I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on this situation. I don't believe anyone owns a customer, but here is my situation:
Met a guy a couple of weeks ago sweet old guy he was extremely interested in me. We did dances he got a room, tipped me a hundred dollars and we exchanged numbers because he said he wanted to come back in and see me more.
So he's been back a couple times now we've done rooms and he tips me super well on stage (50's, 20's, 10's). He said he wanted to see me again so I texted him to come in Saturday when I worked. He did and we did a 15 minutes room, then he said he needed a break to calm down and we should get a drink and he wanted to see me dance on stage then we could do another room a little later. So we go get a table and get a drink. Then they call me on stage as I'm walking to go up before I even get to the stage another girl goes and sits with him on his lap and later brings her friend along to sit there too. My drink was still there too! Mind you it was a busy Saturday night there were tons of available guys to sit with, these girls aren't big hustlers, but they are good friends with the hospitality who I believe most likely told him the guy was doing rooms and planning to do another and to talk to him when I walked away. I've overheard them say to girls before "go talk to that guy when that girl walks away from him." Anyways because he was surrounded by two girls he didn't tip me anything on stage like he would usually.
So I figured whatever it's busy I'll go make a round they will sit with him for 10 or 15 minutes and leave and I'll come back and get him. What actually happened is they sit with him for over two hours til he finally gets the most expensive room with them, then leaves. He later texts me saying he was disappointed he never got to see me again that night. I replied you had two other girls on your lap and I didn't want to interrupt.
It kind of irritated me because I'm sure hospitality probably told them to go get him or else why would they sit with him for two hours on a busy Saturday night (he doesn't tip you to sit with him). And I do tip hospitality but usually only around 10 or 20 for a room whereas other girls will give them like half of what they make almost. For example my one friend there who they always try to hook up will give them 40 bucks on a 15 minute room where she only gets 100, leaving her with only 60 or if she makes 200 she'll give them 100. Which is fine for her but unless they hook me up (which they really never do) I would rather just make my own money and tip them what I already do.
But anyways what would you do in this situation? I don't want to get in argument with anyone. But it irritates me every time I find someone who is really into me and spending on me the second I walk away, one of the girls who is close with hospitality will walk in and not leave til they do something with her. Should I talk to the girls or my guy or do you think it's fair game and I should just let it go?



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Off stage I went back to him to continue our conversation and we were talking together, he was literrally ignoring her but she wouldn't leave. Then she started talking to him and pretty much slutty-begging him to take her for a private, right in front of me. He could have said no but hey, why not.



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