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    I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on this situation. I don't believe anyone owns a customer, but here is my situation:

    Met a guy a couple of weeks ago sweet old guy he was extremely interested in me. We did dances he got a room, tipped me a hundred dollars and we exchanged numbers because he said he wanted to come back in and see me more.

    So he's been back a couple times now we've done rooms and he tips me super well on stage (50's, 20's, 10's). He said he wanted to see me again so I texted him to come in Saturday when I worked. He did and we did a 15 minutes room, then he said he needed a break to calm down and we should get a drink and he wanted to see me dance on stage then we could do another room a little later. So we go get a table and get a drink. Then they call me on stage as I'm walking to go up before I even get to the stage another girl goes and sits with him on his lap and later brings her friend along to sit there too. My drink was still there too! Mind you it was a busy Saturday night there were tons of available guys to sit with, these girls aren't big hustlers, but they are good friends with the hospitality who I believe most likely told him the guy was doing rooms and planning to do another and to talk to him when I walked away. I've overheard them say to girls before "go talk to that guy when that girl walks away from him." Anyways because he was surrounded by two girls he didn't tip me anything on stage like he would usually.

    So I figured whatever it's busy I'll go make a round they will sit with him for 10 or 15 minutes and leave and I'll come back and get him. What actually happened is they sit with him for over two hours til he finally gets the most expensive room with them, then leaves. He later texts me saying he was disappointed he never got to see me again that night. I replied you had two other girls on your lap and I didn't want to interrupt.

    It kind of irritated me because I'm sure hospitality probably told them to go get him or else why would they sit with him for two hours on a busy Saturday night (he doesn't tip you to sit with him). And I do tip hospitality but usually only around 10 or 20 for a room whereas other girls will give them like half of what they make almost. For example my one friend there who they always try to hook up will give them 40 bucks on a 15 minute room where she only gets 100, leaving her with only 60 or if she makes 200 she'll give them 100. Which is fine for her but unless they hook me up (which they really never do) I would rather just make my own money and tip them what I already do.

    But anyways what would you do in this situation? I don't want to get in argument with anyone. But it irritates me every time I find someone who is really into me and spending on me the second I walk away, one of the girls who is close with hospitality will walk in and not leave til they do something with her. Should I talk to the girls or my guy or do you think it's fair game and I should just let it go?

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    I know this is totally frustrating, but you just have to let it go. No one stole him from you. Your client is a big boy and can make decisions for himself. If he didn't went to spend money on anyone but you he would have told the other girls that he was with someone and he certainly wouldn't have spent two hours with multiple girls and gone to the most expensive room with them.

    Next time he is there, maybe make it clear to him that you'll be right back after you get off stage? Tell him that he can tell the other girls he is spending time with you and hopefully this won't happen again.

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    Sorry this happened to you.

    Unfortunately customers are not as loyal as you'd like to think. Mega hustlers do not care if you leave a drink, a scarf, or whatever items girls try to use to mark their customer.

    Best thing is to sell them the room before your stage performance so no one has a chance to cut in.

    Next time tell your regular to go to the stage with you and dance right in front of his face so he can contInue to focus on you and so no other dancer can hustle him from the stage either.

    You could have went up and been like oh thanks for waiting for me and interrupted them and sat on his other leg! But this is quite aggressive so be ready to pop off.

    But I think you did the right thing and showing them you have other customers and still making money regardless.

    I think he was making excuses too why he couldnt dance with you when he could have easily told them to go away he was waiting for you but he didn't and tried to slick blame you.
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    I agree with Fiona, no one stole him from you. I have had this happen to me, where I leave to freshen up and the girl will go up to them, and customer will say hes waiting for me, and they remain there. Last week, a girl REFUSED to leave. I wont approach a customer if hes with another girl. So the customer kept signaling me to come. Eventually i said, Ill be back when you guys are finished. Then he got up and left the girl, and came to me. Some girls WONT quit, even if your customer told them he was waiting, you never know what conversations took place. I also agree that you ask him to come "keep me company at the stage" That way, he dsnt have a chance to be approached by anyone else.

