymore, and don't really care about. And a cheaper designer like MK, not something expensive like Chanel lol. But usually I just carry simple cheap clutches. Lately, my accesories have been a pair of earrings I got at Rite Aid for $5 and a Tiffany necklace that, while it looks nice, I've had it for three and a half years. I get compliments all the time, even when I'm wearing the inexpensive stuff. It still looks nice.
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    its more how it looks than how much it costs....if it looks good and expensive, its serves the purpose.
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    I love wearing Pearls, but I would never wear anything real / worth money into the club.

    My "pearl" necklace is 5 bucks, but you cant even tell in the dark club.
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