
Originally Posted by
PurpleLily
You ladies are right on. SCREEN, SCREEN, SCREEN! I use VH, NB, STM, and other sites/applications to screen. I agree with Exxotica and Julianapleases, any gut feeling they are LE I decline the appointment (no availability, whatever) and stop all communication. I only answer calls from guys I have already verified and/or are regulars - even then I might just shoot a text back because I may be busy. If the guy is a regular hobbyist he should be used to providing at least his basic info and references. If you're just smart about it and trust yourself you should be fine.
As far as security is concerned, I carry mace, a pro-grade taser, and my concealed weapons license. I live in an open carry state so check the laws in your area. I do let guys know that I take "appropriate security precautions," and I haven't had any issues. Once a guy got too close while I was in my purse. I had seen him many times, but he just gave me a "feeling." I slid the safety off my taser and "accidentally" hit the button as I was taking things out. The entire evening changed - no issues. Your safety and security is #1.
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