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    It happened to me as well, and, as I shouldn't take it personal, it still bothers me when a girl does it. BUT it depends how it goes.
    For me, the client booked me for 1/2 hours each wednesdays. so, when he's coming in, we talk, drink, then we go for our long private.

    But I had to go on stage, and a coworker went to see him, he's a regular to a lot of girls, which is fair enough Off stage I went back to him to continue our conversation and we were talking together, he was literrally ignoring her but she wouldn't leave. Then she started talking to him and pretty much slutty-begging him to take her for a private, right in front of me. He could have said no but hey, why not.

    What I do not appreciate in this situation, is how she did it. She saw me talked to him for a long time and when on stage she joined him, and stayed when he was clearly ignoring her. Then she tricked him, his penis weakness lol into having a private, she could have offered to go with the 2 of us, but she didn't.

    I though that was very sneaky of her. When you're talking to a guy with another girl present, you don't ask him for a private, you ask for double private

    To keep the peace and the fun! Anyway, some girls have no respect, or moral and are real sharks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alice_Frenchie View Post
    It happened to me as well, and, as I shouldn't take it personal, it still bothers me when a girl does it. BUT it depends how it goes.
    For me, the client booked me for 1/2 hours each wednesdays. so, when he's coming in, we talk, drink, then we go for our long private.

    But I had to go on stage, and a coworker went to see him, he's a regular to a lot of girls, which is fair enough Off stage I went back to him to continue our conversation and we were talking together, he was literrally ignoring her but she wouldn't leave. Then she started talking to him and pretty much slutty-begging him to take her for a private, right in front of me. He could have said no but hey, why not.

    What I do not appreciate in this situation, is how she did it. She saw me talked to him for a long time and when on stage she joined him, and stayed when he was clearly ignoring her. Then she tricked him, his penis weakness lol into having a private, she could have offered to go with the 2 of us, but she didn't.

    I though that was very sneaky of her. When you're talking to a guy with another girl present, you don't ask him for a private, you ask for double private

    To keep the peace and the fun! Anyway, some girls have no respect, or moral and are real sharks.

    Yes this has happened to me too where I'm with a guy or whatever and another girl will come up and ask him for a dance while I'm with him. One of the guys had already agreed to a dance with me he was just waiting to get his beer before we went and then she came in, but I try to assume it's not on purpose and just move on to the next customer. Luckily there are a decent number of customers at my club usually so it's not too bad.

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    yeah have to agree hes a big boy and he can tell the girls he doesnt want to dance and hes there with you. sometimes tho guys are too shy or dumb to say no, my reg did this to me once and had dances with other girls. i wasnt there that night but the next time he came in those girls full cut me off and tried to elbow me away from my damn regular. so of course, i made a huge deal to him about 'how dare he cheat on me with other girls when i only get ready and come in to spend time with him' and hes never done it to me since.

    i found if you make taking other girls [who arent your friends/without your knowledge] sound the same weight as cheating, itll not only stop regs from doing it, but will see as a kind of 'reassurance' of your makebelief 'relationship' and will decide to make it more 'serious' by coming in to see you more and drop bigger $$

    with regulars youve had for awhile anyway. a one-off custy prob will give zero fucks about things like 'cheating on his girl'
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    You should have gone straight back when you got off stage. "Im backkk babe!! I see you found some beautiful girls to keep my seat warm". And sat right in front of him or on his lap whichever is closer lol. He obv wanted them there cause he didn't ask them to leave. Before you go on stage you need to prep him "now if any other girls come over say no thank you, I'm waiting for her *points at you*, got it? Don't disappoint me." You should have acted furious via text, how dare he!!! Hospitality def sent them over there and may of even put you on stage purposely to facilitate their stealing. They know they tip and you basically don't. You need to get more aggressive or start tipping more. My vote would be become more aggressive and train your custies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    You should have gone straight back when you got off stage. "Im backkk babe!! I see you found some beautiful girls to keep my seat warm". And sat right in front of him or on his lap whichever is closer lol. He obv wanted them there cause he didn't ask them to leave. Before you go on stage you need to prep him "now if any other girls come over say no thank you, I'm waiting for her *points at you*, got it? Don't disappoint me." You should have acted furious via text, how dare he!!! Hospitality def sent them over there and may of even put you on stage purposely to facilitate their stealing. They know they tip and you basically don't. You need to get more aggressive or start tipping more. My vote would be become more aggressive and train your custies.
    I came back to him after and she was the aggressive one and took him in aprivate. I'm not agressive I like to know that the client really want me and is able to say no to someone else. I'm not upset at him, but her, because I think hustling that way to your work colleague's face is rude and competitive, and to me we're a team, not competition, there is plenty for all of us

