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    Hi I'm new to Independent Escorting and wanted to know diff ways I can screen, I have an account on VerifyHim, what else are great ways to properly screen? if not can you please point me somewhere that talks about it, I tried search but nothing directly comes up.

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    it's awful of me but i don't screen. I'm one of the lucky ones that have been doing this for 3 years and haven't run into too many problems. the only one i can think of was a singular time someone stole my money. BUT! i just Facebook searched his number and found his account, with his wife and all his family's names! so suffice to say...i got my money back. and extra hehe.

    i've run into more problems in the strip club and felt my safety threatened more on the street than escorting. i mostly take incalls though, and it's legal for me here but not the clients...so i have leverage (even if the laws reduce my ability to screen).

    also i get clients largely from review boards where i pay a membership. i trust these men a lot more bc they have a track record of seeing other girls, often a dependable track record.

    when i do the rare outcall, i send my close friends the name of the guy (you can usually get it from an apt buzzer), the address, his phone number, etc... and tell them how long i'll be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    I would also appreciate a step by step (maybe a sticky?) Guide to screening. I have spent hours searching on here but as a newbie to it all can't nail down a step by step screening program.
    Is there a guide like this on Stripperweb? I searched but did not find one. I screen, but I'm always scared I'm not doing enough!

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    Get their full name and phone number and then do a reverse search on the number they give you. There are many good reverse phone number websites you can use, my favorite one is StumpTheMonkey.com. when you get your results, make sure the name that comes up is the name he gave you to make sure he is not lying about his identity. Once you have his name, google it and see what you can find out about him. Make sure he's not a cop, or affiliated with law enforcement. You can also look up his name or number on National Blacklist to see if there are any negative reports written about him by other escorts. It is a paid membership website but it is worth it because you can avoid getting bad clients. Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    Get their full name and phone number and then do a reverse search on the number they give you. There are many good reverse phone number websites you can use, my favorite one is StumpTheMonkey.com. when you get your results, make sure the name that comes up is the name he gave you to make sure he is not lying about his identity. Once you have his name, google it and see what you can find out about him. Make sure he's not a cop, or affiliated with law enforcement. You can also look up his name or number on National Blacklist to see if there are any negative reports written about him by other escorts. It is a paid membership website but it is worth it because you can avoid getting bad clients. Good luck!
    Most of the guys I see have burn phones, just like us, or the phone is registered to their company. A lot of them are from out of the country as well. I think screening is much harder than I expected. Especially screening for LE. I do employment verification, I search their online presence, background checks, and ask for escort references if I can't get enough in other ways, although I have a hard time taking escort references seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    Thank you east coast dancer! I've seen other girls do employment verification or references from other providers, do you do that?
    No I do not do employment verification or get references from other providers. I just find out who he is and once I know his identity I can find out his occupation just with that. I have actually worked with a private investigator before who has access to advanced technologies that can trace even burner phone numbers in certain cases. It is important for me to find out for myself what he does for a living because so many guys lie about their occupation. A lot of cops have side jobs and they can use that for employment verification to pass screening (and many of them do that). A reference from another provider just doesn't mean much to me. Just because a guy acts good for one girl doesn't mean he's going to act that way for every girl he sees.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    No I do not do employment verification or get references from other providers. I just find out who he is and once I know his identity I can find out his occupation just with that. I have actually worked with a private investigator before who has access to advanced technologies that can trace even burner phone numbers in certain cases. It is important for me to find out for myself what he does for a living because so many guys lie about their occupation. A lot of cops have side jobs and they can use that for employment verification to pass screening (and many of them do that). A reference from another provider just doesn't mean much to me. Just because a guy acts good for one girl doesn't mean he's going to act that way for every girl he sees.

    I'm curious about national black list. Has it helped enough for the investment? How long after you sent the fee did you have access to it? I'm going to a new area and wanted to start booking appointments before I get there.

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    I had access immediately after my fee went through with my bank. I would say it is worth it. I once had a customer come into my club and give me his number. I looked it up that night, and found a report on him from a few years ago. Every report written stays in their database for several years. So you can really dig up someones past history with escorts if they have any reports written about them. You can also take note of all the bad names and numbers written about in your city and avoid taking their calls. I have friends who escort and use NB and they have literally avoided cops and rapists because of it.

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    Can someone list all the popular or useful database websites?? Or PM them to me?

    Has anyone thought they screened really well but then found out the hard way that it was a cop and was arrested? Or do you know someone who was in that situation?

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    Hi Ladies, I am getting back in the business after three years and I am putting together my screening plan, here are a couple of ideas I am thinking of. I did ID verification in the past, where I would check the guys ID when he came by and see if it matched the one he book with, only had 1 guy give me a different name, he ended up being ok, I just texted his real name to my email. Another idea is having a potential send you a photo with the date on a piece paper, hell even have them take a id face shot.
    I am still for screening on google also. I do believe in the more you know the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyOne View Post
    I would check the guys ID when he came by and see if it matched the one he book with
    I don't see how that would help though. A officer may have escort references or a side job he used for a work reference.

