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    We all Remember August 2015 "Streamgate"! This was the point for me when I lost My Why! I lost Hope because my main site was now Plagued with Tech issues and Little Paying Traffic. My patience was nonexistent! I wasn't smiling or barely talking to my cam customers because I was just waiting to be Disconnected from Streaming. Waiting for Someone to say I only see a Black Screen.. waiting for Someone to say We cant hear you! etc... Waiting for the timer to say Ive been sitting in free chat for 30 mins with no show! You may ask .. What were you waiting to do? I was waiting for and Excuse to Log off!! After 30 mins of sitting in free chat i would say IM OUT!! and then i would Log Off! Well.. my earnings took a Hit! I was only making $1000 to $1200 per week on Sm because i lost my WHY.. My Motivation! Then one night PMSing i was crying.. im never going to make good money on Sm again.. IM done for.. and on and on.. and then i heard saying inside me that my Dad would say." The sluggard Desires and have nothing"" Consider the aint you sluggard who store up there food in harvest!" And i got up and said i will not be Defeated. I didn't take this risk with camming and being found by someone i know to give up now! So i started listening and taking in the words this one Motivational Speaker on Youtube was saying. And it changed my Mind set.. I Went back to making $2000-$3000 plus per week ..depending on the week. I was BACK!! But i owe the credit to this guy! And i hope he can enlighten you as he did me. I listen to this when i wake up and before i go to sleep Everyday.
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    In a completely non-competitive way I wanna introduce you to Simon Sinek. He talks about discovering your WHY and what next. Also he speaks on positive circles and leadership. I saw him live in Chicago and had the privilege of speaking to him afterwards. Typically I don't listen to the words of strangers when I need motivation. I'm blessed with friends and family to give me a boost from time to time. But this guy got to me. What I like most about Simon Sinek is his focus on leadership and how to be selfless in a way that serves you. Empathy+Compassion creates loyalty and trust. I love the concept of discovering your WHY and what drives you.


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    I'm cracking up, I listen to motivational stuff a lot and I was expecting your links to be some fluffy rainbows and bunnies motivational stuff so I was surprised when I clicked one and there was a brotha yelling at me. Great vids though and I love your message!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    In a completely non-competitive way I wanna introduce you to Simon Sinek. He talks about discovering your WHY and what next. Also he speaks on positive circles and leadership. I saw him live in Chicago and had the privilege of speaking to him afterwards. Typically I don't listen to the words of strangers when I need motivation. I'm blessed with friends and family to give me a boost from time to time. But this guy got to me. What I like most about Simon Sinek is his focus on leadership and how to be selfless in a way that serves you. Empathy+Compassion creates loyalty and trust. I love the concept of discovering your WHY and what drives you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    He's cuuuute.
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    My question is how did you get over the black screen issue when you log on with your happy face and ready to give it your all? I rarely if ever complain about Streamate but yesterday for almost two hours I was making nothing because my video would not load and all the guys on mobile could see is a black screen. Webcamcutie was kind enough to help me and check my feed on her phone and all she keeps getting was a black screen. The pause/unpause button didn't work yesterday.

    What do you change when your attitude and motivation aren't the issues but the black screen is?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    My question is how did you get over the black screen issue when you log on with your happy face and ready to give it your all? I rarely if ever complain about Streamate but yesterday for almost two hours I was making nothing because my video would not load and all the guys on mobile could see is a black screen. Webcamcutie was kind enough to help me and check my feed on her phone and all she keeps getting was a black screen. The pause/unpause button didn't work yesterday.

    What do you change when your attitude and motivation aren't the issues but the black screen is?
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    That's pretty obvious and too easy but the OP was able to get her earnings back to great again ON Streamate so I'd like to know what's her secret because I love SM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    That's pretty obvious and too easy but the OP was able to get her earnings back to great again ON Streamate so I'd like to know what's her secret because I love SM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    That's pretty obvious and too easy but the OP was able to get her earnings back to great again ON Streamate so I'd like to know what's her secret because I love SM.
    I dont know her personally. I have NO IDEA who she is, but based on previous post she has very good placement and her money averages were high before SM took a dump on our bank accounts. A positive outlook is great when you're sitting high and your main competition are the people next to you who are the most visible. Some of these ladies can afford these post because the climb isn't that steep. So I agree with the sentiment that trying a different site as an option when you have issues beyond your control. Encouraging people to fix their attitude or their perspective, when the issues are out of their control is insanity. Theres money out there and I dont think it's wise to waste this time on one site. If anything take this winning spirit and apply it somewhere else.

