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    i went to four different clubs today and i didn't get to even audition anywhere. One told me to come back Monday even though I went Wednesday and they told me to come back today, another (spearmint rhino) told me they couldn't hire any more girls because their corporate and the head guy is saying they have too many but the manager had me fill my info out on a paper and said if an opening comes they'd call which I think is stupid because I talked to the manager of another spearmint rhino in Rialto and he said to come in! then the last guy said I live too far away which is a dumbass excuse to me.

    i don't feel like im super ugly and I saw some girls in each and they weren't the hottest shit and I have a nice body but it wouldn't even matter because none of the stupid managers gave me a chance to audition anyway! I'm not wearing crazy make up but I dressed cute so I really don't know what's up

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    I'm sorry to hear that you're having a hard time getting hired.

    There are a couple of reasons that this could be happening, but the end result is the same: all you can do is go back when a different manager is working or move on to different clubs:
    1. It's busy season in many areas, so a lot of clubs are pickier about who they hire -- not to say they aren't hiring at all, since they're always willing to hire a hottie, but just because you're told to come in, doesn't mean you're going to get hired
    2. You aren't presenting yourself in the best possible light -- Is your hair and make up done nicely? Are you wearing outfits that show off your figure? Are you super mainstream looking, meaning no visible tattoos or crazy hair or piercings?
    3. You're coming across as a total newbie -- clubs always hire girls who have never danced before, but if you seem scared or totally clueless, they may not want to deal with it
    3. You're black --- the sad reality is that a lot of clubs cap how many black dancers they hire/let work at a time, so if you're going in when they have tons of dancers and aren't looking your best, your odds of getting hired are that much lower

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    I figure maybe it's because I'm black or I'm acting like a weirdo.. I was nervous when I went in but not THAT nervous, I feel like a I had a good face on and I was confident making conversation with the front desk guy each time. I was wearing jeggings that make my butt look nice, I always get compliments and a black shirt that shows off my boobs and some heel boot things. My hair is straightened (I wear extensions) but I didn't have too much make up on. I'm mixed black like Carmel skinned but I do just get that I'm black a lot. I think that's probably the reason though �� Anyone know black-friendly clubs in La then? :/

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    Hate to say it but this is a racist industry. The prettiest black girl will get turned down 9x out of 10 unless she looks like Naomi Campbell.
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    Default Re: Whats the goddamn secret?!

    Well, keep trying..you don't say what area you're in (you don't have to)..have you checked out some of the threads that are for black women? Maybe they'd help you/give you some ideas..
    Some club mgrs. are just off the wall anyways.
    But, good luck, welcome & as I said, check out some of the threads!

    Here ya go, for starters:https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...te-info-please


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    Default Re: Whats the goddamn secret?!

    What state if you don't mind me asking? I work with black girls before and they have trouble at times

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    Default Re: Whats the goddamn secret?!

    If you're in LA all I know about is Sam's Haufbrau or however you spell it. I think they're black girl friendly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gummygirl View Post
    What state if you don't mind me asking? I work with black girls before and they have trouble at times
    Southern California

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    Default Re: Whats the goddamn secret?!

    Dress up for sure, and have your makeup done. Come in like you're literally ready to work. 90% of clubs I've auditioned for that I ended up working at wanted me to work the night I auditioned rather than coming back later. Additionally some clubs are racist af. It's bullshit, but it's the way it is for now. I'm not black, but I'm counter-culture (facial piercings, weird hair, lots of tattoos) and they don't like that either. Sometimes you can lay it all out on the table and reason with them (like I'll say, you let me work one night, and if I don't make good money for you and myself despite my look, I won't come back), but sometimes they just don't want you at all. It's pretty shitty when they won't actually give a reason though and give you the runaround instead. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

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