    What did that do exactly?

    I also don't think any of my clients would feel comfortable sending a photo or identifying photo. What would a photo with the date on it do? I don't get it

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlisonWonderland View Post
    I have a hard time taking escort references seriously.
    True some of escorts can be bitches, like I'm stealing business, but most are very helpful. Of course require some personal information from the guy. A personal phone to call or text and a work number. I ask them what, where and when is the best to reach them. I also require 3 escort references. This means a working phone number and a recent ad from a escort website or their own personal website (not BP). And I need to speak to them personally and they need to tell a little something about the guy and would they see this guy again.

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    I'm always more concerned with LE than a guy being crazy. Yea, I know. Can't explain it but the thought of being arrested has my paranoia at an all time high moreso than the idea of being raped or killed. With that being said, when it comes to screening for cops.. I of course see if they are traceable online. If not, and my gut says they are not a cop, I see them. How I trust my gut? Well for 1, most cops are itching to see you right away, they are good with directions (rarely would one need to stay on the phone too long figuring out how to get to you), a cop wont haggle prices or be all too concerned if that's "really you in the pics.." things like that.

    No this is not 100% foolproof but nothing in this business is

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    I wouldn't trust a guy to give me his real info, so if it's not something I am able to find out for myself by using his phone number or address, then I just trust my gut. I try to talk to guys a little bit and look for little quirks that strike me as being "human". If I am talking to someone who just gives short yes or no answers and doesn't really reveal any sort of unique, genuine personality, then it is really difficult to determine if he is safe or not. And if I believe that there is even a tiiiiiny chance that he could be police, I do NOT go. I am also more afraid of police than crazy guys!

    There are so many ways to screen, many times even if they are calling from a burner phone or phone that is not registered to their name. I don't know if a public forum is the best place to be giving out screening methods, though. Three years with no problems except, like Bambi, I had my donation stolen back. And yes, I put him on national blacklist with all of his work info, full name, phone number, etc, and entered it for public to see as well. If that's the worst thing that happens to me, then I am very lucky!

    Also, I have 1 friend who has been arrested 3 times for prostitution, and pretty much everything Exxotica said about cops is how it went. Every single time. They are always in a super rush and wanting to know where you are every damn second. I even got to read one of my friend's conversations with LE Bc she used a texting app to talk to him, and her boyfriend loaded the app onto his phone using her iCloud. The cop kept saying that he was tired, and that she needed to come quickly Bc he was falling asleep. She told him to stay awake and she would make it worth his while. And he said, "Oh, really? ". Sneaky cops!

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    You ladies are right on. SCREEN, SCREEN, SCREEN! I use VH, NB, STM, and other sites/applications to screen. I agree with Exxotica and Julianapleases, any gut feeling they are LE I decline the appointment (no availability, whatever) and stop all communication. I only answer calls from guys I have already verified and/or are regulars - even then I might just shoot a text back because I may be busy. If the guy is a regular hobbyist he should be used to providing at least his basic info and references. If you're just smart about it and trust yourself you should be fine.

    As far as security is concerned, I carry mace, a pro-grade taser, and my concealed weapons license. I live in an open carry state so check the laws in your area. I do let guys know that I take "appropriate security precautions," and I haven't had any issues. Once a guy got too close while I was in my purse. I had seen him many times, but he just gave me a "feeling." I slid the safety off my taser and "accidentally" hit the button as I was taking things out. The entire evening changed - no issues. Your safety and security is #1.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PurpleLily View Post
    You ladies are right on. SCREEN, SCREEN, SCREEN! I use VH, NB, STM, and other sites/applications to screen. I agree with Exxotica and Julianapleases, any gut feeling they are LE I decline the appointment (no availability, whatever) and stop all communication. I only answer calls from guys I have already verified and/or are regulars - even then I might just shoot a text back because I may be busy. If the guy is a regular hobbyist he should be used to providing at least his basic info and references. If you're just smart about it and trust yourself you should be fine.

    As far as security is concerned, I carry mace, a pro-grade taser, and my concealed weapons license. I live in an open carry state so check the laws in your area. I do let guys know that I take "appropriate security precautions," and I haven't had any issues. Once a guy got too close while I was in my purse. I had seen him many times, but he just gave me a "feeling." I slid the safety off my taser and "accidentally" hit the button as I was taking things out. The entire evening changed - no issues. Your safety and security is #1.
    what is STM? You can PM if its more secret, thanks

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    Thatsthem.com (free)
    spydialer.com (Free)
    zabasearch.com (free)
    Verifyhim.com (Paid, but so worth it!)

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