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    I'm sure she's a wonderful model no doubt about it. Streamate almost always places me at #1 under my niche so placement isn't an issue.
    I don't want to give the impression that SM is totally shit for me because it isn't and I'm very thankful for it. SM isn't my main source of income. I am just a little frustrated when once in a while I get hit with a bad case of the black screen.

    AND YESSSS to everything in bold because that does apply to models on every site not just SM!

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    I dont know her personally. I have NO IDEA who she is, but based on previous post she has very good placement and her money averages were high before SM took a dump on our bank accounts. A positive outlook is great when you're sitting high and your main competition are the people next to you who are the most visible. Some of these ladies can afford these post because the climb isn't that steep. So I agree with the sentiment that trying a different site as an option when you have issues beyond your control. Encouraging people to fix their attitude or their perspective, when the issues are out of their control is insanity. Theres money out there and I dont think it's wise to waste this time on one site. If anything take this winning spirit and apply it somewhere else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I'm sure she's a wonderful model no doubt about it. Streamate almost always places me at #1 under my niche so placement isn't an issue.
    I don't want to give the impression that SM is totally shit for me because it isn't and I'm very thankful for it. SM isn't my main source of income. I am just a little frustrated when once in a while I get hit with a bad case of the black screen.

    AND YESSSS to everything in bold because that does apply to models on every site not just SM!
    We all go through this. I get frustrated too when I make the effort and get hit with BB where are you? etc. As long as we are considerate and respectful when it hits other people then it's all good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    My question is how did you get over the black screen issue when you log on with your happy face and ready to give it your all? I rarely if ever complain about Streamate but yesterday for almost two hours I was making nothing because my video would not load and all the guys on mobile could see is a black screen. Webcamcutie was kind enough to help me and check my feed on her phone and all she keeps getting was a black screen. The pause/unpause button didn't work yesterday.

    What do you change when your attitude and motivation aren't the issues but the black screen is?
    This just made me check my feed on my mobile devices and sure as shit the screen is black on both. When I click the X near my name it says that I'm in private. Now I'm wondering how long its been like that.

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    My iPhone is always with me when I work so I can check myself. Wherever I'd get a black screen, the pause/unpause almost always works.
    It will show you're in private if your feed won't load after 10 seconds or so. It's been like that for a while.
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    This just made me check my feed on my mobile devices and sure as shit the screen is black on both. When I click the X near my name it says that I'm in private. Now I'm wondering how long its been like that.
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    & I say, storm the palace, overtake/overthrow the King & Queen..let us now rule.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    My question is how did you get over the black screen issue when you log on with your happy face and ready to give it your all? I rarely if ever complain about Streamate but yesterday for almost two hours I was making nothing because my video would not load and all the guys on mobile could see is a black screen. Webcamcutie was kind enough to help me and check my feed on her phone and all she keeps getting was a black screen. The pause/unpause button didn't work yesterday.