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alice_Frenchie View Post
    I came back to him after and she was the aggressive one and took him in aprivate. I'm not agressive I like to know that the client really want me and is able to say no to someone else. I'm not upset at him, but her, because I think hustling that way to your work colleague's face is rude and competitive, and to me we're a team, not competition, there is plenty for all of us
    You are not a team. You are not friends. You're lionesses competing to see who can kill an antelope first.

    Teammates share. Unless she cut you in on the private room she bagged, she's not your teammate. If you keep up with that mentality, other girls will use that weakness to walk all over you.

    I used to punish my regular by making him lick the bottom of my shoes if he so much as glanced at the stage. He was so well behaved that he wouldn't let another dancer near him for even a moment, lest he get caught.

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    Bumping this..


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    Are you crazy? You are NO TEAM. You are competition and if you let her take your customer, she will do it again and again. She could of said for all three of you to go but instead she didn't.

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    like everyone said, i don't think they stole him from you, although i know i would be annoyed if that happened to me too. it happens all the time and it sucks but you can't really do anything. i know i would never sit down with a guy who had another girls drink at the table, i personally always motion to the other drink and ask if they're sitting with our waiting for someone, because i think that's the appropriate thing to do. but i also know that doing that isn't required and in stripper world you can't expect other people to be nice/polite/considerate.

    in this situation i usually act friendly and go up to the table to say hello to the girl and customer, then turn to my customer and ask if it's ok to get my drink, maybe comment on how i can see he's busy now. at this point he either says ok and i take my drink or he asks me to stay, which usually leads to the other girl going away. sometimes we all go to the champagne room togehter. but if he doesn't ask you to stay at that point then he isn't really as interested as he says/you think

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    I understand what you girls are saying I just think it's a shame, because I have made good friends there and they didn't need to be reminded not to be bitches. So, to me, we all work together, or at least, with common sense and respect, like in any other job. And those who don't they will just spend their work time being talked about... That is one thing I don't miss in stripping. Girls who don't give a shit about colleagues or even clients.

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    Oh man, this would NOT fly in my club!!!

    I guess, in the future, feel free to hustle their customers while they are onstage. If they get pissy about it, remind them of this little instance.

    Tell them if they don't want you hustling their customers, then they are not to hustle yours.

    In my club, this is very sharky behavior, so in the future you have to do whatever you can to keep the customer's focus on you. Invite him to your stage so he can't be distracted. Or tell him how excited you are about your next room and you can't wait to have even more fun with him.

    At least you made SOME money from him.

    Another thing you can do is ask a trusted ally in your club to sit with him while you are onstage so that the sharky girls can't get to him. Then when you return you can ask your customer if he wants to do a 3 way dance with you and your ally. This could backfire, though, but it's just an idea.

    Probably what I would have done is return to the table, sit on his lap, take a sip from my drink, and say to him loudly so the other girl could hear "Ready to go into the VIP you promised me earlier?" If the other girl doesn't like it, then tough shit. She shouldn't waste her time sitting with customers who clearly have another girl with them.

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    you f*cked up by not claiming him/coming back to him. I would have came back and showed those sharks that this is your customer. It sounds to me that maybe they knew him, judging by the fact they stayed 2 hours. They must have known he was worth the effort.

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