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    I go every so often to see an orthodontist for check ups cuz i'm having invisalign treatment. Whenever I go he is kinda flirty with me. BTW he is very handsome and not much older than me. He complements me on my nails and one time I brought my guy friend with me and the next time I went to see my ortho after that he asked if that was my boyfriend. I said no just a friend and he says 'oh I thought he was cuz you seemed very close'. He also calls me sweety but I noticed he said that to another female patient who of course didnt mind because he's very attractive.... do you think he could like me or am I reading too much into it? I told my guy friend this and he thinks he's probably like that with all his female patients, that he knows he's good looking so he flirts.what do you think?

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    Default Re: Could he like me?

    Unless you ask or he says so --- Who knows.

    He could just be super friendly and not realize his actions are bordering on flirting. I think he inquired about a boyfriend just in case cause if he's overly friendly/flirty with the wrong woman he could cause somebody's husband to try and kick his a$$
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Never know till you ask..*mini crush note*

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    I so don't have the courage to ask. I would love to though. he probably is just a big flirt.

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    I'm married to a Dr. In that field and it's almost unheard of for them to ask their patients out. It's still such a conservative field. My advice? Mention an event you are going to and tell him about it and say "you are welcome to come" then leave the information up at the receptionists desk to give to him. If he's into you, he will come.

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    Guys are dense as hell. Depending on what you want him for, a fun weekend or a happily ever after, just tell him.

    Somewhere between, ''My mom always said I should marry an orthodontist, are you single?" to "What are you up to this weekend, I'm horny"

    Honestly if they got offended by either question you don't want them.

    The worst case you need a new orthodontist, but you know,risk and reward.

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    Yeah definitely make sure he is not married or in a relationship. Most likely he is, it is very rare for someone who is good looking and successful to be single (unless he is a major asshole lol). Then again, you said he's not that old, so it may be possible. Regardless, I think if you want to take it a step further with him beyond casual flirting, you should try to see him outside of his work. But dont ask him that directly! He could get in trouble. Instead, you can casually ask him the name of a good bar or restaurant or hang out place that he frequents because you know, you're looking for new places to try and new things to do with your friends ;-) or something like that, haha. you can even be like "maybe we'll run into each other!"...he'll get the hint. Let him take it from there and if you happen to see him, then you can approach him and hang out and figure out where he stands with you. Just make sure you do it outside of his work and proceed with caution. Doctors can be huge womanizers and very arrogant!

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    Default Re: Could he like me?

    Quote Originally Posted by dancingdiva1 View Post
    Doctor's have a reputation for a reason...especially young attractive doctors. Women throw themselves at them cause they have money, education, status, ect. I've experienced this bullshit first hand after dating a neurosurgeon.... tread very very very carefully.
    This is exactly what I've warned about doctors in quite a few threads. They are notoriously known to be players....well a good percentage of them. I'm talking ninety percent.

    I personally would only get with a doctor for sugar daddy purposes cause their player ways means high potential for heartbreak should one get emotionally invested and also their long hours and emergency patients mean they would not have much time to devote to a relationship and thus living like a single woman anyways. If I did get with a doctor for a relationship leading to marriage it would only be an older established doctor who performs surgeries cause they make the most money and works with a group so other doctors can fill in if he needs to leave the office.

    But like someone mentioned before depends on what you want, just be cautious. The fact he calls his other female patients "sweetie" is a sign right there. Tells me he either doesn't remember their names or is doing too much "flirting" on the job.

    Omg dancing diva I just noticed the details of your last post and surprisingly our statistics the same lol!
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    Default Re: Could he like me?

    Your male friend is right. He is like that with all his female patients.
    Even if he does like AND wants to pursue you, he could refer you to another orthodontist then ask you out.
    Men like to flirt with attractive women. I wouldn't read too much into it.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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