    What do you change when your attitude and motivation aren't the issues but the black screen is?
    Hi.. I mainly post this to motivate someone or someones to keep Pushing! Im all for Girl Power! But I did a few things. Because the tech issues still exisit on Sm it pushed me to split with another sites as well as looking into more Indy and PSO sites. Because I do understand that it doesn't matter how great my attitude is.. If the site aint working.. it aint working. Also Liz told me to open a support ticket with a list of information they needed so they could check into the issues. I still get guys saying they cant see me but its usually guys on mobile. I would reach out to Liz about your issues and see if she could be of some help with opening a Support Ticket.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    I dont know her personally. I have NO IDEA who she is, but based on previous post she has very good placement and her money averages were high before SM took a dump on our bank accounts. A positive outlook is great when you're sitting high and your main competition are the people next to you who are the most visible. Some of these ladies can afford these post because the climb isn't that steep. So I agree with the sentiment that trying a different site as an option when you have issues beyond your control. Encouraging people to fix their attitude or their perspective, when the issues are out of their control is insanity. Theres money out there and I dont think it's wise to waste this time on one site. If anything take this winning spirit and apply it somewhere else.
    Exactly as you said. Take your winning spirit to another site or at least split. I told only my story. It wasn't meant to be a Adjust your attitude type Post. It was only my story on what helped me. IF it only helped one person then for that Im Thankful. It was meant to Edify someone. There is money out here and We all can have it!

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    And PhatGirlDynomite I wasn't sitting High up. I was on row 6 to 7 of the 1st page and Liz couldn't tell me why my placement dropped. My hourly went up but my placement went down and she said she didn't have a clue as to why because my Ranking Page was Good/Excellent. I was like What!! No one knows Why!? So my attitude took a Hit as well as my Patience because I wasn't getting any traffic.. well maybe 3 to 4 ppl then my room would go to 0. In return I started logging off after sitting in free chat for 30mins and my earnings drop along with my placement Again for the 2nd time. Then I found that motivational speaker Eric Thomas and he help me get Back to logging in and Staying log In. When I would get tired of sitting in free chat wanting to log off I would listen to him with my earplugs while STILL online. The trick for me was to Not Log Off!

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    ^^^ THIS has been happening to me. More time online, more time online in pvt, all my rankings are excellent/good and my placement is going down and down every day, makes no damn sense. The same general placement for the last 2-3 years now, I'm a hot potatoe, the lower I go down the less people come by and without regulars I'd probably be screwed at this point. It's so annoying. Obviously something is fucking up with the ranking system, surprise, surprise. BUT I stay online and meddle through anyways, and have almost hit my 40 hr goal I've been trying to get all year long! Just wish my placement would quit tanking, lol.

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    RedCandy, you are totes inspirational to me. I see your amounts in the challenge thread and think, shit you lazy bitch stay online. (except tonight, when I'll be icepacking my pussy)

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    I dont know her personally. I have NO IDEA who she is, but based on previous post she has very good placement and her money averages were high before SM took a dump on our bank accounts. A positive outlook is great when you're sitting high and your main competition are the people next to you who are the most visible. Some of these ladies can afford these post because the climb isn't that steep. So I agree with the sentiment that trying a different site as an option when you have issues beyond your control. Encouraging people to fix their attitude or their perspective, when the issues are out of their control is insanity. Theres money out there and I dont think it's wise to waste this time on one site. If anything take this winning spirit and apply it somewhere else.
    Completely agree with this. It's really, REALLY hard to change, especially when you love your main site and you've always made BANK there. But we have to jump on whatever horse is still running, go wherever the money (currently) is. Just been through exactly this myself but not on SM.
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    RedCandy, do you mind telling what other cam site you are splitting with?
    I do indy too, besides SM but I am looking for one more site.
    Kissess!!

    PS: added this to my playlist! It's super inspirational!! YES YES!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cutie101 View Post
    RedCandy, do you mind telling what other cam site you are splitting with?
    I do indy too, besides SM but I am looking for one more site.
    Kissess!!

    PS: added this to my playlist! It's super inspirational!! YES YES!!!
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    Unfortunately none of this works for me...lol.. the last time I even made $2 grand a week was 2006 thanks to CAMGIRLSHIDE an independent site that is no more.. does anyone remember them? I would have to work 70 hours a week to get that these days.. and that's virtually impossible with dealing with my 2 sons and being 43...... I have done everything under the sun over the last 13 yrs.. I guess I still can't crack the code.. very frustrating, so now I just want to move on with life and do something else.. because it's a dead end for me no matter how many sites or clips or camming hours I put in.. I end up with the same amount every year.. excruciatingly frustrating to continue to sell your time for the same results every year.

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